Why do so many Trans people seem to be in poly relationships
Personal experience it's because finding a relationship that works with in traditional defined normal relationships is fucking hard when you already exist outside of the norm so i'm more willing to try out non standard relationship things.
Also, i'm largely aromantic, and treat relationships as friendships with sex so being a group that does that makes the most sense to me.
Why do so many Trans people seem to be in poly relationships
Personal experience it's because finding a relationship that works with in traditional defined normal relationships is fucking hard when you already exist outside of the norm so i'm more willing to try out non standard relationship things.
Also, i'm largely aromantic, and treat relationships as friendships with sex so being a group that does that makes the most sense to me.
but that's just me.
yeah, when you start challenging something really BIG like gender identity, it's pretty easy to move on and challenge other cultural 'norms'
my take from it, is that more people should challenge their own gender identity, sexual preferences, and other such things
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Why do so many Trans people seem to be in poly relationships
Personal experience it's because finding a relationship that works with in traditional defined normal relationships is fucking hard when you already exist outside of the norm so i'm more willing to try out non standard relationship things.
Also, i'm largely aromantic, and treat relationships as friendships with sex so being a group that does that makes the most sense to me.
but that's just me.
yeah, when you start challenging something really BIG like gender identity, it's pretty easy to move on and challenge other cultural 'norms'
my take from it, is that more people should challenge their own gender identity, sexual preferences, and other such things
I kinda wonder what I wouldn't have explored if I were straight and cis. Being trans was just like... ok I guess actually society is kinda bullshit? Well if I'm rejected for something as tiny as this, if these rules are that arbitrary, what else is arbitrary? Oh hey EVERYTHING IS ARBITRARY I AM IN CHARGE NOW
(But seriously, while I've always kinda questioned rules in an academic way, the fact that I'm forced to destroy them to merely exist makes it so easy to crush the rest of them.)
Like it's so much easier, now. I have run into affections I haven't expected, kinky feelings I hadn't expected, relationship desires I hadn't expected, and it's just not a big deal. Instead of "OH GOD IS THIS OK," my general thought when I want something that's not socially accepted is not "oh god what will people think," but "haha that's silly lemme see if I can get it."
In the time i've known you you've have done things i have been entirely too scared to do myself. I am never sure good of friends we are but i sure as hell respect you a ton.
There ain't many people in this world i can say that about.
Well, i guess i could, but i try not to lie too much these days.
In the time i've known you you've have done things i have been entirely too scared to do myself. I am never sure good of friends we are but i sure as hell respect you a ton.
There ain't many people in this world i can say that about.
Well, i guess i could, but i try not to lie too much these days.
ever since you bothered me on skype a few times, I've considered you a friend
you're one of my sisters
your foes are my foes
let us swear this blood oath together
(I sometimes like pretend that trans fem folk are like a tribe of barbarian warriors)
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Why do so many Trans people seem to be in poly relationships
Personal experience it's because finding a relationship that works with in traditional defined normal relationships is fucking hard when you already exist outside of the norm so i'm more willing to try out non standard relationship things.
Also, i'm largely aromantic, and treat relationships as friendships with sex so being a group that does that makes the most sense to me.
but that's just me.
yeah, when you start challenging something really BIG like gender identity, it's pretty easy to move on and challenge other cultural 'norms'
my take from it, is that more people should challenge their own gender identity, sexual preferences, and other such things
I kinda wonder what I wouldn't have explored if I were straight and cis. Being trans was just like... ok I guess actually society is kinda bullshit? Well if I'm rejected for something as tiny as this, if these rules are that arbitrary, what else is arbitrary? Oh hey EVERYTHING IS ARBITRARY I AM IN CHARGE NOW
(But seriously, while I've always kinda questioned rules in an academic way, the fact that I'm forced to destroy them to merely exist makes it so easy to crush the rest of them.)
Like it's so much easier, now. I have run into affections I haven't expected, kinky feelings I hadn't expected, relationship desires I hadn't expected, and it's just not a big deal. Instead of "OH GOD IS THIS OK," my general thought when I want something that's not socially accepted is not "oh god what will people think," but "haha that's silly lemme see if I can get it."
