I have control over it only so far as my actual actions. And, for the record, there are many people whose relationships bring me joy.
I'm not happy being alone. I don't enjoy not having sex. I'm not entirely sure what kind of magical personality change I'm supposed to go through in order to change that.
Not being happy at the prospect of being alone and sexless is not a bad thing. In fact it can be quite the good thing! (Assuming you aren't somewhat introverted and so need to spend some time alone with your thoughts to recharge.)
It's more that the massive sexual appeal of extremely effeminate male celebrities bugs me.
[...] the concept bothers me.
Be a man. Work on overcoming that character flaw.
I think I'm not being very clear and failing to express what I'm thinking. Which would be par for the course for me really but what I'm saying is
Negative feeling->bad reasoning->self-examination of bad reasoning->determining negative feeling is silly
seems like a pretty decent process. Healthy actually. Eventually it may (hopefully will) get to the point where the negative reaction doesn't even happen
Basically what I'm saying is: He kinda already is working on it, no?
Given some of his other posts, no I don't think he is.
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Given some of his other posts, no I don't think he is.
first half seems stronger than the second half though
I am digging this laid-back, meditative radiohead of recent years
*hugs* Sorry to hear that man.
Sorry tyr.