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TavIrish Minister for DefenceRegistered Userregular
Sabs. The cheating specifically doesn't mean the relationship is over. Like I said, she could have been confused, insecure. She was certainly inconsiderate to a great degree, but the cheating itself has the potential to be excused. Hell, maybe she likes you both.
HOWEVER
She likes you "like a friend"?
I'm sorry to say, it's probably over between you, as a couple.
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what saying you like someone as a friend means.
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what saying you like someone as a friend means.
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.
Or it means that they don't like you at all and they don't want to be your friend anymore and really they're just saying it to spare your feelings.
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what saying you like someone as a friend means.
WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING THAT!
I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.
In my mind, liking someone as a friend just means you like them for who they are, and is completely orthogonal to how sexually attracted you are to that person. I would say that I like my boyfriend as a friend too, because he's my best friend. But I know people use "like as a friend" to refer to having purely Platonic feelings, so I don't really think any conclusions can be drawn from that one phrase alone.
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.
Or it means that they don't like you at all and they don't want to be your friend anymore and really they're just saying it to spare your feelings.
I'm not bitter.
Too familiar? How about this.
"It's not small It's just no the right size for me."
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AegisFear My DanceOvershot Toronto, Landed in OttawaRegistered Userregular
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
Wait, what?
The part after the However I read to mean that liking a person both as a friend and as a romantic interest couldn't coexist. I could have misinterpreted it however.
I'm getting FriendZone argument vibe from your post James. Please tell me I'm wrong.
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what telling someone you like them as a friend means.
In my mind, liking someone as a friend just means you like them for who they are, and is completely orthogonal to how sexually attracted you are to that person. I would say that I like my boyfriend as a friend too, because he's my best friend. But I know people use "like as a friend" to refer to having purely Platonic feelings, so I don't really think any conclusions can be drawn from that one phrase alone.
She cheated on him, and doesn't want to hurt his feelings, but she 'likes him as a friend.'
Yes, there's always the chance that she prescribes to a more unorthodox definition of 'friend' in that phrase, but do you really think so?
I'm absolute best friends with my girlfriend, too. And we were friends before we went out. And before we were going out, know how I liked her? As a friend.
But I was also attracted to her, and it seems very reasonably obvious that in this context she means she's not attracted to him anymore.
I could have sworn I did that at one point, but search suggests otherwise
It's alright, Senj. You've been judged and found wanting. But don't take it too hard, it's happened to better men than you.
That, my dear, is begging the question.
You're assuming the premise that there are, in fact, better men than I.
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VariableMouth CongressStroke Me Lady FameRegistered Userregular
edited October 2008
ugh, after a week of trying to think of a topic I'm going to class with no essay. I can simply not think of a story that involves me feeling solidarity with a group of individuals. sorry, teach.
Maybe I should just start numbering every line in my post, because really that's what I'm doing mentally, and I only just realized it. I do it so often, I don't know how I didn't even realize it until just now. I constantly do that, set up line by line premises building on each other. Weird to only see it now...
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Hi I'm Vee!Formerly VH; She/Her; Is an E X P E R I E N C ERegistered Userregular
ugh, after a week of trying to think of a topic I'm going to class with no essay. I can simply not think of a story that involves me feeling solidarity with a group of individuals. sorry, teach.
ugh, after a week of trying to think of a topic I'm going to class with no essay. I can simply not think of a story that involves me feeling solidarity with a group of individuals. sorry, teach.
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No need to spend the first page praising me for it.
HOWEVER
She likes you "like a friend"?
I'm sorry to say, it's probably over between you, as a couple.
awful
or
"Let's [Chat] that one more time."
It is like, the definition of trying too hard.
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[5e] Dural Melairkyn - AC 18 | HP 40 | Melee +5/1d8+3 | Spell +4/DC 12
There's really no need, Tav. :P
Had We But World Enough, and [Chat]
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[5e] Dural Melairkyn - AC 18 | HP 40 | Melee +5/1d8+3 | Spell +4/DC 12
I think he is saying that when someone specifically tells you that they like you as a friend, they mean they like you in a non-romantic sense. Yes, these feelings can change over time, but, that's what saying you like someone as a friend means.
Not at work, obviously.
...
(Sometimes I watch it at work.)
I could have sworn I did that at one point, but search suggests otherwise
WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING THAT!
I'm not bitter.
Wait, what?
Huh?
I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND I LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND
Had to hear it live just a week ago. Sorry.
Edit: Yeah, a movie. My life as a movie. Fuck.
OK?
O rly?
*e-hugs* Don't worry mang, always more fish in the sea.
In my mind, liking someone as a friend just means you like them for who they are, and is completely orthogonal to how sexually attracted you are to that person. I would say that I like my boyfriend as a friend too, because he's my best friend. But I know people use "like as a friend" to refer to having purely Platonic feelings, so I don't really think any conclusions can be drawn from that one phrase alone.
Too familiar? How about this.
"It's not small It's just no the right size for me."
The part after the However I read to mean that liking a person both as a friend and as a romantic interest couldn't coexist. I could have misinterpreted it however.
Currently DMing: None
Characters
[5e] Dural Melairkyn - AC 18 | HP 40 | Melee +5/1d8+3 | Spell +4/DC 12
It's alright, Senj. You've been judged and found wanting. But don't take it too hard, it's happened to better men than you.
She cheated on him, and doesn't want to hurt his feelings, but she 'likes him as a friend.'
Yes, there's always the chance that she prescribes to a more unorthodox definition of 'friend' in that phrase, but do you really think so?
I'm absolute best friends with my girlfriend, too. And we were friends before we went out. And before we were going out, know how I liked her? As a friend.
But I was also attracted to her, and it seems very reasonably obvious that in this context she means she's not attracted to him anymore.
Edit: Scratch that. Ditzy is more fitting.
You're assuming the premise that there are, in fact, better men than I.
HO SHIT!
What about poker night? A story about that?
Uh, what? What about us? You bastard.