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21st Birthday

MeeOkMeeOk Registered User regular
edited February 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
I was wondering if there are any actual.. "traditional" things you're supposed to do on your 21st birthday? There's no way I'm doing 21 shots of anything, but other than that, I've not found any information on anything. It should be a pretty big crowd of people that are going to come party with me.

Also, I get drunk kind of ridiculously easily, so I know I'm going to have to keep tabs on how much I drink and what I drink anyway, but.. suggestions for that would be relatively welcome also. Thankies

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Anyone who remembers their 21st birthday is doing it wrong.

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  • HeartlashHeartlash Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Good call on skipping the 21 shots. Not the most healthy idea.

    I say get some wine and some friends and celebrate classy style.

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  • Dunadan019Dunadan019 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    my friends used to get the 'birthday boy' fall down black out drunk and then throw them in a bathtub full of icewater which would instantly wake them up and then there would be a hugs from the soaking wet dude race....

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  • DemerdarDemerdar Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Get as fucked up as you can, you only turn 21 once! At least, that's what I did.

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  • corcorigancorcorigan Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    It should involve moderates amount of good alcohol. Then you remember it and enjoy it.

    Huge amounts of cheap alcohol is for your 17th birthday.

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  • grungeboxgrungebox Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Thanatos wrote:
    Anyone who remembers their 21st birthday is doing it wrong.

    This. If you want to pace yourself, just get beer and mixed drinks. Your friends will be buying you shots all night, so cut loose but be careful to make sure they aren't all really harsh shots like jager or knob creek or something. Just make sure you have someone that will take care of you that night.
    Heartlash wrote:
    Good call on skipping the 21 shots. Not the most healthy idea.

    I say get some wine and some friends and celebrate classy style.

    Um, is that before or after the "Sex and the City" marathon? :)

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  • HeartlashHeartlash Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    grungebox wrote: »
    Um, is that before or after the "Sex and the City" marathon? :)

    In between the Appletinis, actually :P

    I should specify I was referring to this wine:

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  • PeregrineFalconPeregrineFalcon Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Funny how all the advice in this thread seems to run the polar opposite of every other one. :P Also, I remembered my 21st. My 19th, that's another story.
    Just make sure you have someone that will take care of you that night.

    Goddamn limed with salt and tequila. Make sure you've got friends that are willing to either keep you from going to, or willing to bail you out of, jail. :)

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  • MeeOkMeeOk Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    I've got about 2 dozen friends of varying degrees of closeness who want to celebrate with me (some are people I've known for years and others are people I know via PAX). So having people to watch my back is taken care of.. I just started liking some beers, so I'll take that into consideration. Regarding shots, especially Jaeger.. I don't want to be puking drunk. I did that once. Mild alcohol poisoning does not = good times.

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  • MoosehatIVMoosehatIV Saw a blimp once Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Just get drunk, black out, and generally make an ass out of yourself.


    Also, for fun, write down all the drinks you had down on your arms (You can write out each drink, or just do a tally for each shot or glass of beer). Seeing as you will most likely wake up covered in writing anyways, it will give you a good tally of the carnage. The only problem is that this may make your drunk mind competitive.

    Have a good 21st and be ready for bloody marys in the morning.

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  • TK-42-1TK-42-1 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    get 2 bottles of propel water and chug one before you goto bed and have the other ready to drink when you wake up. you will feel much better for it.

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  • EggyToastEggyToast Jersey CityRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    There aren't any traditions, especially if you ask to ask around ;D Most people buy alcohol in some form. You don't have to get super-drunk or even drink anything. Worst case, ask your friends and do what they want to do.

    That being said, alcohol poisoning is bad. Blacking out or pissing yourself is also bad. So don't be a pushover.

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  • ImprovoloneImprovolone Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    I went to Disney World. Didn't have any alcohol that day.
    Fuck whomever says you have to do anything on your birthday.

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  • TK-42-1TK-42-1 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    its traditional to go bar hopping and get free shots unless youre a communist.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Yeah, having a bottle of gatorade or something similar (pedialite works, too) near where you're sleeping next to a bottle of ibuprofen is a good idea. That way, after you wake up at 8:00 needing to pee, you can chug it, take the ibuprofen, then wake up for real around noon feeling a lot better.

