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Gifts for Soon to Be Soldier

The Iron ChancellorThe Iron Chancellor Registered User regular
edited April 2010 in Help / Advice Forum
Friend of mine is going to Afghanistan relatively shortly. I am having a bit of trouble thinking of good gifts for him. Anyone have any experience with this type of situation? I was thinking of maybe getting him a DS and a game or two, or some books, or maybe build a Canadian bear to remind him of home or something. Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks.

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  • RaekreuRaekreu Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Good call on the gameboy and books, the books and games can be traded/lent around when he's done with them.

    Your best bet would probably be to wait for him to get there and keep up with the guy...he's unlikely to know what he needs by way of needful things until he's actually there.

    Care packages are a great idea and fairly cheap. If I had to guess, I'd throw in the following:

    -playing cards, dominoes, etc
    -eye drops, hand sanitizer, kleenex, icy hot, foot powder...basically anything sanitation related is a good bet.
    -Non-spoiling food items like hard candy, beef jerky, etc.

    Anything you can think of that you yourself can go to the corner drug store and grab is probably going to be in high demand during field deployment.

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  • PolloDiabloPolloDiablo Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Once he's deployed the things he'll want most in the world are things like razor blades and deodorant. Toiletries, mostly. As a going away present, I think a DS is a good idea. Some long rpg's like pokemon would help to pass the time. I've got some friends overseas at the moment, and they keep asking for comic books. Maybe some of them.

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  • QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    edited April 2010
    i hear baby wipes are appreciated

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  • PolloDiabloPolloDiablo Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    A tank.

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  • Jean Claude Van CalmJean Claude Van Calm 'sup? Awesome Possum.Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Toiletries are nice, but bags and bags and bags of Sour Patch Kids are waaaaaaaaaay better.

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  • RobmanRobman Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    I've heard really good hot sauces are worth their weight in gold

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  • NoxyNoxy Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Depending on whether your friend enjoys cigars, that might be a good option. A friend of mine is a US Army Ranger and loved having cigars sent to Iraq. He also said chocolate, toiletries and adult magazines were nice.

    I second the DS and some long RPG titles. Maybe a game like Tetris for infinite replay value. Books are always a bonus.

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  • GothicLargoGothicLargo Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Robman wrote: »
    I've heard really good hot sauces are worth their weight in gold

    Good coffee/tea is too. In the forward areas the best a person can find is usually Folgers that's been in the coffee pot for about 12 hours too long.

    Just about anything mundane that you can find in a grocery store is a godsend as long as it won't melt in transport.

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  • Fizban140Fizban140 Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited April 2010
    Robman wrote: »
    I've heard really good hot sauces are worth their weight in gold

    Good coffee/tea is too. In the forward areas the best a person can find is usually Folgers that's been in the coffee pot for about 12 hours too long.

    Just about anything mundane that you can find in a grocery store is a godsend as long as it won't melt in transport.
    People in the military drink coffee that isn't horrible? News to me.

    Anyways he doesn't really need anything specific as far as gifts, just get him stuff he would like that makes sense. Don't get him a brand new gaming PC and a 52 inch tube TV, that doesn't make sense. Baby wipes are suppose to be great, not exactly sure why but every single person I have talked to told me that they are the greatest thing ever...but wouldn't explain why...

    Anyways maybe some decent socks? They will be wearing boot socks a lot, some nice ones might help.

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  • RentRent I'm always right Fuckin' deal with itRegistered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Friend of mine is going to Afghanistan relatively shortly. I am having a bit of trouble thinking of good gifts for him. Anyone have any experience with this type of situation? I was thinking of maybe getting him a DS and a game or two, or some books, or maybe build a Canadian bear to remind him of home or something. Any help would be appreciated.

    Thanks.

    Porn, a DS/PSP, hand sanitizer, baby wipes, more porn

    A laptop if you're made o' cash and he doesn't have one

    Definitely though...get him porn

    A lot of porn
    Once he's deployed the things he'll want most in the world are things like razor blades and deodorant. Toiletries, mostly.

    Please do not get him these, I had so many disposable razors and deodorant when I finished up in Iraq it was ridiculous

    Also: if he has a favorite non-perishable food item send that (in my case, it was Oreos)
    Fizban140 wrote: »
    Baby wipes are suppose to be great, not exactly sure why but every single person I have talked to told me that they are the greatest thing ever...but wouldn't explain why...

    Perfect jizz clean up material

    Rent on
  • DrswordsDrswords Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Robman wrote: »
    I've heard really good hot sauces are worth their weight in gold

    This. If the man likes his tobasco, you cant go wrong with sending him over with a bottle or two.

    Hell get him a variety size package. If it includes the little tiny carry with you anywhere bottles the man might be your friend for eternity.

    Also... PSP/DS. GET HIM ONE.

