Well, it's his fathers new wife. His mother is actually tolerable most times.
Anyhow. Per my husband his Dad was never religious. He is now married to a much younger woman who IS very religious. That's fine, live and let live. The rub is she keeps shoving her religion down our throat. Religious pamphlets, books, lectures, bible verses hand written in cards. It annoys me. A lot. I really want to write her a polite letter explaining that while we're glad she thinks of us, the pushes to her religion aren't really appreciated. (Some sort of southern baptist.)
Is this a bad idea? It annoys my husband too but he's pretty non confrontational. I don't want to piss her off because she has a lot of influence on my husbands father. I don't know if it makes a difference but she's much younger than his dad, maybe about 20 years.
I'm not religious at all, if anything I believe in the FSM.
I guess I just generally don't like the woman much either. His dad moved from HI to CO to be closer to his sons, but, because she didn't like the cold she pressured him to move to FL. Now he's 50 with no savings at all and no where near his sons. Not my business, but meh.
So should I ask her to stop or just stay silent?
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Christianity has spread to the point where it's nearly impossible to not have heard of it, and the only thing we should be doing is living our lives and being loving, caring individuals so that in the event of somebody being interested, we can witness. Otherwise, it's preachy and generally a good way to alienate individuals.
Tell her you'll ask her about it if you're interested, but you know exactly what she believes and you don't need her to go into it anymore.
Edit: TL;DR -- You need to make it clear in a very non-confrontational way that the religious stuff isn't working and that she's wasting her time while alienating you.
How about "I appreciate your good thoughts but I hold my own beliefs."
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I share similar beliefs to you (hail the FSM) and bringing up your own beliefs, even in that regard, should be avoided unless you really want to have the discussion. It sounds like you just want the shit to stop, in which case I recommend Joshofalltrades approach. Understand she's probably coming from a place of concern for you and your husband... as misguided and annoying as it might be. Just tell her thanks, it's appreciated, and you know who to turn too if you have questions about Jesus. Then ask her if Jesus could microwave a burrito so hot, even he couldn't eat it.
So sacrilicious.
I like that you touched on the feelings she's probably having. With all the wonderful people at PA, I just know somebody is there to pick up the slack when I forget something.
For my own personal solution I'd do something severely offensive and very insulting just for the purpose of pissing her off. but that's just me cause I hate religious people with a passion because of my upbringing (no offence to any religious people)
It's okay. I hate people who have a handle starting with K and ending with eyScourge. (no offense to any people whose handles start with K and end with eyScourge)
It seems I've gone off track here. Just ignore me, everybody else does.
Letters are poor tools of communication compared to a conversation, and often come off as passive-aggressive.