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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Rhan9 wrote: »
    Ideal life would be along the megalomaniacal designs seen here, becoming immortal, being a god, all that.

    Why? I certainly do not want to be inmortal. I want a nice, long life, but I certainly don't think immortality would be pleasing in the end. And as for being a God: well, that isn' t even a "life".

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    Rhan9Rhan9 Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    Rhan9 wrote: »
    Ideal life would be along the megalomaniacal designs seen here, becoming immortal, being a god, all that.

    Why? I certainly do not want to be inmortal. I want a nice, long life, but I certainly don't think immortality would be pleasing in the end. And as for being a God: well, that isn' t even a "life".

    Point taken. My ideal is hardly realistic. That's why my answer for good life was money, love and power to affect the world around yourself. Kinda lacking in all three, so that's what I'm striving for.
    As for immortality being pleasing, well, mortal life sure as hell hasn't been pleasing so far.

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    SithDrummerSithDrummer Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Ludious wrote: »
    The good life is the financial freedom to do what I want. It's not about being rich. A trust fund that provided me with enough interest every year to live relatively comfortably (but there'd be no buying flying yachts) would do just fine.

    I have a good job but this whole "working for a living" thing has never meshed well with me. I want the freedom to travel around and visit my family and friends whenever I wish. I want the TIME to be able to do those things. If I want to attempt to open up a business, I want to do so with the knowledge that, if it fails, I won't be living in a box.
    Waking up on a cold day next to the girl you love.
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    Not having to will yourself out of bed every day.
    MKR wrote: »
    Having a laser powerful enough to draw a smiley face on the moon.

    These four suggestions pretty much comprise my idea of "the good life".

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    VariableVariable Mouth Congress Stroke Me Lady FameRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I'll take immortality, but that's for another thread.

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    UnbreakableVowUnbreakableVow Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
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    TarranonTarranon Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Well, I suppose to tell what living the good life is, I'd have to take into account myself and my externalities.

    As far as externals are concerned, having a rewarding job, not having to worry too much about financial issues, a good relationship, the ability to do some good in the world.

    For myself as a person, honestly the idea of a polymath has always been a favored romanticism of mine. If I were something like that down the line, with the externals mentioned above covered, I would consider that a splendid life.

    If we're talking about the supernatural, yeah. Immortality. I don't think I'd mind that.

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    electricitylikesmeelectricitylikesme Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    It's my life. My life is the good life.

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    _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    The good life is whatever you consider the good life to be.

    I do not believe this.

    Then explain the bountiful differences in replies.

    Finding an objective good is nigh-impossible. So, best, too, will be subjective.

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    The good life is whatever you consider the good life to be.

    I do not believe this.

    Then explain the bountiful differences in replies.

    Finding an objective good is nigh-impossible. So, best, too, will be subjective.

    I think Aristotle is a good guide to the good life. A good life is a happy life. Now, if you consider a good life to be on an island with a personal medical team taking all sorts of different drugs, I would say that that is not a happy life. Happiness has certain qualities to it, the classical definitions of which you are aware: independence, persistence, and consisting of both the contentness and ecstasy, which I had previously mentioned.

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    MrMisterMrMister Jesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    MrMister wrote: »
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

    I think that the best life is a LOT harder to define than a good life. I'm quite certain that I can demarcate a good life. I wouldn't know where to begin to describe the best life. Some mix of Kantian duty with Aristotelian Balance.

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    MrMister wrote: »
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

    I think that the best life is a LOT harder to define than a good life. I'm quite certain that I can demarcate a good life. I wouldn't know where to begin to describe the best life. Some mix of Kantian duty with Aristotelian Balance.

    Both are vague concepts that depend entirely on the individual.

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MrMister wrote: »
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

    I think that the best life is a LOT harder to define than a good life. I'm quite certain that I can demarcate a good life. I wouldn't know where to begin to describe the best life. Some mix of Kantian duty with Aristotelian Balance.

    Both are vague concepts that depend entirely on the individual.

    No. For the reasons I listed before and because people are too stupid to know when they're unhappy.

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    edited November 2007
    MrMister wrote: »
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

    This has never really struck me as much of a dilemma, since we have any number of concrete examples of people who actually do have access to, for all intents and purposes, limitless amounts of largely consequence-free sex + drugs + money but, even taking into account our natural Puritan tendency to want to see the popular and successful laid low, they often really don't seem that happy. With no boundaries to push against, they can't recapture the satisfaction of the achievements that got them to that level in the first place.

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MrMister wrote: »
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

    I think that the best life is a LOT harder to define than a good life. I'm quite certain that I can demarcate a good life. I wouldn't know where to begin to describe the best life. Some mix of Kantian duty with Aristotelian Balance.