    And make sure it's ibuprofen; tylenol and alcohol don't mix.

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  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    You get hammer drunk on free shots by declaring it to be your birthday at every bar you go to. Then you throw up outside one of those fine institutions, hose yourself down, go inside, dance, and make out with random chicks / guys.

    EDIT: To get over your hangover, when you get home, you pound one bottle of gatorade for each shot you can remember taking before going to bed. You then take some ibuprofen or some aleve (naproxen sodium).

    Make sure it's a flavor you don't like, in case you hurl.

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  • Sir CarcassSir Carcass I have been shown the end of my world Round Rock, TXRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    TK-42-1 wrote: »
    its traditional to go bar hopping and get free shots unless youre a communist.

    Yeah, do a bar crawl. If you don't want to get too messed up, just have a different draft beer from each bar you go to.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    MegaMan001 wrote: »
    You get hammer drunk on free shots by declaring it to be your birthday at every bar you go to. Then you throw up outside one of those fine institutions, hose yourself down, go inside, dance, and make out with random chicks / guys.

    EDIT: To get over your hangover, when you get home, you pound one bottle of gatorade for each shot you can remember taking before going to bed. You then take some ibuprofen or some aleve (naproxen sodium).

    Make sure it's a flavor you don't like, in case you hurl.
    This is a good way to get water intoxication. One or two bottles is more than sufficient to take the edge off a hangover, with another bottle when you wake up.

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  • DarkSymphonyDarkSymphony Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    my 21st was spent doing the following:

    I got drunk in a car with 3 guy friends and a girl I was dating. all passengers got HAMMERED and we a took a trip to Montreal (funny, we were all 21 and decided Montreal was just more fun than VT even though were weren't only 18). about 20 minutes after our trip we hit the border into Canada, went by the border patrol just fine and an hour later were in Montreal. By about 7pm after visiting with another girl we knew going to college there, we hit any bar we could find. I got some free shots all night (enough to keep me wasted all day and night long). My friend and I got so obliterated by our drinking and competition with one another that we both ran to the closest alley (or what we thought was an alley) to take a much needed piss. Turns out this "alley" was some guys driveway. I pissed on his fence and he pissed on the guys BMW (into his air intake), he came running after us and instead of going back to where we were staying we got lost in the inner city area. We lost the guy who was running after us screaming in broken-french and we hopped busses all night long going to strip clubs and other bars. Somehow we made it back to the girls house we were staying at, but we were both outside, almost completely naked on the ground sleeping under a tree.

    stupid? fuck yeah. fun and completely awesome and a really good memory? emphatically yes.

    I'm only 26 and while I don't do shit *quite* that stupid anymore, I do have my share of awesome moments. Turning 21 (for me) was all about celebrating being young and stupid.

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  • MeeOkMeeOk Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Can't take ibuprofin because I'm allergic to it, but I will have to remember the gatorade/propel/what have you and the Aleve. I know I don't have to drink, but I want to, and I think all my friends' heads would explode if I didn't, as all of them like drinking.

    As far as having a hang over goes, and potentially feeling ick for a while, I have that under control. I'm taking some vacation days following my birthday, so I can do what I like.

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  • embrikembrik Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    We can all recommend that you get completely messed up, but I think that's the wrong way to approach this.
    I don't have fun when I spend half the night throwing up. Even if it was fun right up until that point. The best memories I have that involve drinking are the ones where I have enough to be very happy and uninhibited, but not to the point where all of my mental faculties are gone. Everyone is different though. If your idea of a good time is drinking yourself into oblivion, then by all means, go for it, it's your 21st. But if you're uncomfortable with that amount of "cutting loose", you're not going to remember the night fondly.

    For me, I let my friends buy me drinks, and I got a great buzz going. I had a glass of water for every third or forth drink too, so I wasn't in bad shape. When I woke up the next morning, I had wonderful memories and no headache. To me, the best night out is not one where you pay for it the next morning.

