normally it is not a problem, but sometimes with a new partner i have a very difficult time finishing. once i break through this problem even once, it never happens again with that person. maybe insecurity/anxiety? idk.
but when it does happen it is intensely stressful. i know i'm insecure when a girl can't finish. she can say, hey, i'm just not built that way, i usually/never can't, i'm still enjoying myself, it's fun even without climax etc. but the feeling of inadequacy is there, and that's even with the knowledge that many females struggle to finish. men are expected to finish, and often teased for finishing too quickly. so not being able to finish at all as a dude is rough. ime it takes a very confident, self-secure woman for it to not bother them.
Hmm, been having the issue of not being able to cum during sex lately.
:eek:
I'm jealous. That sounds like it's practically a super power.
No, men have a lot of pressure to finish because stereotype is we love sex and always want it and it upsets both the guy and often woman (in my experience) if it doesn't happen.
Then you get in your own head and it gets worse and worse as you spiral neurotically.
This. Exactly this.
If I've been going for 20 minutes I don't want to be blue balled.
And what's worse is that she says she has never orgasmed, ever, so my efforts are all for naught
Oh
Oh my
Lie bot what is the saddest thing.
I dunno, is she lying to me? Hmmmmm
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LudiousI just wanted a sandwich A temporally dislocated QuiznosRegistered Userregular
Hmm, been having the issue of not being able to cum during sex lately.
:eek:
I'm jealous. That sounds like it's practically a super power.
No, men have a lot of pressure to finish because stereotype is we love sex and always want it and it upsets both the guy and often woman (in my experience) if it doesn't happen.
Then you get in your own head and it gets worse and worse as you spiral neurotically.
Ok so
Mainly I think about finishing as something I want to avoid, right? Just something to not do, until my partner is satisfied and would not mind if it happened
It only occurred to me very recently that my partner might like it when I finish -- "I'm attractive, I made this happen because I'm sexy"
I have also had this mind shift!
Ok so we've ascended together from tiny-dim-brain to glowing-brain
How do we ascend to shining-brain
I made a game! Hotline Maui. Requires mouse and keyboard.
Hmm, been having the issue of not being able to cum during sex lately.
:eek:
I'm jealous. That sounds like it's practically a super power.
No, men have a lot of pressure to finish because stereotype is we love sex and always want it and it upsets both the guy and often woman (in my experience) if it doesn't happen.
Then you get in your own head and it gets worse and worse as you spiral neurotically.
Ok so
Mainly I think about finishing as something I want to avoid, right? Just something to not do, until my partner is satisfied and would not mind if it happened
It only occurred to me very recently that my partner might like it when I finish -- "I'm attractive, I made this happen because I'm sexy"
I have also had this mind shift!
Ok so we've ascended together from tiny-dim-brain to glowing-brain
How do we ascend to shining-brain
I think we blame women for all of our problems and join bad subreddits
Jk, we act sex positive and encourage others to be kind?
Hmm, been having the issue of not being able to cum during sex lately.
:eek:
I'm jealous. That sounds like it's practically a super power.
No, men have a lot of pressure to finish because stereotype is we love sex and always want it and it upsets both the guy and often woman (in my experience) if it doesn't happen.
Then you get in your own head and it gets worse and worse as you spiral neurotically.
Ok so
Mainly I think about finishing as something I want to avoid, right? Just something to not do, until my partner is satisfied and would not mind if it happened
It only occurred to me very recently that my partner might like it when I finish -- "I'm attractive, I made this happen because I'm sexy"
I have also had this mind shift!
Ok so we've ascended together from tiny-dim-brain to glowing-brain
How do we ascend to shining-brain
realizing that sex is bad and becoming volcel
Shameful pursuits and utterly stupid opinions
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I've seen her and RHCP twice, 2x more than any other band that didn't include a family member
My left shoelaces come undone with some frequency. My right never does. What's wrong with me, and is it neurogical?
You have two weeks to provide a diagnosis, at which point I will be asking my psychiatrist, who will look at me like I'm an idiot for worrying about something so small.
