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Is it so wrong for a man to have a teddy bear?

NewGeekPhilosopherNewGeekPhilosopher Registered User new member
edited April 2009 in Debate and/or Discourse
Because I have one, or rather, a teddy Frog, named Froggy. I got him to replace the far less imaginative squishy green pillow with beans in it. There's something about teddy bears and stuffed animals that are warm and fuzzy to me, even though I am a dude. If it's still cool to play Pokemon, why the stigma about teddy bears owned by guys? D:

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  • Local H JayLocal H Jay Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    haha, it is so not cool to play pokemon

    just do it

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  • JamesKeenanJamesKeenan Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Mildly on topic,

    It severely irritates me when I hear things like, "Ugh, I can't believe I know that."

    or

    "I hate the fact that I understand you."


    It just reeks of further purposeless marginalization and stigmatization and other big words for very simple concepts.

    Being nerdy or "smart" is "uncool," and you have to make damn well sure when you speak that you are definitely not proud of knowing something. Not just with games, though specifically here I'm speaking of games on a game comic forum.

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  • BecclescakeBecclescake Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Nowt wrong with it at all!

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  • MuddBuddMuddBudd Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I have a teddy bear. I am thirty years old and I've had it since I was a child and I will never get rid of it.

    His name is choo-choo.

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  • japanjapan Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Who says it's wrong?

    If you disagree with them, ignore them.

    People worry too much about other's perception of them.

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  • KalTorakKalTorak One way or another, they all end up in the Undercity.Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I have a dog named Dog. My girlfriend has a monkey named Monkey. We've got several other animals with similar names, but those two are the originals from when we were like 3.

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  • TheStrangerTheStranger Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Nothing wrong with that in the slightest... though it may raise eyebrows...

    I myself still have the stuffed lamb that I had when I was but a tiny lad.... she sits on a shelf in my closet.

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  • CherrnCherrn Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I have a stuffed Cthulhu. It's the happy/chaotic middleground.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited April 2009
    I still have the one that a cop gave to me when someone smashed the minivan I was riding in when I was two. It's packed away safely and securely and I'm not sure what I'm going to do with it, but I still have it.

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  • EinEin CaliforniaRegistered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I got, like, trained with triggers when I was a baby. If I'm laying down and someone rubs my face/head, I go out like a lightbulb.

    Coincidentally, I had a blanket that I was conditioned to do the same thing with. I still have it, because it makes going to sleep hilariously easy, and when it's absent I get all restless during the night.

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  • KalTorakKalTorak One way or another, they all end up in the Undercity.Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Ein wrote: »
    I got, like, trained with triggers when I was a baby. If I'm laying down and someone rubs my face/head, I go out like a lightbulb.

    I got triggers trained into me too, though not as nice as that one. My older brother used to relentlessly tickle my sister and me on the front of our necks - to this day if you try to touch the front of my neck, I'll instinctively recoil like a turtle, sometimes pretty violently. My sister is the same way.

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  • Gabriel_PittGabriel_Pitt Stepped in it Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Is there actually a stigma about guys _owning_ teddybears? If they still needed to sleep with one, that'd be one thing, and if their desmene was festooned with a royal guard's worth, that'd be another. I have a stuffed dog named Patrick who sits on top of my TV, because he's a big stuffed dog with a fedora and looks awesome there.

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  • ShadowfireShadowfire Vermont, in the middle of nowhereRegistered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Is there actually a stigma about guys _owning_ teddybears? If they still needed to sleep with one, that'd be one thing, and if their desmene was festooned with a royal guard's worth, that'd be another. I have a stuffed dog named Patrick who sits on top of my TV, because he's a big stuffed dog with a fedora and looks awesome there.

    I always need to sleep with -something-. If my wife or one of the cats isn't in bed with me, I need a stuffed animal. -shrug-

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  • GoodOmensGoodOmens Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    To paraphrase "The Truth About Dogs and Cats,"

    It's alright to love your teddy bear. Just don't LOVE your teddy bear.

