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It sure does suck sending an e-mail and then regretting it.
I'm a Mason and the guy in charge of our mail list is an old man who loves Fox News. He sends us Glenn Beck videos, fox news chain letters, etc.
So today I got a new one saying all true patriots need to help keep the flag in the class room! And telling me to go vote on some Fox News poll.
I hate Fox News. The only terrorist organization America needs to fear is Fox. So I sent him an e-mail, telling him what I think about him and his Fox News. There may have been one or six curse words in there, I went into detail about why I hate Fox, and I told him I was embarrassed for him because he takes Fox seriously.
I'm now regretting being so rude and blunt. I don't regret telling him off, but I regret how I did it.
Oh man, I do this all the time with women. Usually after we have been broken up a bit, and then I tell them what I really think about them. I'm not friends with too many of my exes haha.
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Ubikoh pete, that's later. maybe we'll be dead by thenRegistered Userregular
edited February 2011
i am so paranoid about this
which is why it takes me 45 minutes to send a three line email reply
making sure i didn't say anything wrong
or had a curse word slip in by accident
(only in professional contexts, not if i'm emailing like my friends or family)
Oh man, I do this all the time with women. Usually after we have been broken up a bit, and then I tell them what I really think about them. I'm not friends with too many of my exes haha.
that sounds awful
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I'm a Mason and the guy in charge of our mail list is an old man who loves Fox News. He sends us Glenn Beck videos, fox news chain letters, etc.
So today I got a new one saying all true patriots need to help keep the flag in the class room! And telling me to go vote on some Fox News poll.
I hate Fox News. The only terrorist organization America needs to fear is Fox. So I sent him an e-mail, telling him what I think about him and his Fox News. There may have been one or six curse words in there, I went into detail about why I hate Fox, and I told him I was embarrassed for him because he takes Fox seriously.
I'm now regretting being so rude and blunt. I don't regret telling him off, but I regret how I did it.
You should send him a follow up email saying that you apologize for using such strong language and you understand that it was inappropriate to do so. You can say that you should have just expressed your opinion, but not taken it to a personal level with this guy. Mostly just say you're sorry and that your actions were inappropriate. If you truly feel bad about the way you disagreed with him, just say so.
which is why it takes me 45 minutes to send a three line email reply
making sure i didn't say anything wrong
or had a curse word slip in by accident
(only in professional contexts, not if i'm emailing like my friends or family)
Ditto. Work emails tend to be written, deleted, re-written, etc. Though I've found that habit slowly seeping into my personal emails/messaging, even here on the forums, I constantly find myself editing msg's for tiny errors that no one would care about. But what if they really do!?
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Ubikoh pete, that's later. maybe we'll be dead by thenRegistered Userregular
edited February 2011
no wait, blame it on your cat walking on your keyboard
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Lord DaveGrief CauserBitch Free ZoneRegistered Userregular
edited February 2011
Tell him a gay communist broke into your computer and was trying to undermine your relationship
Or just don't be a douche
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Tossrocktoo weird to livetoo rare to dieRegistered Userregular
edited February 2011
There's a Google Labs feature for gmail that gives you a five second regret period to unsend an email
i've never had this problem because i'm so worried about how awful it would be if i did something like this that i end up rereading anything i type at least a bazillion times to make sure i'm not about to make myself look like a dick/an idiot
(i've been proofreading this post since yesterday)
Sign me up for the Obsessive Editor's Club. I share the tendency to put perhaps more thought and care than is strictly necessary into composing, proofreading, and re-writing emails and even dumb ol' forum posts.
Oh well, it beats coming across like a sub-literate baboon.
e: For example, so far I have edited this 3-sentence post twice. (Yes, counting this edit.)
I'm a Mason and the guy in charge of our mail list is an old man who loves Fox News. He sends us Glenn Beck videos, fox news chain letters, etc.
So today I got a new one saying all true patriots need to help keep the flag in the class room! And telling me to go vote on some Fox News poll.
I hate Fox News. The only terrorist organization America needs to fear is Fox. So I sent him an e-mail, telling him what I think about him and his Fox News. There may have been one or six curse words in there, I went into detail about why I hate Fox, and I told him I was embarrassed for him because he takes Fox seriously.
I'm now regretting being so rude and blunt. I don't regret telling him off, but I regret how I did it.
