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Proposal in St. Louis

RyadicRyadic Registered User regular
edited August 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
So, the next biggest step in my life is about to happen. I plan on proposing to my girlfriend of 13 months next month. She just kind of out of the blue got this whole trip to St. Louis planned for me that I thought was very sweet. She is paying for the majority of it, too. Hotel and tickets to a Cardinals/Cubs game. She knew I was a big Cardinal fan and I just can't believe she did this.

So, we'll get there 9/18 and leave on 9/20. The game is on 9/18 and we are going to go to Six Flags on Saturday.

Basically I decided this is a good time to pop the question. It'll be our first time away together just the two of us and it's about an 8 - 9 hour drive. So it's a good distance away as well. I figured the best way to do it is the standard, out at a nice restaurant type thing. Nothing cheesy like having it hidden in the cake or anything. Just simple tell her how I feel and the typical I love you type speech and go from there.

I just need to find a restaurant. Please recommend me a nice restaurant to spend our special evening at. :)

I think after an appetizer, 2 meals, a shared dessert, and tip it should max out at about $75. I will eat pretty much anything, so feel free to suggest as much as possible. She's a bit more of a picky eater, so it'd make your job more difficult trying to find something she'd enjoy. I'll make that my responsibility after some suggestions.

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  • MichaelLCMichaelLC In what furnace was thy brain? ChicagoRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    While I'm glad you're not going to do it at the game with the Jumbo-tron, might I suggest even more personal, and do it at a park somewhere? If you think she'll like the public attention, then go for the restaurant, but sometimes that can be awkward or overwhelming.

    Having said that, Bristol Bar & Grill (seafood) looks good, or Eclipse Restaurant, maybe for drinks after at the cool bar.

    edit: Oh, Bristol has a prix fixe menu too. Not sure if it'll still be in Sept., though.

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  • RyadicRyadic Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Funnily enough I had a dream that I did propose to her on the Jumbo-tron at the game and she said no. She laughed when I told her.

    And when it comes to restaurants, she probably won't like the public attention, but we usually request to sit in a booth away from most people, so if that happens then I'll have the perfect chance.

    Also, she's 20, so drinks for her is a no go.

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  • MichaelLCMichaelLC In what furnace was thy brain? ChicagoRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Ryadic wrote: »
    And when it comes to restaurants, she probably won't like the public attention, but we usually request to sit in a booth away from most people, so if that happens then I'll have the perfect chance.

    Be sure to tell the maitre d' what's going down when you make the reservation. They can recommend the best table.

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  • RyadicRyadic Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Ok, someone at work suggest The Lemp Mansion. Looks like a really cool place overall. Food looks really good as well. May not be the most ideal place for a proposal, but I think we'd have a great time there.

    Has anyone been or have any input on this?

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  • kilroydoskilroydos Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    http://www.sidneystreetcafe.com/

    This is consistently voted the best romantic restaurant in St. Louis. It's where my wife and I went just before our wedding last year, and it was delicious. I had one of the best filets I've ever had, and she had the absolute best chicken I've tasted.

    We had appetizers, two full-size entrees, and dessert for less than $90 including tip.

    It's also not far from downtown, if you're staying by the ballpark.

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  • downerdowner Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
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    This is where I did it. The Grand Basin at Forest Park. Bonus: You can rent row-boats to take out on the water.

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  • underdonkunderdonk __BANNED USERS regular
    edited August 2009
    Oh man, you should totally do it at the top of a big drop on a coaster at Six Flags.

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  • The Raging PlatypusThe Raging Platypus Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    underdonk wrote: »
    Oh man, you should totally do it at the top of a big drop on a coaster at Six Flags.

    ka-thunk ka-thunk ka-thunk ka-thunk

    "Oh shi- uh, uh, ummmm"

    ka-thunk ka-thunk

    "So, uh, will you, uh, ohjeezus, marry me?"

    ka-thunk

    "Oh, Ryadic, I doeeeyAAGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH"

    ka-thunkthunkthunkthunkthunkthunkthunkTHUNKTHUNKTHUNKTHUNKTHUNKTHUNK

    "AGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH"

    "WHEEEEEEEAGYOEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEGH"

    "BLARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHEAGAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH"

    "AAAAAASYOOOOOUWIIIIIISHYEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH"

    This is a brilliant idea.

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  • TychoCelchuuuTychoCelchuuu PIGEON Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Warning, Forest Park on or around September 20th is quite possibly going to be rather cold. At the very least it will be chilly. So consider doing it inside somewhere.

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  • underdonkunderdonk __BANNED USERS regular
    edited August 2009
    underdonk wrote: »
    Oh man, you should totally do it at the top of a big drop on a coaster at Six Flags.

    ka-thunk ka-thunk ka-thunk ka-thunk

    "Oh shi- uh, uh, ummmm"

    ka-thunk ka-thunk

    "So, uh, will you, uh, ohjeezus, marry me?"

    ka-thunk

    "Oh, Ryadic, I doeeeyAAGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH"

    ka-thunkthunkthunkthunkthunkthunkthunkTHUNKTHUNKTHUNKTHUNKTHUNKTHUNK

    "AGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH"

    "WHEEEEEEEAGYOEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEGH"

    "BLARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHEAGAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH"

    "AAAAAASYOOOOOUWIIIIIISHYEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH"

    This is a brilliant idea.

    So what you're saying is that it will be more eloquent than the majority of marriage proposals?

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  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited August 2009
    underdonk wrote: »
    Oh man, you should totally do it at the top of a big drop on a coaster at Six Flags.

    totally doing this

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  • Robos A Go GoRobos A Go Go Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    downer wrote: »
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    This is where I did it. The Grand Basin at Forest Park. Bonus: You can rent row-boats to take out on the water.

    Oh shit, do it there for sure.

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  • RyadicRyadic Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    downer wrote: »
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    This is where I did it. The Grand Basin at Forest Park. Bonus: You can rent row-boats to take out on the water.

    Oh shit, do it there for sure.

    Yeah, this looks very tempting.

    Thanks for the suggestions. So far the front runner is the roller coaster idea, but it may be more adrenaline than I can handle. :)

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  • TychoCelchuuuTychoCelchuuu PIGEON Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    I would like to further reiterate that the picture everyone is drooling over was definitely not taken in the middle of fall.

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  • RyadicRyadic Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    I would like to further reiterate that the picture everyone is drooling over was definitely not taken in the middle of fall.

    Well, I'm no stranger to cold. I grew up in Champaign, IL, which is about 3 hours due east of St. Louis.

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