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That said, you know what the right thing to do is. You tell your parents the exact circumstances of what happened. The fact that you've let this go for two weeks without telling them is bad, and its only going to get worse if you don't suck it up and admit the truth. They're going to figure it out eventually, so you might as well tell the truth. Letting it drag on and then eventually getting found out will only erode your family's ability to trust you.
But why not try taking it to a repair place and see if it can be salvaged before you tell them?
They might be mad. They might yell and say you're an idiot, but they'll forgive you unless they're dicks. And they don't sound like dicks.
Actually I'm 100% positive it's the logic board, as mine didn't turn on either, etc etc. If you have a spare 1K, I would just get it repared and not bother telling your parents. If not, then you'd pretty much have to tell them, OR get a job to save up for the repair (if you can live with out having a computer for a while)
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The worst part is you're building yourself up for the pain, don't do that. Get it over with like a band-aide, it'll suck but it's worse than not telling or waiting.
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I think one angle you could play up is that you already got 3k worth of use out of it and as much as it sucks that there was an accident that broke it, the only way to have avoided that accident would have been to not be using it.
Probably best to try and make it clear that you didn't take it for granted and aren't expecting them to buy you another one.
I don't really know what the situation with the grandparents are. If you want to work and buy a new one and pull the wool over their eyes and your parents are OK with this it wouldn't be that terrible.
My grandfather is old, and he has basically said he is OK with not hearing minor bad news. If one of us gets an A in university or a raise at work, he'd love to know about it. Boss reams you out over something that isn't your fault and you know your not going to be fired? no need to tell grandpa. Computer breaks? We called it a victory when he rebooted his computer (on/off button) to get back to his homepage we made for him, he doesn't know or care about computers.
. . . but what if they are assholes and just want to shit all over everyone?
Don't do this. However mad you think they will be if you tell them openly, they will be much more upset if they find out via "Honey, I was just looking at the bank statements, what the fuck happened to 3000 dollars?"
Man (or woman if applicable) up and just tell them. Apologize and offer to help pay for a replacement. Then actually do that, bust your hump and get some extra hours at work.
They may also have an alternative you haven't considered, such as the previously mentioned homeowners insurance.
You... don't work with laptops much eh?
You can replace laptop parts. You should be able to replace the logic board, but it's best to take it to a repair centre and get a quote.
The other thing is you can probably get a PC that's on par for about $400-500, might even be able to cannibalise a few parts.
"Mom, Dad, I accidentally spilled water on my laptop and it won't turn on anymore, I know it was a really stupid thing to do. I've been doing research online and took it into the store and found out it will cost about X to repair it. I can pay for Y, but I was wondering if you could cover the rest and I will pay you back for it."
"Mom, Dad, I accidentally spilled water on my laptop and it won't turn on anymore. I know it was a really stupid thing to do. I've been doing research online and took it into the store and found out it will cost about X to repair it. I'm not sure how I'm going to be able to pay for this and was wondering if you could help me figure that out."
Yeah, you can get replacement parts, but dude doesn't sound comfortably up to that level of skill if he can't fix minor water damage before he fried something. Also. No you can most definitely not get a PC laptop that compares in real world operations for $400-500. I have a first class ticket to the ninth circle of hell reserved for the assmunchliarface who came up with those god-damned commercials.... /rant *huff* *huff*
Not only that but the software he would have to shell out for PC versions of? Yeah
He isn't using cheap software folks.
Regardless, yeah time to man up and speak out :P
I would lime all of this but I am lazy...
OP, pick one and then lock this.
Then be all "Kidding! But about my laptop.."
PC, not PC laptop. Although saying all that, you probably could buy a stripped down PC laptop and swap a lot of the parts in.
I recently got my macbook pro sent to depot and they literally fixed everything, even the things I didn't ask for or know about, for free. Although that was a combination of sympathy on the part of the genius, a sad comment about how long I'd saved up for this, and distressed accounting on my part with my bank account numbers and the quote he gave me which likely stirred up the aforementioned sympathy. Also, I was very honest about what happened to it, and that was why the guy put CS code on it to make it free...everything WAS accidental damage, and I agreed with him right off the bat, and didn't argue anything. Just be really nice. And be honest.
I'm not saying you will be able to get it fixed for free--i got the impression that this was a very rare thing to happen, because after i brought it home to back up the harddrive (which didn't matter cause it was returned unwiped) and then went back to the store to drop it off the other guy at the genius bar was like "whoa CS code"--you will at least get a quote and a diagnosis of what exactly is wrong with it.
And my parents didn't know a thing.
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But they did for me.
I'm just saying you have nothing to lose by going, and as it turned out for me and possibly for you as well, everything to gain.
I mean for god's sake, I expected to have to pay out the ass or live with the damages because there was no way any of them were going to be classified as non-accidental damage, and the guy still did me a huge favor.
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A good compromise (to the genius at least) would be "My classmate/friend/archenemy spilled water on it in school" if you would like to evade a possible charge.
maybe the geniuses at my store were just tired of being lied to
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most likely, she's a woman, and talking to a geek at an apple store
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Don't lie dude tell the truth. As a parent it sucks to hear bad news from your kids especially when bad news involves a high dollar amount but its much better than lying and they find out different later also it shows good character to be truthful. As one poster mentioned get a quote on the repair cost and then come up with a plan on paying it back. Also its possible they may have gotten some kind of extended warranty on it I know I would have, or be covered under homeowners insurance. So just be honest
It can, yeah, depending on your policy.
My policy has an additional "computer coverage" rider, which takes care of water damage, drops, and other stupid human tricks. The policy itself already covered theft, fire, and all the other normal renters insurance stuff.
1. Start stalking someone who works at one of these genius bar places, find out which Starbucks he takes his coffee break at and when.
2. Call your mum and pretend to be your dad. Invite her to meet 'you' (your dad) for coffee at said Starbucks at the time the genius bar guy takes his break, tell her that there will be a guy there holding a table for them and describe genius bar staff guy.
3. Go to Starbucks at same time as arranged 'date' with your laptop, buy a large coffee (it's ok, you aren't going to have to drink it), hide in waiting until your mum arrives and approaches the table the genius guy is sitting at.
4. Briskly walk past genius guy, bumping into him with your coffee arm and spill your coffee on your laptop and yourself.
5. Round on genius guy 'Ow! Hey! You spilled my coffee on me and my lapto...OH MY GOD MUM! YOU'RE DATING MY MUM?!?!'
6. Terrify genius guy into getting your laptop fixed for free, mum will be too shocked to ask any questions about laptop, dad etc. and will just want to pretend none of this happened.
7. Sue Starbucks
8. ...
9 . Profit.
You learn something new everyday. I figured insurance companies were such bastards that they'd basically tell you to get lost for self-inflicted damage. It's what I'd do. Also, this sort of incident is one reason I went with ASUS when I bought a PC laptop, they give you a free one year accidental damage coverage.
Accidental damage is pretty much the point of insurance companies (that and theft and lost). It's the intentional damage they generally refuse to pay out on.
My response was for what to tell Apple, not his parents. Yes, you'd still probably red it, yes it's a lie. However, if they know you spilled liquid on it, you're fucked. If you feign ignorance, you have a chance at getting it repaired as it's still under warranty (right?).