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some kids trying to get into my email / live tag

Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
edited September 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
basicly. there a person who thinks my email account that i have had for 10 years is theres.

most likly whats happend, mine is hotmail.com and his is the same but at hotmail.co.uk


he keeps trying to reset the password. and he has been giving the emal out for signing up to things and to his friend. so 100's of kids are trying to add me on msn and live.

i also had microsoft phone me about a faulty xbox. witch is his not mine.

i googles my email. and its all over myspace and beebo on profiles that arnt mine

so basicly he seems to think i have hacked his email. when it was mine all along

any advice or sagestions what to do?

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    - Send him an email pointing out the difference between domain names?
    - Find a site that has the same name, but a different domain, and different content, to show him that things can be different?

    Once you've illustrated the differences, you should be able to get him to remove the offending email addresses?

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    thats the problem. he dosnt look at his own email account. because he thinks his account is mine.

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  • NibbleNibble Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Try talking to one of his friends who has added you on MSN?

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    i kinda tryed that. they all seem to be about 15 and not actuly know him . they just seem to be a swarm of msn brats

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Ok...

    Well, if you know the person's screen name on myspace and such, I guess you could email those individual sites and say "this person has put my email address on their profile, please remove it" and see if that gets you anywhere.

    It's a bit worrying that Microsoft called you about an xbox, based off his email? How did they get your number?

    Sounds like this person is too retarded to realise the difference between .co.uk and .com.....

    Have you contacted hotmail admins direct and told them what's going on? I guess there's nothing they can do, if this person is uncontactable. Maybe try and add them as a friend on bebo or whatnot, and send them a message on that? (post on facebook wall or something? I dunno)

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  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    cmsamo wrote: »
    It's a bit worrying that Microsoft called you about an xbox, based off his email? How did they get your number?

    The kid made his Live profile on his 360, added the contact details, which included his phone number and the wrong email address...

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  • AphostileAphostile San Francisco, CARegistered User regular
    edited September 2009
    DarkPrimus wrote: »
    cmsamo wrote: »
    It's a bit worrying that Microsoft called you about an xbox, based off his email? How did they get your number?

    The kid made his Live profile on his 360, added the contact details, which included his phone number and the wrong email address...

    Which again begs the question, how did Microsoft phone YOU?

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    i just phoned xbox live support. and they basicly say theres bugger all they can do. just make sure my password is secure. witch it must be coz the guy hasnt guessed it yet.


    but the kid had mannaged to change my adress with microsoft!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    so i have change it back.


    but i do now have the kids adress and phone number.

    so should i try phoneing the kid. and ill be polite and put on my best phone voice

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  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    It would have seemed appropriate tp notify the microsoft people when they called you that this guy was trying to access your account info without your permission.

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  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Either this will clear up the situation or the kid is going to think you're out to get him.

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Aphostile wrote: »
    DarkPrimus wrote: »
    cmsamo wrote: »
    It's a bit worrying that Microsoft called you about an xbox, based off his email? How did they get your number?

    The kid made his Live profile on his 360, added the contact details, which included his phone number and the wrong email address...

    Which again begs the question, how did Microsoft phone YOU?

    i have had 5 faulty xbox 360s myself , and when you phone them and give them you name and email adress the brought up my details

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    right i called him from a witheld phone. (just in case he was a dick and started prank calling my work or somthing)

    politly i confermed who he, was and that microsoft where contacting me about his faulty xbox.and that he had given them my email.

    i said i had had XXXXXX@hotmail.com for around 10 years

    he said that my email adress. i said his must be very simaler but not that adress. ie .co.uk or somthing

    then he said my adress is www.xxxxxx@hotmail.com

    i asked him to contact micrsoft and give them his correct details as they would be sending me his xbox (that seeed to worry the kid)

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    just checked my email again and there now another please re-set your password

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Damn, this kid sounds a bit stupid. It's only common sense to work out that if you can't get into an email account with the password which you know, then it's probably NOT your email address?

    I dont think there's much more you can do than what you're doing, just politely call back and point out that he keeps resetting your email address. Ask him to try and log in to hotmail with the .co.uk address and his password.

    Once that works, maybe he'll see the distinction?