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  • MeeOkMeeOk Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    embrik wrote: »
    We can all recommend that you get completely messed up, but I think that's the wrong way to approach this.
    I don't have fun when I spend half the night throwing up. Even if it was fun right up until that point. The best memories I have that involve drinking are the ones where I have enough to be very happy and uninhibited, but not to the point where all of my mental faculties are gone. Everyone is different though. If your idea of a good time is drinking yourself into oblivion, then by all means, go for it, it's your 21st. But if you're uncomfortable with that amount of "cutting loose", you're not going to remember the night fondly.

    For me, I let my friends buy me drinks, and I got a great buzz going. I had a glass of water for every third or forth drink too, so I wasn't in bad shape. When I woke up the next morning, I had wonderful memories and no headache. To me, the best night out is not one where you pay for it the next morning.

    This. This is what I hope for my birthday. I do know that a lot of friends wanted to buy me drinks, so maybe I'll split celebrations up over a couple of nights, or else have them buy me appetizers instead of purely alcohol or something. I hope to never ever black out from booze. Or anything, honestly. Bleh.

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  • DarkSymphonyDarkSymphony Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    yeah seriously, don't black out. you want to remember it and look back and say "oh man that was amazing"

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  • TwoQuestionsTwoQuestions Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Am I the only one who didn't do anything for his 21st? Maybe I should shave my goatee and say it's my 21st even though I'm turning 23 in a couple of months....

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  • PeregrineFalconPeregrineFalcon Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    yeah seriously, don't black out. you want to remember it and look back and say "oh man that was amazing"

    Not roll over and say OH JESUS FUCKING CHRIST WHO PUT A MANATEE IN MY BED :lol:

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  • Moses555Moses555 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    If you are worried about having to take awful shots, just state to all your friends at the beginning of the evening, that you will do any shot, as long as the buyer does the same one. This usually prevents the worst stuff (4 horsemen, everclear, etc)

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    4 horsemen is not an awful shot. You want awful shots? For my birthday, one of my friends got me a shot of tequila in ranch dressing. He tried to pay for it, and was told "no, if he does this, it's on the house." It really wasn't as terrible as you'd think. In fact, I did it again a few days later. Also, Everclear isn't legal in Washington (I have to go down to Portland to get it), so he doesn't have to worry about that one.

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  • Sir CarcassSir Carcass I have been shown the end of my world Round Rock, TXRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Am I the only one who didn't do anything for his 21st? Maybe I should shave my goatee and say it's my 21st even though I'm turning 23 in a couple of months....

    I went to Chili's with my finance and 2 friends and just had dinner and some beers. By the time I was 21, getting hammered had lost its luster. I was just glad to be able to have beer or wine with dinner now.

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  • MeeOkMeeOk Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Thanatos wrote: »
    4 horsemen is not an awful shot. You want awful shots? For my birthday, one of my friends got me a shot of tequila in ranch dressing. He tried to pay for it, and was told "no, if he does this, it's on the house." It really wasn't as terrible as you'd think. In fact, I did it again a few days later. Also, Everclear isn't legal in Washington (I have to go down to Portland to get it), so he doesn't have to worry about that one.

    I've had everclear, absinthe, and a handful of other things.. I primarily drink rum or vodka, just recently tried Jaeger, and I don't think I've ever had tequila. It sounds really ick to drink that with ranch, though. A friend is insisting that she's going to buy me a blow job shot, and that I have to do it from somebody's lap. And, um, not that it matters, I'm one of the 6% from the poll that was done recently.

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  • [Michael][Michael] Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    As far as drink suggestions go, I thought getting everyone around to down an Irish car bomb all at once was fun. My 21st was only a month or two ago, I hadn't had a single drink in my life before it, and my first drink was an Irish car bomb. Also, bar hopping is great; you get lots of free drinks. Also gonna echo this advice for the 3rd or 4th time:
    Just make sure you have someone that will take care of you that night.

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  • naporeonnaporeon Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Thanatos wrote: »
    4 horsemen is not an awful shot. You want awful shots? For my birthday, one of my friends got me a shot of tequila in ranch dressing. He tried to pay for it, and was told "no, if he does this, it's on the house." It really wasn't as terrible as you'd think. In fact, I did it again a few days later. Also, Everclear isn't legal in Washington (I have to go down to Portland to get it), so he doesn't have to worry about that one.
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  • naporeonnaporeon Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Also, Thanatos...you and I should take this kid out, show him how it's done.