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  • UsagiUsagi Nah Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Digital camera with extra SD cards and extra batteries
    Long-distance phone cards
    Candy that won't melt
    Gum
    Mints
    Wet wipes
    Ziplock baggies
    Gatorade powder
    Chapstick/Carmex
    Gold Bond
    Hand warmers (the kind you stick in your gloves when its cold)

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  • GothicLargoGothicLargo Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Fizban140 wrote: »
    In the forward areas the best a person can find is usually Folgers that's been in the coffee pot for about 12 hours too long.
    People in the military drink coffee that isn't horrible? News to me.

    There's a difference between deliberately choosing to drink sludge and being too tired to dump and rebrew an entire pot.

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  • David WalgasDavid Walgas Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Anything that he likes and will take up lots of time. From books, to video games, even down to sudoku if that's his thing. The worst parts of a deployment are the being away from loved one and the boredom. A buddy of mine on our last one had his wife ship him their old TV, his PS3, and ALL his games, just for the 12 hours a day you don't spend on patrols or in the BAS. Candy, baby wipes, gold bond (the blue one is the best), all your sanitation needs really. The razors, not so much. One of my favorite things oddly enough was one of those little black airport hygiene kits, simply because it lasted way longer than it should have, and when I used everything in it, the bag was awesome as a DS carry-n-go.

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  • juggerbotjuggerbot NebraskaRegistered User regular
    edited April 2010
    I second the "no toiletries" thing. I suppose it will depend highly on his station. At Bucca, we had entire Conex's full of that shit. I think they eventually started giving it out to detainee family members. Snack food like beef jerky was always welcome, but I suppose that could get expensive. My choice was Fun Dip.

    Amazon gift cards would work great. You can get damn near anything with free shipping, so your gift goes farthest. On that note, if any vendor charges more for shipping to an APO, DO NOT USE THEM. Better yet, report them to BBB or someone. The vendor only has to pay for shipping to some warehouse in Virginia, and DoD picks up the rest of the tab. I heard about some websites shafting soldiers that way.

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  • PolloDiabloPolloDiablo Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Interesting about the toiletries. Maybe my friend is farther out than you were, he says they don't have access to any kind of stores to pick that kind of thing up.

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  • GungHoGungHo Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Rent wrote: »
    Friend of mine is going to Afghanistan relatively shortly. I am having a bit of trouble thinking of good gifts for him. Anyone have any experience with this type of situation? I was thinking of maybe getting him a DS and a game or two, or some books, or maybe build a Canadian bear to remind him of home or something. Any help would be appreciated.

    Thanks.

    Porn, a DS/PSP, hand sanitizer, baby wipes, more porn

    A laptop if you're made o' cash and he doesn't have one

    Definitely though...get him porn

    A lot of porn
    Once he's deployed the things he'll want most in the world are things like razor blades and deodorant. Toiletries, mostly.

    Please do not get him these, I had so many disposable razors and deodorant when I finished up in Iraq it was ridiculous

    Also: if he has a favorite non-perishable food item send that (in my case, it was Oreos)
    Fizban140 wrote: »
    Baby wipes are suppose to be great, not exactly sure why but every single person I have talked to told me that they are the greatest thing ever...but wouldn't explain why...

    Perfect jizz clean up material
    So, basically, you spent your hitch with your hand on your dick while surrounded by Oreos, disposable razors, and used baby wipes?

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  • SpacemilkSpacemilk Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Sounds like you should get him toiletries in care packages on an "as-needed" basis, rather than buying him a whole bunch now.

    I like the idea of a DS+games, or comic books - stuff he can use for a while then trade around for new stuff.

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  • RentRent I'm always right Fuckin' deal with itRegistered User regular
    edited April 2010
    GungHo wrote: »
    So, basically, you spent your hitch with your hand on your dick while surrounded by Oreos, disposable razors, and used baby wipes?

    patton_flag1.jpg

    Ahahahahahah Goddamn it you rock GungHo

    Edit: Even though I dislike these sorts of things I thought this was pretty funny

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  • Jean Claude Van CalmJean Claude Van Calm 'sup? Awesome Possum.Registered User regular
    edited April 2010
    Spacemilk wrote: »
    Sounds like you should get him toiletries in care packages on an "as-needed" basis, rather than buying him a whole bunch now.

    I like the idea of a DS+games, or comic books - stuff he can use for a while then trade around for new stuff.

    Pretty much. In the the perfect world you expect your care package to be received most graciously with every piece, so thoughtfully packed, given equal attention. That their eyes will widen and swell with moisture as they gently unwrap their 200 count q-tip box. Perhaps they'll tenderly embrace a pack of AAA batteries as they drift away to the deepest of sleeps and dreams of home.

    The truth is that there's more than likely a bigass PX wherever they are at. They will just buy whatever they need, knowing where they are and what there job is (which can tell you how likely they are to be stuck in a ditch somewhere without toilet paper) is also important.

    The more likely scenario your package will go through will be like that of a pack of feral lion bears ripping into a sweet delicious rabbit deer. They'll take what they want, hand the rest out and whats left will be sifted through by the trash man. Send cool stuff, books, games, candy. Last I checked porn was a big no no... but noones gonna check for it most likely.

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