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  • Dunadan019Dunadan019 Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    If he's 15, ask to talk to his parents?

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  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Or you could just savor his delicious misery and do your best to get his xbox sent to you.

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    Or you could just savor his delicious misery and do your best to get his xbox sent to you.

    that really could come back and bight me in the ass.

    thou shalt not steal (even from fools)

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  • Dunadan019Dunadan019 Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    I had this kid repeatedly call my cell phone asking for dave (my name is not dave) after the 3rd call where I pick up say 'there's no dave here'.... get told 'I'm lying' and hanging up on the kid, I sternly interupted him and asked to speak to his parents at which point he hung up rather quickly.

    going to the parents is probably the way to go and it will either end up with him stopping or you convincing his parents to make him stop.

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  • DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    edited September 2009
    If any of his MSN friends contactr you be sure to tell them that you just found out you have "the gay".

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  • RuckusRuckus Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Deebaser wrote: »
    If any of his MSN friends contactr you be sure to tell them that you just found out you have "the gay".

    Normally I wouldn't support feigning homosexuality for malicious intent, but in this case...

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  • DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Ruckus wrote: »
    Deebaser wrote: »
    If any of his MSN friends contactr you be sure to tell them that you just found out you have "the gay".

    Normally I wouldn't support feigning homosexuality for malicious intent, but in this case...

    Likewise, but for a stupid teen that should pound home the message right-quick.

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  • Iceman.USAFIceman.USAF Major East CoastRegistered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Aren't there agencies that deal with cyber criminals, like the FBI?

    If it really comes down to it, you could inform them someone has been trying to steal your identity through your email account.

    This is obviously the "nuclear fucking weapons" choice, however.

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  • FyreWulffFyreWulff YouRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    edited September 2009
    Unfortunately, it seems MS would have been your best bet. A while back I was repeatedly getting signup emails for kids sites like PONIES ARE AWESOME and GIRLZ CORNER, as if it was my kid (i have none) signing up for them, and the site was asking my permission. The kid must have had a parent with a similiar name to mine, and kept putting in my email address as her parent contact.

    What I did was kept emailing their webmaster explaining the situation.

    For now though all you can do is ignore the password reset emails, since I guess MS doesn't ask a question before the remind is set, since anybody can request a password reset.

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  • underdonkunderdonk __BANNED USERS regular
    edited September 2009
    but the kid had mannaged to change my adress with microsoft!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I wish someone would change my address with Microsoft.

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  • CasualCasual Wiggle Wiggle Wiggle Flap Flap Flap Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Aren't there agencies that deal with cyber criminals, like the FBI?

    If it really comes down to it, you could inform them someone has been trying to steal your identity through your email account.

    This is obviously the "nuclear fucking weapons" choice, however.

    That only works if both the victim and hacker are in the same jurisdiction. The FBI can't do dick to a kid in the UK. Mind you people have been extradited to the US for cyber crimes committed in the UK before so who knows, but I doubt it would happen for a disputed email adress.

    So yeah if you have the phone number try to speak to the parents and say that their kid is making repeated attempts at getting access to your email.

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  • Iceman.USAFIceman.USAF Major East CoastRegistered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Casual wrote: »
    Aren't there agencies that deal with cyber criminals, like the FBI?

    If it really comes down to it, you could inform them someone has been trying to steal your identity through your email account.

    This is obviously the "nuclear fucking weapons" choice, however.

    That only works if both the victim and hacker are in the same jurisdiction. The FBI can't do dick to a kid in the UK. Mind you people have been extradited to the US for cyber crimes committed in the UK before so who knows, but I doubt it would happen for a disputed email adress.

    So yeah if you have the phone number try to speak to the parents and say that their kid is making repeated attempts at getting access to your email.

    No, but they could certainly make their lives miserable from a US standpoint.

    Not that I'd expect or want that to happen. Just saying its possible.

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  • WezoinWezoin Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Casual wrote: »
    Aren't there agencies that deal with cyber criminals, like the FBI?

    If it really comes down to it, you could inform them someone has been trying to steal your identity through your email account.

    This is obviously the "nuclear fucking weapons" choice, however.