    Both are vague concepts that depend entirely on the individual.

    No. For the reasons I listed before and because people are too stupid to know when they're unhappy.

    Then you need to define "good life."

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MrMister wrote: »
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

    I think that the best life is a LOT harder to define than a good life. I'm quite certain that I can demarcate a good life. I wouldn't know where to begin to describe the best life. Some mix of Kantian duty with Aristotelian Balance.

    Both are vague concepts that depend entirely on the individual.

    No. For the reasons I listed before and because people are too stupid to know when they're unhappy.

    Then you need to define "good life."
    Podly wrote: »
    I think Aristotle is a good guide to the good life. A good life is a happy life. Now, if you consider a good life to be on an island with a personal medical team taking all sorts of different drugs, I would say that that is not a happy life. Happiness has certain qualities to it, the classical definitions of which you are aware: independence, persistence, and consisting of both the contentness and ecstasy, which I had previously mentioned.

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MrMister wrote: »
    You haven't specified whether the best life is to be taken as the most enjoyable or the most morally upstanding. If it's the former, then I'd go with money, men, and so on. If it's the latter, then it's charity and good works.

    I think that the best life is a LOT harder to define than a good life. I'm quite certain that I can demarcate a good life. I wouldn't know where to begin to describe the best life. Some mix of Kantian duty with Aristotelian Balance.

    Both are vague concepts that depend entirely on the individual.

    No. For the reasons I listed before and because people are too stupid to know when they're unhappy.

    Then you need to define "good life."
    Podly wrote: »
    I think Aristotle is a good guide to the good life. A good life is a happy life. Now, if you consider a good life to be on an island with a personal medical team taking all sorts of different drugs, I would say that that is not a happy life. Happiness has certain qualities to it, the classical definitions of which you are aware: independence, persistence, and consisting of both the contentness and ecstasy, which I had previously mentioned.

    That's not a definition at all. At best it's an example and an explanation of why you consider living drugged up on an island to be a bad life.

    Edit: I guess what I'm saying is that you're doing a terrible job of explaining the rules of happiness.

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    _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    _J_ wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    The good life is whatever you consider the good life to be.

    I do not believe this.

    Then explain the bountiful differences in replies.

    Finding an objective good is nigh-impossible. So, best, too, will be subjective.

    I think Aristotle is a good guide to the good life. A good life is a happy life. Now, if you consider a good life to be on an island with a personal medical team taking all sorts of different drugs, I wouldm say that that is not a happy life. Happiness has certain qualities to it, the classical definitions of which you are aware: independence, persistence, and consisting of both the contentness and ecstasy, which I had previously mentioned.

    I do not think Aristotle is correct insofar as he would tell a happy person they are not happy. While people can be mistaken about their own assessment of their state in life I do think that there is not one "best" for all people. After all, not everyone would want to be a philosopher and nigh-all philosophers would say that doing philosophy is the best life.

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Was Aristotle happy?

    Edit: You say "...independence, persistence, and consisting of both the contentness and ecstasy..." constitute a happy life. Why are any of these prerequisites for happiness?

    I suppose it's possible I'm just missing what you're saying. Your posts read like a bad pop psychology book, and are hard to follow.

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    ShintoShinto __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    But that's the problem. By whose standard? And whose philosophy?

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    MKR wrote: »
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    But that's the problem. By whose standard? And whose philosophy?

    Reason's standards.

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    But that's the problem. By whose standard? And whose philosophy?

    Reason's standards.

    Whose reason? That of a collectivist society? Individualist? Consumerist? Fundamentally religious (and which religion?)?

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    ShintoShinto __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    MKR wrote: »
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    But that's the problem. By whose standard? And whose philosophy?

    Sounds like a matter for discussion and perhaps debate. Contending opinions and whatnot.

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    But that's the problem. By whose standard? And whose philosophy?

    Reason's standards.

    Whose reason? That of a collectivist society? Individualist? Consumerist? Fundamentally religious (and which religion?)?

    For all intents and purposes, those people (esp the religious and consumerist) are not acting completely logically.

    A good life is a happy life. "The good life" would therefore be the happiest life. Now multiple things can make you happy. But what will make you the most happy?

    Here is where my religious inclinations come in - love. Pure, unadulterated love will make you the most happy. Between God, between your partner, between your children.

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    MKR wrote: »
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    But that's the problem. By whose standard? And whose philosophy?

    Reason's standards.

    Whose reason? That of a collectivist society? Individualist? Consumerist? Fundamentally religious (and which religion?)?