You should send him a follow up email saying that you apologize for using such strong language and you understand that it was inappropriate to do so. You can say that you should have just expressed your opinion, but not taken it to a personal level with this guy. Mostly just say you're sorry and that your actions were inappropriate. If you truly feel bad about the way you disagreed with him, just say so.
Then! Send a third email that is just a picture of you sleeping with his wife
Oh man we had an issue like this at work. My friend Sarah was working with this guy Brad on a job.
We're auditors and one of our clients was a GLBTAU Center. Brad, the supervisor, is a born again Christian. He's been through an exorcism that cleansed the demons out and now he's super hardcore religious. Well they were out at the client and Brad just kept talking about how this place is an abomination and how these people need to be saved. Sarah kept telling him no and that its a bad idea and not professional. Anyway, they found out at lunch that the CFO is gay (or transgendered, I forget which), but then when Brad and Sarah were alone, he kept venting. Then he got into Sarah's religious beliefs and tried to get her to be saved, but she kept politely turning it down.
Anyway she got annoyed and went to send me an email saying how she didn't want to get saved and that she's tired of hearing about all his exorcism and born again stuff.
Problem is that my last name and his last name are very similar. When she began to type mine, it autocompleted with his and she sent it.
She realized what she did and just flat out said "Look. I sent you an email just now and I'm sorry, but this is how I feel. It wasn't meant for you but it is what it is now"
He read the email, sat back, and was like "God intended for you to send this email to me. Let's talk about it. Why don't you want to be saved?"
Now they never work on jobs together.
tl:dr Hilarious email story dealing with religion and being saved. Whoops.jpg
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Metzger MeisterIt Gets Worsebefore it gets any better.Registered Userregular
edited February 2011
welp, you smarted off to a mason.
prepare to have your wacky crab-god eat your soul.
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Clint EastwoodMy baby's in there someplaceShe crawled right inRegistered Userregular
There's a Google Labs feature for gmail that gives you a five second regret period to unsend an email
You can set it to 30 seconds now, which is what I have it at. It's saved me from enraging a couple exes already.
I was gonna say.. 5 seconds sounds like the exact amount of time it takes to process that you did something wrong so by the time you react to hit cancel it gets sent.
Also one that involved me. I was close to breaking up with my girlfriend and was talking to my sister on the phone and told her we were going to try and work things out instead. My sister hangs up and 5 seconds later i get a text that says 'they are still together. fuck'
That was meant for my oldest sister, not me. The texting sister felt real bad about that one after I called her out on it.
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Viscount Islands[INSERT SoKo HERE]...it was the summer of my lifeRegistered Userregular
edited February 2011
Yeah I'm very careful with written stuff usually. I'm least careful here I think. But when it comes to work e-mails I usual edit and try to find the right tone that probably only I can hear anyway.
The one time I really let loose was on my ex-girlfriend and she really, really didn't deserve it. We're friends now and anytime it comes up I apologize profusely and grovel at her feet. Oh and also at some idiot I used to be friends with, but I don't feel bad about that.
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I'm a Mason and the guy in charge of our mail list is an old man who loves Fox News. He sends us Glenn Beck videos, fox news chain letters, etc.
So today I got a new one saying all true patriots need to help keep the flag in the class room! And telling me to go vote on some Fox News poll.
I hate Fox News. The only terrorist organization America needs to fear is Fox. So I sent him an e-mail, telling him what I think about him and his Fox News. There may have been one or six curse words in there, I went into detail about why I hate Fox, and I told him I was embarrassed for him because he takes Fox seriously.
I'm now regretting being so rude and blunt. I don't regret telling him off, but I regret how I did it.
You should send him a follow up email saying that you apologize for using such strong language and you understand that it was inappropriate to do so. You can say that you should have just expressed your opinion, but not taken it to a personal level with this guy. Mostly just say you're sorry and that your actions were inappropriate. If you truly feel bad about the way you disagreed with him, just say so.
You should edit Wikipedia.
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BusterKNegativity is Boring Cynicism is Cowardice Registered Userregular
When I was back home in Texas at my parents last year I went total stormfront on them while they were watching Beck. It's pretty empowering to curse & lecture your parents in their own living room They got the message, they don't watch him anymore, my sister helped provide the calmer perspective.
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BusterKNegativity is Boring Cynicism is Cowardice Registered Userregular
When I was back home in Texas at my parents last year I went total stormfront on them while they were watching Beck. It's pretty empowering to curse & lecture your parents in their own living room They got the message, they don't watch him anymore, my sister helped provide the calmer perspective.
