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Sorry, You're Not A [Chat]er

TavTav Irish Minister for DefenceRegistered User regular
edited October 2008 in Debate and/or Discourse
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  • SenjutsuSenjutsu thot enthusiast Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    took you long enough

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  • TavTav Irish Minister for DefenceRegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    And hells yes my taste is music is awesome.

    No need to spend the first page praising me for it.

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Sabs. The cheating specifically doesn't mean the relationship is over. Like I said, she could have been confused, insecure. She was certainly inconsiderate to a great degree, but the cheating itself has the potential to be excused. Hell, maybe she likes you both.

    HOWEVER

    She likes you "like a friend"?

    I'm sorry to say, it's probably over between you, as a couple.

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  • durandal4532durandal4532 Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Those aren't the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!

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  • SenjutsuSenjutsu thot enthusiast Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    I listened to thirty-eight seconds of...that

    awful

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Frankly, I wanted either, "I'm [Chat]ing Matt Damon"

    or

    "Let's [Chat] that one more time."

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  • InquisitorInquisitor Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Oh man. That picture.

    It is like, the definition of trying too hard.

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  • AegisAegis Fear My Dance Overshot Toronto, Landed in OttawaRegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

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  • HaphazardHaphazard Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Tav wrote: »
    And hells yes my taste is music is awesome.

    No need to spend the first page praising me for it.

    There's really no need, Tav. :P

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  • SenjutsuSenjutsu thot enthusiast Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Frankly, I wanted either, "I'm [Chat]ing Matt Damon"

    or

    "Let's [Chat] that one more time."

    Had We But World Enough, and [Chat]

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  • AegisAegis Fear My Dance Overshot Toronto, Landed in OttawaRegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    I say it be General [chat]ton for my international relations class.

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  • IreneDAdlerIreneDAdler Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    [Chat]ington Bear.

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  • InquisitorInquisitor Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what saying you like someone as a friend means.

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  • Squirminator2kSquirminator2k they/them North Hollywood, CARegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    I say it be "Trial Of A [Chat] Lord". But that's because I'm watching Trial Of A Time Lord on DVD.

    Not at work, obviously.

    ...

    (Sometimes I watch it at work.)

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  • SenjutsuSenjutsu thot enthusiast Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    [Chat]ington Bear.

    I could have sworn I did that at one point, but search suggests otherwise

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  • HaphazardHaphazard Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what saying you like someone as a friend means.

    WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING THAT!

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  • PrecursorPrecursor Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.
    Or it means that they don't like you at all and they don't want to be your friend anymore and really they're just saying it to spare your feelings.

    I'm not bitter.

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    Wait, what?

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  • InquisitorInquisitor Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Haphazard wrote: »
    WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING THAT!

    Huh?

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  • Hi I'm Vee!Hi I'm Vee! Formerly VH; She/Her; Is an E X P E R I E N C E Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Oh man, I'm in three people's sigs now.

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  • Squirminator2kSquirminator2k they/them North Hollywood, CARegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    I misread "James" as "Jesus" in that post.

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  • PrecursorPrecursor Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Haphazard wrote: »
    WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING THAT!

    Huh?
    I believe that's a quote from a movie.

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  • Hi I'm Vee!Hi I'm Vee! Formerly VH; She/Her; Is an E X P E R I E N C E Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Haphazard wrote: »
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what saying you like someone as a friend means.

    WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING THAT!

    I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND

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  • HaphazardHaphazard Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Haphazard wrote: »
    WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING THAT!

    Huh?

    Had to hear it live just a week ago. Sorry.

    Edit: Yeah, a movie. My life as a movie. Fuck.

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  • TavTav Irish Minister for DefenceRegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    IT'S MY [CHAT] AND I'LL DO WHAT I WANT AND I WANT ENTER FUCKING SHIKARI

    OK?

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Oh man, I'm in three people's sigs now.

    O rly?