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  • Rhesus PositiveRhesus Positive GNU Terry Pratchett Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I've got a bear in a sailor hat that I've had since I was very young. He doesn't hang out with me much, though, but I'm glad he's still in my room.

    When I leave university and move out of my parents' house properly, I'll probably take him with me. I doubt I'll take the other animals I collected when I was younger, though, like the two-foot Pumbaa I got at Disneyworld.

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  • JudasJudas Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    There are some people who have to shoot heroin into collapsing veins located in the most unseemly places on their anatomy...just to get through the day.

    If all it takes for you is a daily hug of your teddy bear, count yourself lucky and leave it at that.

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  • ObsObs __BANNED USERS regular
    edited April 2009
    Yea its ok, Teddy Bears were named after Teddy Roosevelt, who was a badass.

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  • descdesc Goretexing to death Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I had various stuffed animals when I was little, but when I was 6, I lost my main teddy bear on a vacation. I was so distraught that when we came home, I gathered up the rest of my stuffed animals and told my parents I didn't want them, or any other stuffed animals, ever again.

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  • TrusTrus Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I have a small yellow bear with a purple heart (and a bell inside it) plus a polar bear that I have had since I was like 1, they will be with me forever!

    I also have a green dinosaur named Gooby...

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  • MuddBuddMuddBudd Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Mine just sits in a drawer with some other stuff.

    Except when I watch Toy Story 2. Then I have to take it out for a bit.

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  • EchoEcho ski-bap ba-dapModerator, Administrator admin
    edited April 2009
    MuddBudd wrote: »
    I have a teddy bear. I am thirty years old and I've had it since I was a child and I will never get rid of it.

    His name is choo-choo.

    Likewise. Well, minus the name. He's sitting in my bookshelf, keeping the demons away while I sleep.

    I actually still sleep as if I had a teddy. I tend to wake up and discover that I've bunched up one corner of the sheets under the arm as if I was holding it around a teddy bear. Muscle memory is interesting. :P

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  • emnmnmeemnmnme Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Cherrn wrote: »
    I have a stuffed Cthulhu. It's the happy/chaotic middleground.

    http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/81337

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  • JHunzJHunz Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Man, you guys are small-time. Between myself and my wife, we own the following in stuffed form (spoilered for length):
    1 Cthulhu
    1 Firefox
    1 Winnie the Pooh
    1 buffalo
    1 cardinal
    4 bunnies
    2 stingrays
    1 whale
    2 turtles
    2 hedgehogs
    2 dolphins
    2 iguanas
    3 various pokemon
    2 seals
    6 bears
    2 monkeys
    2 jellyfish
    1 giant squid
    1 kangaroo
    1 mouse
    1 unicorn
    1 duck
    2 Koalas (remember, koalas aren't actually bears)
    1 reindeer
    1 penguin
    1 tiger
    4 cats
    4 dogs
    1 pig
    1 wolf
    1 weasel
    1 bluejay
    1 squirrel
    1 chipmunk
    1 owl
    1 beaver
    and 2 things that are cute but defy classification
    About half of those are mine.

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  • OrganichuOrganichu poops peesRegistered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Never in my life have I had a teddy bear or other stuffed animal- or plushy or animal themed pillow or blanket.

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  • SentrySentry Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I think guys can have a teddy bear.

    Just never, ever wish for it to be real.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sEXCyzkRl_U&feature=related

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  • Vic_viperVic_viper Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I have a stuffed Totoro.

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  • ZombiemamboZombiemambo Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Mildly on topic,

    It severely irritates me when I hear things like, "Ugh, I can't believe I know that."

    or

    "I hate the fact that I understand you."


    It just reeks of further purposeless marginalization and stigmatization and other big words for very simple concepts.

    Being nerdy or "smart" is "uncool," and you have to make damn well sure when you speak that you are definitely not proud of knowing something. Not just with games, though specifically here I'm speaking of games on a game comic forum.

