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Annoying situation (Its got animals and gfs!)

BluerayBlueray Registered User new member
edited December 2006 in Help / Advice Forum
Sorry for the wall of text ;_;


Ok I guess I'll have to set the scene, currently I'm pretty much living with my girlfriend, she rents 2 rooms in a shared flat with 2 other people. She pays rent (She won't let me pay any share) and I dont really have any say in what goes on house wise, or anywhere to keep my stuff etc, even though I sleep there 95% of the time. This doesn't really bother me and isn't the problem. So a few months ago she proposed I get some pets (She's a bit animal mad and has a huge amount of pets like 50+, she has a whole room for them). So at first I said I couldn't because I didnt have anywhere to keep them, she said this was fine and that I could keep them at her house as long as needed. So a week later I went for 2 ferrets. After about a week the noise was apparently really annoying one of her flatmates so she said she wanted me to move them, I asked my parents if I could store them at their house if I needed to and they said this was ok, cut forward 2 months to now. After lots of asking me if I can move them then a few days later changing her mind, she's gone on holiday for christmas and then told me I HAVE, HAVE to move them out this time. Even though this really pisses me off and I said I couldn't get them because I had nowhere to keep them :(

So I've now moved them to my parents house but they've said I can only keep them here while I live here, which at the moment is just till after christmas. Sometime within the next few weeks I'm supposed to be moving out into a shared flat with some friends but this has been delayed for like 3 months now so I don't have much faith in it, but basicly until this happens I don't really anywhere I can keep them unless I stop staying with my girlfriend. Argh this really sucks, since I'm not gonna give up my animals but it looks like I'll probably have to stop staying at my girlfriends for a while, its also annoying since she doesn't have a problem with it but instead buts her flatmates wants above mine ;_; she seems to put everyone else above me :(

Can anyone think of a fantastic solution?

At the moment I'm thinking I'll just have to stay at my parents until I can move in with my friends and keep my ferrets there.

Sorry to anyone whose read this and been really dissapointed with the stupidness of it but I'm probably mostly just ranting.

Sigh...
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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2006
    Blueray wrote:
    Argh this really sucks, since I'm not gonna give up my animals but it looks like I'll probably have to stop staying at my girlfriends for a while, its also annoying since she doesn't have a problem with it but instead buts her flatmates wants above mine ;_; she seems to put everyone else above me :(
    Okay, you have no business complaining that someone whose name is on the lease has more pull in the house than you. Your only legitimate complaint is that she said it was okay, then said it wasn't. Ferrets are notoriously irritating animals, I would never agree to let my hypothetical live-in s.o. move ferrets into a house I shared with other people, at the very least not without clearing it with them first.

    Other than that, I dunno man, ferrets are notoriously irritating. That's kind of what's going on for you here.

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  • BluerayBlueray Registered User new member
    edited December 2006
    Yeah your right :(
    Its just the whole situation is annoying since there isn't a decent way for me to sort things out.

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