Wait, were they just watching it, or were they trying to get you to watch it or something?
When I was back home in Texas at my parents last year I went total stormfront on them while they were watching Beck. It's pretty empowering to curse & lecture your parents in their own living room They got the message, they don't watch him anymore, my sister helped provide the calmer perspective.
Wait, were they just watching it, or were they trying to get you to watch it or something?
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which is why it takes me 45 minutes to send a three line email reply
making sure i didn't say anything wrong
or had a curse word slip in by accident
(only in professional contexts, not if i'm emailing like my friends or family)
that sounds awful
You should send him a follow up email saying that you apologize for using such strong language and you understand that it was inappropriate to do so. You can say that you should have just expressed your opinion, but not taken it to a personal level with this guy. Mostly just say you're sorry and that your actions were inappropriate. If you truly feel bad about the way you disagreed with him, just say so.
Ditto. Work emails tend to be written, deleted, re-written, etc. Though I've found that habit slowly seeping into my personal emails/messaging, even here on the forums, I constantly find myself editing msg's for tiny errors that no one would care about. But what if they really do!?
Or just don't be a douche
(i've been proofreading this post since yesterday)
Same. It takes me fucking forever to hit send.
you can put an automatic timer on the outbox, so if you're like, oooo shit that's wrong
you can get it back
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Oh well, it beats coming across like a sub-literate baboon.
e: For example, so far I have edited this 3-sentence post twice. (Yes, counting this edit.)
i like tabbed and then hit enter or something and instead of jumping a line down i hit send
i was like
noooooooooooooo
Me too. Just hovering over the send button, knowing that you've made a fool of yourself somewhere in there, but being unable to see where.
Then whoops, it turns out that the part that made you a fool is that you sent it late.
Right click->Recall Message, and if they haven't read it by then, they never will
It doesn't really help the ol' post quality.
You can set it to 30 seconds now, which is what I have it at. It's saved me from enraging a couple exes already.
This is hilarious to see as a Thunderbird user.
"Oh, you sure would like to take that one back, wouldn't you?"
Then! Send a third email that is just a picture of you sleeping with his wife
We're auditors and one of our clients was a GLBTAU Center. Brad, the supervisor, is a born again Christian. He's been through an exorcism that cleansed the demons out and now he's super hardcore religious. Well they were out at the client and Brad just kept talking about how this place is an abomination and how these people need to be saved. Sarah kept telling him no and that its a bad idea and not professional. Anyway, they found out at lunch that the CFO is gay (or transgendered, I forget which), but then when Brad and Sarah were alone, he kept venting. Then he got into Sarah's religious beliefs and tried to get her to be saved, but she kept politely turning it down.
Anyway she got annoyed and went to send me an email saying how she didn't want to get saved and that she's tired of hearing about all his exorcism and born again stuff.
Problem is that my last name and his last name are very similar. When she began to type mine, it autocompleted with his and she sent it.
She realized what she did and just flat out said "Look. I sent you an email just now and I'm sorry, but this is how I feel. It wasn't meant for you but it is what it is now"
He read the email, sat back, and was like "God intended for you to send this email to me. Let's talk about it. Why don't you want to be saved?"
Now they never work on jobs together.
tl:dr Hilarious email story dealing with religion and being saved. Whoops.jpg
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Abraham Lincoln taught my friend who in turn taught that to me
Dear satan I wish for this or maybe some of this....oh and I'm a medium or a large.
I was gonna say.. 5 seconds sounds like the exact amount of time it takes to process that you did something wrong so by the time you react to hit cancel it gets sent.
That was meant for my oldest sister, not me. The texting sister felt real bad about that one after I called her out on it.
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The one time I really let loose was on my ex-girlfriend and she really, really didn't deserve it. We're friends now and anytime it comes up I apologize profusely and grovel at her feet. Oh and also at some idiot I used to be friends with, but I don't feel bad about that.
What spring does with the cherry trees.
You should edit Wikipedia.
You have old friends
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Wait, were they just watching it, or were they trying to get you to watch it or something?
Oh they were watching it. And believing it.
It seems watching a show and buying into it (crazy as that man is) isn't really cause to yell at your parents.
dis right here
I think I know my parents better than you.
You don't know man. You don't know! Cuz you weren't there man!