    That only works if both the victim and hacker are in the same jurisdiction. The FBI can't do dick to a kid in the UK. Mind you people have been extradited to the US for cyber crimes committed in the UK before so who knows, but I doubt it would happen for a disputed email adress.

    So yeah if you have the phone number try to speak to the parents and say that their kid is making repeated attempts at getting access to your email.

    No, but they could certainly make their lives miserable from a US standpoint.

    Not that I'd expect or want that to happen. Just saying its possible.

    Um... odds of the kid ever even finding out that "his life in the US would be miserable" is extremely extremely low as most people (as in almost everyone who isn't an American) very rarely (or never) goes there, especially not as a 15 year old kid who can't even understand the difference between .com and .co.uk. Plus, you know, the FBI would probably just laugh at you and tell you to go away if you ever tried this.

    Anyway - my vote goes to call the kid back, tell him you keep getting e-mails asking you to change your password everytime he tries, and that you would appreciate it if he stops - then ask to speak to his parents.

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  • CasualCasual Wiggle Wiggle Wiggle Flap Flap Flap Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Yeah I don't even think this qualifies as cyber crime really. The kid isn't making a purposeful attack on the account, he isn't a hacker he's just a dumbass that doesn't understand domains.

    As I said try the parents but frankly I don't expect anything to come from it. Chances are the reason the kids such a stupid brat is because the parents are crap at parenting.

    Just put up with it for now and eventually his limited attention span and patience will give out and he'll make a new email.

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  • SiskaSiska Shorty Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    If it keeps happening, try talking to his parents. Try and make sure they understand that you are not accusing their son of deliberate hacking, but rather he just doesn't get it. Not all parents are reasonable and he could get into serious trouble if they think he is trying to do something illegal. There is of course a chance that the parents wont get the problem either and can't help you. You can always try and send a snail mail too. With easy step by step explainations of the problem.

    Before you call try and think of some ways for the kid to figure out his actual e-mail adress. That would be the best way of getting him to stop resetting yours. Would Microsoft have his real e-mail on file and he could call them?

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  • Teslan26Teslan26 Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Ridiculous concept,

    Change email address? Surely in terms of hassle levels, that has to be the lesser of two evils? You can get mail forwarded or whatever. He will never be able to use your email as long as the account is secure! So let him be frustrated for the rest of his imbecilic life and move on.

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  • ashridahashridah Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Teslan26 wrote: »
    Ridiculous concept,

    Change email address? Surely in terms of hassle levels, that has to be the lesser of two evils? You can get mail forwarded or whatever. He will never be able to use your email as long as the account is secure! So let him be frustrated for the rest of his imbecilic life and move on.

    I'm with this idea. You can associate your live account with a new email address at least, which will protect your live account (and thus, xbox details) from being taken over, even if the kid does manage to take the email as well.

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  • ImprovoloneImprovolone Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Especially with all the spam this kid has likely gotten you signed up for, a new e-mail is the way to go.

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  • FiggyFiggy Fighter of the night man Champion of the sunRegistered User regular
    edited September 2009
    This time, go with Gmail. It's leaps and bounds better than hotmail, and you're sharing an email domain with a much more sensible ratio of normals to weirdos.

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  • RolloutRollout Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    Figgy wrote: »
    This time, go with Gmail. It's leaps and bounds better than hotmail, and you're sharing an email domain with a much more sensible ratio of normals to weirdos.
    Going gmail still won't mean you won't run into more e-mail similarity problems. I have a similar case with the OP, where my e-mail is made of two words, and the person's e-mail added a - (strike sign) between them in his/hers. Too stubborn to get a new e-mail, the person still use his/her e-mail on websites which then direct to my e-mail instead, for some reason. I'm guessing he/she forgot there's a sign in his email. It don't bother me because I don't care about those e-mails, and they're not important ones like invitations on facebook, myspace, beebo, and I already sent an explanation e-mail anyway. His/her fault for ignoring it.

    I suggest thinking a really unique username if you create a new e-mail account.

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  • CasualCasual Wiggle Wiggle Wiggle Flap Flap Flap Registered User regular
    edited September 2009
    It's at times like this I'm thankful I was born with a unique name.

    I would recommend switching to gmail for no other reason than it's better than hotmail.

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