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  • Akilae729Akilae729 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    My 21st birthday was punctuated by "Liquid Cocaine" shots.

    151 + Goldschlager + Jagermeister

    Get your friends to buy you some of these and you're 21st is going to turn into a night of legendary proportions.

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  • MeeOkMeeOk Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Excluding the suggestions of beer and wine, more than one of any of these would probably.. be a bad idea. I'm only 5'4" and asian. :\ I can have about 3 rum and coke, for example, and be perfectly good. I only have to have an occasional drink every once in a while after to stay happily buzzed/a little drunk.

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  • GoodOmensGoodOmens Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Am I the only one who didn't do anything for his 21st? Maybe I should shave my goatee and say it's my 21st even though I'm turning 23 in a couple of months....

    I honestly don't have any memory of my 21st, but not from blacking out or whatever. It was just a day. I don't drink so that held little meaning for me, and I've never really gotten into birthdays. I probably went out to dinner or something.

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  • JasconiusJasconius sword criminal mad onlineRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    If you have some female friends of the bisexual nature I would highly recommend going to a classy strip club with them and a guy or two. Bringing women will get you extra attention. Go early though, like 8PM, to avoid the seedy crowd.


    I did that, it was fantastic. Expensive though, prepare to spend $80+ per person depending on consumption.

    As far as drinks. You can start with a shot or two, and after that, you can have anything you want, because you probably won't be able to taste it.

    Tequila will fuck you up rapidly, and if you are a mutant like me, you will find it to be rather palatable (if you get the good stuff, I recommend Patron).


    The only advice I have (and I only pass this down from my friends because I've never tried it) but do not mix dark liquor with clear liquor. Down that road madness lies.

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  • VoodooVVoodooV Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Am I the only one who didn't do anything for his 21st? Maybe I should shave my goatee and say it's my 21st even though I'm turning 23 in a couple of months....

    Nope, you're not. I just never got the point of getting drunk on the 21st birthday. It's so easy to get access to alcohol once you get to college, I was a seasoned drinker by 20, so running around to various bars seemed kinda silly just because I could get it legally. I had kinda gotten the whole "woo drinking" thing out of my system by then.

    I think mostly though it's because I'm not a huge fan of bars, I'd rather throw my own party or go to someone else's party. I think I did go out and bought some beer or maybe a bottle of something hard...but it's not like I got wasted or anything.

    I got really blitzed on my 30th however

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  • W2W2 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Am I the only one who didn't do anything for his 21st? Maybe I should shave my goatee and say it's my 21st even though I'm turning 23 in a couple of months....

    I didn't, but that's because I did the "go out and get shitfaced" thing when I turned 18. For my 21st I just went out to a quiet, smallish dinner.

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  • oldsakoldsak Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Thanatos wrote: »
    4 horsemen is not an awful shot. You want awful shots? For my birthday, one of my friends got me a shot of tequila in ranch dressing. He tried to pay for it, and was told "no, if he does this, it's on the house." It really wasn't as terrible as you'd think. In fact, I did it again a few days later. Also, Everclear isn't legal in Washington (I have to go down to Portland to get it), so he doesn't have to worry about that one.

    Tequila with an oyster in it. Equal parts confounding and awful.

    OP: Really the only reason one's 21st birthday is a big deal in our culture is because it's the first time one can drink legally. So drink up.

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  • MeeOkMeeOk Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Jasconius wrote: »
    If you have some female friends of the bisexual nature I would highly recommend going to a classy strip club with them and a guy or two. Bringing women will get you extra attention. Go early though, like 8PM, to avoid the seedy crowd.


    I did that, it was fantastic. Expensive though, prepare to spend $80+ per person depending on consumption.

    As far as drinks. You can start with a shot or two, and after that, you can have anything you want, because you probably won't be able to taste it.

    Tequila will fuck you up rapidly, and if you are a mutant like me, you will find it to be rather palatable (if you get the good stuff, I recommend Patron).


    The only advice I have (and I only pass this down from my friends because I've never tried it) but do not mix dark liquor with clear liquor. Down that road madness lies.

    Ah.. I've been the female friend taken along to a strip club for a friends' birthday before.. It was honestly pretty sad, it was only me, birthday dude, and one other person.

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