In the time i've known you you've have done things i have been entirely too scared to do myself. I am never sure good of friends we are but i sure as hell respect you a ton.
There ain't many people in this world i can say that about.
Well, i guess i could, but i try not to lie too much these days.
ever since you bothered me on skype a few times, I've considered you a friend
you're one of my sisters
your foes are my foes
let us swear this blood oath together
(I sometimes like pretend that trans fem folk are like a tribe of barbarian warriors)
Together we shall stop The Evil Sorcerer Pat'ri-Arki and their minions and bring peace to the lands.
I seriously have spent minutes trying to think of something clever and that's the best i got.
We should start a Barbarian tribe. No one uses the desert right? let's all move there.
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I have a lumberbutt. I produce logs suitable for cabin making.
if I'm dating a polyamorous person
and I can't stand one of their partners
it's a big red warning flag
plus my brain is doing a lot of "She's not with me, but she's still with her?"
which is not a happy thought process at all
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I have been there. It's a hard trap to escape but i have faith in you. You're a strong lady.
Why do so many Trans people seem to be in poly relationships
Personal experience it's because finding a relationship that works with in traditional defined normal relationships is fucking hard when you already exist outside of the norm so i'm more willing to try out non standard relationship things.
Also, i'm largely aromantic, and treat relationships as friendships with sex so being a group that does that makes the most sense to me.
but that's just me.
In all this bumfusion I kinda lost track myself.
There are plenty of poly people who experience the reverse of this.
yeah, when you start challenging something really BIG like gender identity, it's pretty easy to move on and challenge other cultural 'norms'
my take from it, is that more people should challenge their own gender identity, sexual preferences, and other such things
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I kinda wonder what I wouldn't have explored if I were straight and cis. Being trans was just like... ok I guess actually society is kinda bullshit? Well if I'm rejected for something as tiny as this, if these rules are that arbitrary, what else is arbitrary? Oh hey EVERYTHING IS ARBITRARY I AM IN CHARGE NOW
(But seriously, while I've always kinda questioned rules in an academic way, the fact that I'm forced to destroy them to merely exist makes it so easy to crush the rest of them.)
Like it's so much easier, now. I have run into affections I haven't expected, kinky feelings I hadn't expected, relationship desires I hadn't expected, and it's just not a big deal. Instead of "OH GOD IS THIS OK," my general thought when I want something that's not socially accepted is not "oh god what will people think," but "haha that's silly lemme see if I can get it."
In the time i've known you you've have done things i have been entirely too scared to do myself. I am never sure good of friends we are but i sure as hell respect you a ton.
There ain't many people in this world i can say that about.
Well, i guess i could, but i try not to lie too much these days.
ever since you bothered me on skype a few times, I've considered you a friend
you're one of my sisters
your foes are my foes
let us swear this blood oath together
(I sometimes like pretend that trans fem folk are like a tribe of barbarian warriors)
Twitch (I stream most days of the week)
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Together we shall stop The Evil Sorcerer Pat'ri-Arki and their minions and bring peace to the lands.
I seriously have spent minutes trying to think of something clever and that's the best i got.
We should start a Barbarian tribe. No one uses the desert right? let's all move there.
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I call lesbian gunslinger ghoul dominatrix cowgirl.
Detroit? Pff..at least in the desert theres a chance for life to exist.
Sometimes, i actually feel real bad about all the detroit jokes i make.
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wastelands, they speak to me
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Please tell me you are familiar with Fallout New Vegas, the premiere charismatic lesbian gunslinger simulator.
I need to do a pyromanic playthrough
since I love flamethrowers and flamethrower accessories
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hi5
I still need to do a melee and an explosives (or maybe a melee/explosives) run.
there are many good reasons you would not want to live in the desert.
Still there are many good reasons not to live most places.
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Not all deserts are really hot.
It's more the lack of moisture.
Naturally, one leads to the other, but one needn't have the former to achieve the latter.
Yeah, there are areas of tundra that are classified as deserts.
Now the real place to live is in a dessert. Just settle down in a nice fruit parfait or a tiramisu.
Better to live in a desert than anywhere cold
don't many deserts get bitterly cold at night?
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Also Antarctica counts as a desert.