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    or "Burma-[Chat]"

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  • InquisitorInquisitor Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Haphazard wrote: »
    Had to hear it live just a week ago. Sorry.

    Edit: Yeah, a movie. My life as a movie. Fuck.

    *e-hugs* Don't worry mang, always more fish in the sea.

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  • IreneDAdlerIreneDAdler Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.

    In my mind, liking someone as a friend just means you like them for who they are, and is completely orthogonal to how sexually attracted you are to that person. I would say that I like my boyfriend as a friend too, because he's my best friend. But I know people use "like as a friend" to refer to having purely Platonic feelings, so I don't really think any conclusions can be drawn from that one phrase alone.

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Precursor wrote: »
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.
    Or it means that they don't like you at all and they don't want to be your friend anymore and really they're just saying it to spare your feelings.

    I'm not bitter.

    Too familiar? How about this.

    "It's not small It's just no the right size for me."

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  • AegisAegis Fear My Dance Overshot Toronto, Landed in OttawaRegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    Wait, what?

    The part after the However I read to mean that liking a person both as a friend and as a romantic interest couldn't coexist. I could have misinterpreted it however.

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  • IreneDAdlerIreneDAdler Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Senjutsu wrote: »
    [Chat]ington Bear.

    I could have sworn I did that at one point, but search suggests otherwise

    It's alright, Senj. You've been judged and found wanting. But don't take it too hard, it's happened to better men than you.

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    Aegis wrote: »
    I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.

    I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.

    In my mind, liking someone as a friend just means you like them for who they are, and is completely orthogonal to how sexually attracted you are to that person. I would say that I like my boyfriend as a friend too, because he's my best friend. But I know people use "like as a friend" to refer to having purely Platonic feelings, so I don't really think any conclusions can be drawn from that one phrase alone.

    She cheated on him, and doesn't want to hurt his feelings, but she 'likes him as a friend.'

    Yes, there's always the chance that she prescribes to a more unorthodox definition of 'friend' in that phrase, but do you really think so?

    I'm absolute best friends with my girlfriend, too. And we were friends before we went out. And before we were going out, know how I liked her? As a friend.

    But I was also attracted to her, and it seems very reasonably obvious that in this context she means she's not attracted to him anymore.

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  • HaphazardHaphazard Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    All those relationship woes make me feel a bit dizzy.

    Edit: Scratch that. Ditzy is more fitting.

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  • SenjutsuSenjutsu thot enthusiast Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Senjutsu wrote: »
    [Chat]ington Bear.

    I could have sworn I did that at one point, but search suggests otherwise

    It's alright, Senj. You've been judged and found wanting. But don't take it too hard, it's happened to better men than you.
    That, my dear, is begging the question.

    You're assuming the premise that there are, in fact, better men than I.

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  • VariableVariable Mouth Congress Stroke Me Lady FameRegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    ugh, after a week of trying to think of a topic I'm going to class with no essay. I can simply not think of a story that involves me feeling solidarity with a group of individuals. sorry, teach.

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Maybe I should just start numbering every line in my post, because really that's what I'm doing mentally, and I only just realized it. I do it so often, I don't know how I didn't even realize it until just now. I constantly do that, set up line by line premises building on each other. Weird to only see it now...

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  • Hi I'm Vee!Hi I'm Vee! Formerly VH; She/Her; Is an E X P E R I E N C E Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Oh man, I'm in three people's sigs now.

    O rly?

    HO SHIT!

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  • HaphazardHaphazard Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Variable wrote: »
    ugh, after a week of trying to think of a topic I'm going to class with no essay. I can simply not think of a story that involves me feeling solidarity with a group of individuals. sorry, teach.

    What about poker night? A story about that?

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Variable wrote: »
    ugh, after a week of trying to think of a topic I'm going to class with no essay. I can simply not think of a story that involves me feeling solidarity with a group of individuals. sorry, teach.

    Uh, what? What about us? You bastard.

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