[chat], only you can save me from seeing a look I've seen several hundred times from this woman! :P
You tie the left one slightly differently, or
your gait is slightly different on the left. Do your soles wear evenly on both shoes? Have a look, I bet the left one's wear pattern is slightly different.
or
the way you address uneven surfaces (stairs, ground) has a specific pattern that causes uneven stress on the laces, causing the left one to come undone more quickly.
I do lead with my left going down stairs and ledges, and my brother, my father, and I all have something infamously known as "The Narraway strut" thanks to how our relaxed walking gait looks, true
But
Maybe my brain is dying instead??? :P
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wait that's a lie I saw Nine inch Nails actually 3 times!
that's fucked up because I've never listened to an album of theirs straight through and RHCP was like all I listened to for a few years there
Hmm, been having the issue of not being able to cum during sex lately.
:eek:
I'm jealous. That sounds like it's practically a super power.
No, men have a lot of pressure to finish because stereotype is we love sex and always want it and it upsets both the guy and often woman (in my experience) if it doesn't happen.
Then you get in your own head and it gets worse and worse as you spiral neurotically.
Ok so
Mainly I think about finishing as something I want to avoid, right? Just something to not do, until my partner is satisfied and would not mind if it happened
It only occurred to me very recently that my partner might like it when I finish -- "I'm attractive, I made this happen because I'm sexy"
I have also had this mind shift!
Ok so we've ascended together from tiny-dim-brain to glowing-brain
How do we ascend to shining-brain
realizing that sex is bad and becoming volcel
somewhere, without knowing why, scheck has just shed a proud tear
I made a game! Hotline Maui. Requires mouse and keyboard.
Hmm, been having the issue of not being able to cum during sex lately.
:eek:
I'm jealous. That sounds like it's practically a super power.
No, men have a lot of pressure to finish because stereotype is we love sex and always want it and it upsets both the guy and often woman (in my experience) if it doesn't happen.
Then you get in your own head and it gets worse and worse as you spiral neurotically.
Ok so
Mainly I think about finishing as something I want to avoid, right? Just something to not do, until my partner is satisfied and would not mind if it happened
It only occurred to me very recently that my partner might like it when I finish -- "I'm attractive, I made this happen because I'm sexy"
I have also had this mind shift!
Ok so we've ascended together from tiny-dim-brain to glowing-brain
How do we ascend to shining-brain
realizing that sex is bad and becoming volcel
somewhere, without knowing why, scheck has just shed a proud tear
incel magus = galaxy brain
Shameful pursuits and utterly stupid opinions
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My left shoelaces come undone with some frequency. My right never does. What's wrong with me, and is it neurogical?
You have two weeks to provide a diagnosis, at which point I will be asking my psychiatrist, who will look at me like I'm an idiot for worrying about something so small.
[chat], only you can save me from seeing a look I've seen several hundred times from this woman! :P
Do you tie them identically or mirrored or inconsistently?
I expect you've been keeping logs, so the last two months should suffice. CSV format, preferably.
If there's one thing I'm known for, it's my fastidious attention to detail and my interest in keeping records accurately
The government literally pays people to do those things for me, Surfpossum :P
My left shoelaces come undone with some frequency. My right never does. What's wrong with me, and is it neurogical?
You have two weeks to provide a diagnosis, at which point I will be asking my psychiatrist, who will look at me like I'm an idiot for worrying about something so small.
[chat], only you can save me from seeing a look I've seen several hundred times from this woman! :P
You tie the left one slightly differently, or
your gait is slightly different on the left. Do your soles wear evenly on both shoes? Have a look, I bet the left one's wear pattern is slightly different.
or
the way you address uneven surfaces (stairs, ground) has a specific pattern that causes uneven stress on the laces, causing the left one to come undone more quickly.
