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So I'm going to eat Ethiopian for the first time with some friends.

stavesacrestavesacre Registered User regular
edited February 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
I'm very excited to see these guys after so long, but I have no idea what Ethiopian food is like. I get a bit overwhelmed when I see a new menu that i have no idea about.

I notice they have Lamb, which I like. But I also like veggie dishes (most Indian food I enjoy is vegetarian).

What would you suggest for my first meal eating Ethiopian food.

And secondly, and more importantly, same question but for my wife. She is 16 weeks pregnant. Unfortunately for her, our last trip to eat Indian food annihilated her stomach. But she normally eats Indian food all the time (loves it). I'm guessing the spices did not agree with the baby.

So with that in mind, what would be a dish she might be able to eat without regretting it later.
Here is the menu for the restaurant we are going to if that helps:

http://www.dukemrestaurant.com/WOTand%20FITFIT%20CO.htm

Thanks guys. Much appreciated.

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  • rchourchou Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Ethiopian food is eaten communal style with no utensils on a big plate with really delicious pancake like sour bread to sop up the proteins / dishes. There's probably an option at the restaurant to dine western style, but it's way less fun.

    It can get kinda messy, but it's definitely an experience.

    As far as the food goes - it's about as spiced up as Indian food, maybe a little less. Haven't eaten it enough to give specific recommendations for the wife, unfortunately.

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  • SammyFSammyF Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    I'm looking over the menu right now to see if I can pick something out, and I'll edit, but I'll just share this right now: it's messy, it's savory, and it's awesome. Ethiopian food is eaten by taking a largely-unleavened, moist flatbread, tearing it off to use as a wrapper, and pinching communal food out with your fingers. It's a lot of fun, and the communal nature of how a group eats at most Ethiopian restaurants means your wife should have the opportunity to pick and choose among a few things.

    The spices aren't like Indian vindaloo or curry or anything. It's much more subtle, in my experience.

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  • DjeetDjeet Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    The ethiopian food I've had uses similar spices to Indian food, and can be just as spicy* as Indian food. Her best bet would be to ask the waiter which are the milder dishes and if a dish is served spicy or mild, order it mild.

    Stand out veggies at my last visit was a lentil dish that resembled toor dal, but cooked down so the moisture was absorbed and it was the consistency of mashed potatoes. A "salad" that seemed to be composed of mung dal beans, onion, spices and tomato. Spicy collard greens and a spicy eggplant dish (I normally dislike those vegetables). Injera is a flatbread that presents like a thick crepe and you use it to eat like a chapati/roti in Indian cuisine.

    We brought our 6 month old along, and although the waiter told us the cabbage dish and the salad dish were mild enough for the baby, he totally ate up the lentils and they did not negatively affect his digestion.

    *Edit: Here I mean heavily flavored with spice, none of the Ethipian food I've eaten has been "hot" as in capsaicin from chillies "hot". If I ate a spoonful of garam masala, that would be spicy. If I ate a nice orange habanero pepper, that would be hot.

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  • EggyToastEggyToast Jersey CityRegistered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Of course Djeet, what do you think kids in Ethiopia eat? ;D

    Anyway, the idea behind most of the restaurants is to get a couple different things -- think of it like "middle-east tapas." So both you and your wife should get a couple things.

    When my wife and I go with friends, we typically all order different things and then try some of everything. Your hands get messy, but not like eating wings or ribs.

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  • Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    For some reason I read this thread title as 'An Ethiopian'.

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  • stavesacrestavesacre Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Awesome guys, thanks! If anyone else has words of wisdom or suggested things please chime in. I've got until Friday.

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  • life3life3 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    I always use yelp when I'm going someplace new.

    http://www.yelp.com/biz/dukem-ethiopian-restaurant-washington

    Personally, I go for the sample platters when I go to the Ethiopian cafe around here.

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  • tsmvengytsmvengy Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    Dukem is good, you will not be disappointed. Pretty much everything is awesome.

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  • EskimoDaveEskimoDave Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    remember to eat it properly use your fingers.

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  • kaliyamakaliyama Left to find less-moderated fora Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    dukem is one of the best ethiopian restaurants in the country, i would feel happy eating whatever reads well to you there.

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  • PheezerPheezer Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited February 2009
    I just ate Ethiopian food for the first time last weekend!

    None of the curries will be very spicy if the place I went is any guide, and I'm told it's a very authentic restaurant. So don't shy away from those too much. Also, try the lentils. It'll come out probably as a brightly coloured yellow or red paste. The paste is delicious.

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    edited February 2009
    Ethiopian is awesome. Sooooo good.

    I second Pheezer's recommendation of the lentil dishes. They look terrible: a reddish or yellowish pile of slop. But they are so good, especially the red lentils.

    I also usually get kantisha, which are spicy mushrooms.

    Really, though, you can't go wrong. It's all good. And they can generally make it as spicy as you want it, from not spicy at all to flames going down your throat. Just let your wife tell the waiter/waitress that she's pregnant and has a very sensitive stomach and can't handle spices and they'll be careful. They can also give you some yogurt which you can put on whatever you're eating to mute the spice even further.

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  • SammyFSammyF Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    I usually prefer the yellow pea vegetarian dishes--it's full of country goodness and yellow peaness.

    Wait, that's not right.

    Anyway, yes: lentils. I'm wondering whether some people here are eating some weak-sauce Indian food or whether I had weak-sauce Ethiopian food. Everything my ex from Mumbai ever fed me would peel paint if you let it sit on the hood of a car, it was so spicy.

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  • The Raging PlatypusThe Raging Platypus Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    If you're old enough, don't stint on Ethiopian beer. It's almost all brewed from honey, and pairs very well with their spicy meats.

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  • SceptreSceptre Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    As someone who has never tried Ethiopian food, but has a restaurant for it literally down the street, this thread has inspired me to go check it out.

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  • illigillig Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    i'd recommend you don't pick a single dish, but instead go for a tasting platter your 1st time at an ethiopian restaurant

    the restaurants i've been to had such items on the menu (usually a vegetarian one, meatatarian one, and mixed)

    and i 2nd the "get lots of beer" suggestion...

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    edited February 2009
    All the ethiopian places around here also serve a dark slightly sweet brazilian beer called Xingu that is damn good with spicy food.

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  • 3lwap03lwap0 Registered User regular
    edited February 2009
    tsmvengy wrote: »
    Dukem is good, you will not be disappointed. Pretty much everything is awesome.

    I've eaten at Dukem as well, and it was pretty good. Order a little of everything. I also recommend the honey wine, it's pretty damn good.

    The bread they use is usually a thin, cold, pizza shaped deal, you just tear off a piece of the bread, scoop and eat. Some of the stuff is spicy enough to melt the eyeballs out of your head, but a good portion of the stuff there isn't really spicy at all.

    It gets crowded there pretty fast, so get there early. :)

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