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Ejaculatory etiquette with girls
sirSolarius
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A relationship with a girl has just started to get serious, and the issue of orgasm will come up fairly soon. Not having been in this situation many times, how do couples usually deal with the whole "fluids flying out of my penis" thing during a blowjob/handjob?
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If you're prone to copious amounts, let her know ahead of time too.
I suppose it sounds better than my usual, "BOOM! Headshot!".
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I jest, of course.
It's better when it's a surprise!
Of course, sometimes they may not get the reference, or possibly worse, they may get the reference.
Steam
Yeah, just say it. It's not like they don't expect it.
Chicks dig that, mate.
I just say it. That excites the shit out of some girls.
"Oh baby you're about to make me cum" works well.
On a side note, this also works well during the whole sex thing. I've been told by my GF that the worst thing is when she's really super close and I finish. If you give her warning before you've hit the point of no return you can get an idea by her body movements if she'd love it if you'd hang on for a little while longer or is giving you the checkered flag.
(This thread could be a keeper all of PA H/A shares their "cum line")
If the concern is more "where do I cum?", that's something you should work out beforehand. If she's about to go down on you, ask her "Do you want me to get a kleenex ready?" It's a way to say "is it ok if I cum in your mouth?" that isn't going to be as offensive if the answer to the latter would be "no."
If it's a handjob, you can probably assume you need to have a kleenex or something similar ready.
You know, with an FAQ, and room for people to ask questions if the answer isn't up there already.
It's best to let her know either by telling her or giving her a signal that you have discussed previously, such as squeezing her shoulder or something.
Perhaps the OP could tell us what they were referring to.
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I cant imagine that working.
The entire forum is pretty much full of all peoples sex anxieties as it is, trying to condense all the questions people have into an FAQ or single thread would be impossible. You wouldn't even think to put in a "Q: Where should I come?" for example.
You can always talk to her, if she's ready to put your penis in her mouth she's ready to talk about your penis in her mouth. Also, as an added bonus, talking about sexual things with your lady friend can be a big turn on :winky:
And definatly DO NOT put your hands on the back of her head.
Under any circumstances.
I know you want to, and it's like a natural reaction, but don't.
Seriously.
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I actually worked at work on Saturday. Also I went out on a date with a real life girl.
Can you like, permanently break the forums?
As for the etiquette: go for the eye. She'll love it.
Seriously, you can't ask a question like this here. Some like to swallow, some like it all over there breasts some like it on their face, some don't care where it is, and some don't want it anywhere else except inside a condom.
Talk to her.
That's been my rule of thumb. Let them know it's about to occur and let them do what they wish.
damn it
are you fine with it? does she have any problems with it? then, shit, i think you're in the clear.
it's not gay... it's nasty IMO, but that is no where near gay.
Man, I never had a problem with it, I could never taste it.
Don't forget to follow it up with a SWEET SASSY MOLASSY!
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My current GF said never on her boobs again.
So, just talk to her. See what she wants.
As for kissing afterwards, it's not gay. at first I was like "ew" but I had went ahead and did it without thinking and it clicked in my head that, holy shit i didn't even taste anything. So then to me it became nothing unusual to kiss after oral.
Now if you kiss her while the cum is still in her mouth, then...yeah I guess that could be gay. Sort of. More gross then gay though.
On a slightly diffrent topic she always kisses me after I go down on her. She never has a problem tasting herself on my toung and lips... also it's a turn on to me :winky:
The best advice is DON'T LISTEN TO US AND TALK TO YOUR GF. She can give you far more specific advice on how to play the game than we can. I'd ask "Hey, do you mind if I ____." That way, while "playing the game," I'll know what do do and won't have to keep hitting the pause button to find out.
I've had ex's who don't care. I've had ex's who knew when I was about to and would act accordingly. I've had ex's who wanted me to let them know or do something different (ie. rather than in my mouth, how about on my face and then take pictures?).
Talk to the GF. It might not be as awkward of a conversation as you think.
Oh, and I don't kiss afterwards. That's my personal thing. I know guys who don't care at all. It's all up to you.
Asking during the action is also a great idea. My GF finds it hot when I ask to go on her chest. But it varies from woman to woman. ASK!
AS for kissing. If you don't want the taste in your mouth, keep some gum handy. It works for me...
Your chest? Face? The potted plant? Goldfish bowl? In your sock drawer?
Have her make it a surprise, if you have to run to get there, she'll enjoy it more.
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If you are serious here, you should dump her right now.
Seriously though, that is the kind of thing an asshole jock will say is 'gay' because they don't know what 'gay' is, and think that you being 'gay' means 'will bang me in the ass if I drop the soap.'
Think about it. Would you want her to recoil in disgust if you went to kiss her after going down on her?
If she's swallowed it, or spat it, it's not in there any more. Do you worry about sticking your dick, or face in her vagina even though piss has come out of it before? Do you worry about the food she's eaten that day being in her mouth because omg you don't like Chinese food?
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and i should have said "gross" instead of gay, i have no problem kissing her after but i don't want to taste myself, will I taste myself would have been a better question there.