    So are you proud of seeing tubgirl or lemon party? Because if I were to accidentally let slip that I had seen either one I'd be making it extremely fucking clear that it wasn't something I enjoyed

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  • NartwakNartwak Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    See, when someone becomes histrionic over pointless shit like that it makes me inclined to assume the opposite.

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  • MikestaMikesta Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Man, I grew up with like a million stuffed animals. They each had names and different personalities, and I would kind of play out a scenario, like a theatre production with stuffed animals, on my bed before I went to sleep.

    Shoo Shoo was the name of my favorite, a little white seal. Man, she (or he, it was never entirely clear) was just bouncing off the walls with energy. I remember she'd have these episodes where she'd start yelling "Shoo! Shoo shoo shoo shoo!" (she was named after the thing she yelled, and she predated Pokemon!) all loud and shit, and she'd have, like, this seizure thing where she started spazzing out all over the place. Then she'd get in my face and start yelling again and it was all cute.

    Then Shoo Shoo got older, as I did. But instead of growing, he/she just got all ratty and his/her eyes fell out.

    So now she's in kind of a vegetative state.

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  • TavTav Irish Minister for DefenceRegistered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Vic_viper wrote: »
    I have a stuffed Totoro.

    I envy you.

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  • Teslan26Teslan26 Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    haha, it is so not cool to play pokemon

    QFT


    However, there is no stigma to a couple of teddies.

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  • cj iwakuracj iwakura The Rhythm Regent Bears The Name FreedomRegistered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I have a Sailor Moon alarm clock, so if I can own that, you can own a teddy. :P

    (The SMT Lucifer figurine I have probably balances out the sugary factor with utter chaotic destruction.)

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  • Mortal SkyMortal Sky queer punk hedge witchRegistered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I've had a stuffe Cat in The Hat doll since I was three. Poor bastard's not in the best condition, but he's still awesome.
    I also have a strange tendency to give inanimate objects feminine nicknames. The most infamous example is my knife, Isabella, but others include my custom backpack, Katyusha, and my PS3, Riza.

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  • monikermoniker Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I <3 my teddy and am never getting rid of it. She can sit on a bookcase in my bedroom surveying all that I have become since 8 months. Though I guess I'll have to give her up eventually when I have kids, and let them play with 'er.

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    edited April 2009
    A steady stream of stuffed animals come in and out of my life to the tune of one or two a year.

    Girlfriends or friends will get me some little bear or rabbit or something, something that reminds them of me or me of them. I keep the ones that have the most meaning and give the remainder to family members or coworkers with kids.

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  • ahavaahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I've got tons of stuffed animals. But my favorite is my pale blue teddy bear with a rattle in his left (or right) foot. Got him when I was about two. His name is, originally enough, Blue Bear.

    I also end up curling up with a corner of the blankets, or a pillow, when I'm sleeping.

    My boyfriend had a stuffed tiger, but we had to hide Tiger a while back because my boyfriend had a really really high fever one night and the tiger was staring at him and wouldn't stop. So we had to hide it.

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  • DocDoc Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited April 2009
    Mildly on topic,

    It severely irritates me when I hear things like, "Ugh, I can't believe I know that."

    or

    "I hate the fact that I understand you."


    It just reeks of further purposeless marginalization and stigmatization and other big words for very simple concepts.

    Being nerdy or "smart" is "uncool," and you have to make damn well sure when you speak that you are definitely not proud of knowing something. Not just with games, though specifically here I'm speaking of games on a game comic forum.

    Also the use of the word "magically" to marginalize an argument. As in, "just because we legalize needle exchanges, it will magically reduce the number of health issues addicts face?"

    Aside from that, it's not "wrong" to have a teddy bear, as you aren't really hurting anyone. It is counter-productive to being a socially successful adult.

    Doc on
  • monikermoniker Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    ITT Doc hates on not putting away childish things.

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  • ObsObs __BANNED USERS regular
    edited April 2009
    When I grew up I stopped giving a shit about putting away childish things.

    Obs on
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