So the girl hasn't contacted me in any way, shape or form since last Wednesday. Until then she called me every day. Since then, not a call, Facebook message or text message. She also doesn't pick up when I call her, and deleted a post from me from her wall. She gave me no explanation for this sudden behaviour.
I have no idea how, but I seem to have completely ruined my friendship with her.
[chat], you may now laugh at me and say "I told you so".
What did the chat tell you to do/ not do? I can't laugh and say "I told you so" until I'm properly informed.
Or much worse, to go from calling every day to zero in one shot.
I just wish I knew what it was, and how to fix it.
Any mutual friends you could contact?
I'm friends with one guy she's good friends with. But that would be pointless; she's a very private person. Whatever she has against me, she won't tell anyone else.
Yeah, it was the bar, then her strange Facebook message to which I over-reacted a bit, then tried to cool down.
EDIT: That's one of the many things I don't get here. She wrote me a Facebook message, maybe odd but still a kinda nice one, after the bar, in which she said she'll call me. So it can't be something I did there. But since then, nothing. Even if I say that she didn't like my reaction, this complete cut-off seems exagerated in response to a Facebook message.
The best thing you can do is ignore her/put her out of your mind. She obviously wants some space and the only thing yo ucan do is give it to her. Let her come back on her own terms, even if it's a year down the road when she randomly calls you (it happens, trust me). If it helps, villifier her in your mind and tell yourself you're better off.
The point is: This battle is done. retreat, regroup, and move on to the next fight on another front.
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The available options are Taco Bell, Wendy's, McDonald's, KFC, and Hardee's.
I require your input.
You make me want to send you food. That is depressing.
Well I mean normally I'd have a turkey sandwich or something but we're out of bread and the drive to the grocery store is longer than it is to Wendy's and I am "grarr give Sal food now"
I was actually down near you last weekend, should have seen if you wanted to snag a drink or something.
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DynagripBreak me a million heartsHoustonRegistered User, ClubPAregular
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I think my washing machine is chewing up my clothes. I should probably quit overloading it.
Yeah, it was the bar, then her strange Facebook message to which I over-reacted a bit, then tried to cool down.
EDIT: That's one of the many things I don't get here. She wrote me a Facebook message, maybe odd but still a kinda nice one, after the bar, in which she said she'll call me. So it can't be something I did there. But since then, nothing. Even if I say that she didn't like my reaction, this complete cut-off seems exagerated in response to a Facebook message.
Would it be silly to think that she understands that you never stopped loving her? If she's anything like the girls I've dated they don't mind being friends as long as they can be sure that you don't have any feelings for them.
*edit: and that she's stepping away from you now either because she wants you to get over her or because she doesn't like you any more?
Would it be silly to think that she understands that you never stopped loving her? If she's anything like the girls I've dated they don't mind being friends as long as they can be sure that you don't have any feelings for them.
*edit: and that she's stepping away from you now either because she wants you to get over her or because she doesn't like you any more?
That's a good question. We never talked about it again since last August, but back when we did talk about it she said that her feelings for someone don't turn on and off overnight. So if she extends the same reasoning to me, she should expect me to still have feelings for her. If she didn't... then that might be it :?
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DynagripBreak me a million heartsHoustonRegistered User, ClubPAregular
Yeah, it was the bar, then her strange Facebook message to which I over-reacted a bit, then tried to cool down.
EDIT: That's one of the many things I don't get here. She wrote me a Facebook message, maybe odd but still a kinda nice one, after the bar, in which she said she'll call me. So it can't be something I did there. But since then, nothing. Even if I say that she didn't like my reaction, this complete cut-off seems exagerated in response to a Facebook message.
Would it be silly to think that she understands that you never stopped loving her? If she's anything like the girls I've dated they don't mind being friends as long as they can be sure that you don't have any feelings for them.
*edit: and that she's stepping away from you now either because she wants you to get over her or because she doesn't like you any more?
It's probably because she doesn't want to end up in giant jar in his basement.
That's a good question. We never talked about it again since last August, but back when we did talk about it she said that her feelings for someone don't turn on and off overnight. So if she extends the same reasoning to me, she should expect me to still have feelings for her. If she didn't... then that might be it :?
idk. Maybe she thought that you'd be over her by now. Maybe she's just pissed off, maybe she understands that in order to get over someone, that they shouldn't see each other alone so god damned often. ._.;
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Baconator.
Now.
What did the chat tell you to do/ not do? I can't laugh and say "I told you so" until I'm properly informed.
Also, that sucks, dude.
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I just wish I knew what it was, and how to fix it.
Any mutual friends you could contact?
@Salv: KFC
EDIT: That's one of the many things I don't get here. She wrote me a Facebook message, maybe odd but still a kinda nice one, after the bar, in which she said she'll call me. So it can't be something I did there. But since then, nothing. Even if I say that she didn't like my reaction, this complete cut-off seems exagerated in response to a Facebook message.
The point is: This battle is done. retreat, regroup, and move on to the next fight on another front.
Well I mean normally I'd have a turkey sandwich or something but we're out of bread and the drive to the grocery store is longer than it is to Wendy's and I am "grarr give Sal food now"
I was actually down near you last weekend, should have seen if you wanted to snag a drink or something.
*edit: and that she's stepping away from you now either because she wants you to get over her or because she doesn't like you any more?
It does some pretty reasonable spicy chicken and chips. Hardly something you want to eat every day, but once in a while it's good for a change.