I do lead with my left going down stairs and ledges, and my brother, my father, and I all have something infamously known as "The Narraway strut" thanks to how our relaxed walking gait looks, true
normally it is not a problem, but sometimes with a new partner i have a very difficult time finishing. once i break through this problem even once, it never happens again with that person. maybe insecurity/anxiety? idk.
but when it does happen it is intensely stressful. i know i'm insecure when a girl can't finish. she can say, hey, i'm just not built that way, i usually/never can't, i'm still enjoying myself, it's fun even without climax etc. but the feeling of inadequacy is there, and that's even with the knowledge that many females struggle to finish. men are expected to finish, and often teased for finishing too quickly. so not being able to finish at all as a dude is rough. ime it takes a very confident, self-secure woman for it to not bother them.
followup: one of my funniest and most horrifying sexual memories is being unable to finish with a girl the first time we had sex, both sober, middle of the day, etc. no matter what we try it's not happening for me, and finally she's like ok just jerk off i will encourage u ^_^
and i do that and get close but she moves her face in towards my dick and as soon as she does my impending orgasm just terminates. totally gone, not gonna happen. and i shrink back and protectively cup my genitals and hiss at her like gollum, DON'T TOUCH IT
i'll take things my new boyfriend can say to me to make me feel attractive and wanted for $100, alex
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I've seen her and RHCP twice, 2x more than any other band that didn't include a family member
i think i'll see her again this fall, her last show was great
my most seen artist is grimes at 3x
maybe i'm streaming terrible dj right now if i am its here
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Narwhal your left shoe comes undone because your brain is actually located in your left foot and is therefore heavier, causing each footfall to untie your laces a little bit
Also the weight of the impact is killing your brain
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Unfortunately... I want to have sex with you... don't know what happened, maybe you lost some weight...?
but when it does happen it is intensely stressful. i know i'm insecure when a girl can't finish. she can say, hey, i'm just not built that way, i usually/never can't, i'm still enjoying myself, it's fun even without climax etc. but the feeling of inadequacy is there, and that's even with the knowledge that many females struggle to finish. men are expected to finish, and often teased for finishing too quickly. so not being able to finish at all as a dude is rough. ime it takes a very confident, self-secure woman for it to not bother them.
I dunno, is she lying to me? Hmmmmm
st vincent is a god
maybe i'm streaming terrible dj right now if i am its here
I have a very specific set of skills...
*naps in a sunbeam*
Ok so we've ascended together from tiny-dim-brain to glowing-brain
How do we ascend to shining-brain
god this clip is so versatile
I think we blame women for all of our problems and join bad subreddits
Jk, we act sex positive and encourage others to be kind?
A horny murderous princess has come to ally with an ambitious crafty English king.
They are doing it and he's like uggggh Yeah I'm done. And she's like man already? I'm not done.
He's like well I don't know there's anything I can do yo help you out sorry
Mofucker you got hands and a mouth get to work!
(instead he sends his three guards in to sleep with her and she's like /shrug okay)
a friend sent me this and said it's his favorite song of hers. it's good but I wouldn't go that far.
am fine with God classification though
I do lead with my left going down stairs and ledges, and my brother, my father, and I all have something infamously known as "The Narraway strut" thanks to how our relaxed walking gait looks, true
But
Maybe my brain is dying instead??? :P
that's fucked up because I've never listened to an album of theirs straight through and RHCP was like all I listened to for a few years there
there are too many good songs on her self-titled for me to say that yet, but i think it is definitely my fave from this album
maybe i'm streaming terrible dj right now if i am its here
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somewhere, without knowing why, scheck has just shed a proud tear
I already are it! Lololol reeeeeekt
If there's one thing I'm known for, it's my fastidious attention to detail and my interest in keeping records accurately
The government literally pays people to do those things for me, Surfpossum :P
She just trotted up to me and licked my nose
Check out my site, the Bismuth Heart | My Twitter
you take your science and you like it narwhal
enough with this preposterous brain death theory!
followup: one of my funniest and most horrifying sexual memories is being unable to finish with a girl the first time we had sex, both sober, middle of the day, etc. no matter what we try it's not happening for me, and finally she's like ok just jerk off i will encourage u ^_^
and i do that and get close but she moves her face in towards my dick and as soon as she does my impending orgasm just terminates. totally gone, not gonna happen. and i shrink back and protectively cup my genitals and hiss at her like gollum, DON'T TOUCH IT
i'll take things my new boyfriend can say to me to make me feel attractive and wanted for $100, alex
My own has consistently remained approximately 100% because I'm so good at sex.
i think i'll see her again this fall, her last show was great
my most seen artist is grimes at 3x
maybe i'm streaming terrible dj right now if i am its here
Also the weight of the impact is killing your brain
i think everyone else is just once.
St Vincent is good
Oh right, these are dogs.
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