    For all intents and purposes, those people (esp the religious and consumerist) are not acting completely logically.

    A good life is a happy life. "The good life" would therefore be the happiest life. Now multiple things can make you happy. But what will make you the most happy?

    Here is where my religious inclinations come in - love. Pure, unadulterated love will make you the most happy. Between God, between your partner, between your children.

    What does happiness have to do with logic? :P

    Rather than go back and forth between you saying "this is happiness" and me saying "to you", it might be more productive to discuss how different cultures see happiness.

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    _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    Oh. Then the best life is the life if a philosopher.

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    Oh. Then the best life is the life if a philosopher.

    OK Plato

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    MKRMKR Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Would you say that someone in a collectivist culture is more likely to define happiness by what others do than someone in an individualist culture?

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    ege02ege02 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    The Good Life is one that is free of worries.

    Of course, this means that living it is a matter of choice, a matter of perspective. People are as happy as they decide to be, and all that.

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    DodgeBlanDodgeBlan PSN: dodgeblanRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Torturing animals.

    War.

    Catholics.

    High school bullies.

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    MrMisterMrMister Jesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Shinto wrote: »
    When I started the thread I meant "the good life" in the way I think that term is generally defined in philosophy - as the best kind of life to live.

    Well, ancient ethicists and modern ethicists have taken dramatically different approaches to this question. The way you're phrasing things seems to be in a more ancient framework--talking about the best life to lead, not necessarily the components of a morally correct course of action. Of course, I don't particularly agree with the ancient approach. I think that there are two distinct questions: what is the best life for me, and what is the morally upstanding life.

    Giving money to charity lowers my quality of life, however, it's an essential component of the morally upstanding life. Furthermore, as of writing this, I decided to put my money where my mouth is, and started a monthly donation to Oxfam. I encourage others to do the same.

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    ShintoShinto __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Personally I'm more interested in the morally upstanding life. "The best life for me" is just a boring listing of what toys people want.

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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Shinto wrote: »
    Personally I'm more interested in the morally upstanding life. "The best life for me" is just a boring listing of what toys people want.

    I'm big on the Kantian notion of Duty on this one. The best morally upstanding life in one in which our will is not dictated by oughts, because the ought is out of place - the would is already aligned with the right thing to do.

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    MrMisterMrMister Jesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Shinto wrote: »
    Personally I'm more interested in the morally upstanding life. "The best life for me" is just a boring listing of what toys people want.

    I agree. The morally upstanding life, as I see it, is one of maximizing utility along a continuous scale. My parents give me $200 in spending money a month. I just signed up to give $40 of it, which I picked because it's round, and because 20% is what Peter Singer gives. Had I picked $50 instead I would be living a more moral life, and had I picked $30 I would be living a less moral one.

    Of course, charity is not the sole component of morality (although it is a huge one). There are similar considerations with regards to things like calling home on mother's day, helping friends through tough times, and so on. The more you do, the better, the less you do, the worse. The important thing being, again, that it's a continuous scale, and not an all or nothing affair.

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    VeegeezeeVeegeezee Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
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    PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    MrMister wrote: »
    Shinto wrote: »
    Personally I'm more interested in the morally upstanding life. "The best life for me" is just a boring listing of what toys people want.

    I agree. The morally upstanding life, as I see it, is one of maximizing utility along a continuous scale. My parents give me $200 in spending money a month. I just signed up to give $40 of it, which I picked because it's round, and because 20% is what Peter Singer gives. Had I picked $50 instead I would be living a more moral life, and had I picked $30 I would be living a less moral one.

    Of course, charity is not the sole component of morality (although it is a huge one). There are similar considerations with regards to things like calling home on mother's day, helping friends through tough times, and so on. The more you do, the better, the less you do, the worse. The important thing being, again, that it's a continuous scale, and not an all or nothing affair.

    Ewww...Utilitarianism

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    MrMisterMrMister Jesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Podly wrote: »
    Ewww...Utilitarianism

    It's not bullshitty enough for you--I understand. Too workaday for a postmodernist "student of literature and life."

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    IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    The good life is pretty easy to get for decently-educated 1st worlders IF they don't give a rat's ass about prestige goods, at least until kids come into the equation.

    Prestige goods and kids tend to fuck things up pretty quickly.

    Also, like, prestige as a non-good.

    Fortune isn't so hard, fame's a bitch.

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    ShintoShinto __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    MrMister wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Ewww...Utilitarianism

    It's not bullshitty enough for you--I understand. Too workaday for a postmodernist "student of literature and life."

    I think his revulsion has more to do with his Catholicism than his hipsterism.

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