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[NEED ADVICE] My Girlfriend Wants to Try RPGS

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  • Palmer EldritchPalmer Eldritch Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    im gonna go out on a limb here and say deus ex.

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  • Red KnightRed Knight Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    puzzle quest is the perfect intro to rpg gaming for a casual gamer. my gf only ever played solitaire before puzzle quest (which she finished twice - totally stole my ds for 3 months) now shes progressed on to some jrpgs.

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  • VelmeranVelmeran Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Is it sad when you think of RPG's as a genre where you make decisions that affect the story, but it seems 90% of the games give you 0-1 choices for an ending? JRPG's tend to have only one ending, maybe 2. Bioshock, all about choices, well, really just one, good or evil? Seems alot of RPG's are nothing more then hack and slash "pretty pretty princess dress up" games (don't get me wrong, I love dressing of my princess in Hellgate).

    Sigh, someday we'll have it as good as we do with good old tabel top gaming.

    I would suggest she learns about Paranoia and joins the forum games if she really wants "character affecting the outcome" play.

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  • NoIdeaRightNowNoIdeaRightNow Registered User new member
    edited November 2007
    This is a decision not to be taken lightly.. If you play your cards as they are ment to be played, you will end up with a gamer girlfriend...

    First of all, I would not reccommend FallOut.. I have played a lot of RPGs, but I only got my hands on this one a while a go.. I understand that many people love it, and it's probably good, but I found the control system to be outdated and frustrating.. When people play their first RPG, and this is probably twice true for girls, they would want instant gratification, not to sit through hours of reading cliche stuff, without having a clue about what is going on, thus Baldurs Gate and the like is in my eyes not a viable optin as a first RPG game. These are "hard core" RPGs, which requires a bit more experience, patience and "stamina".. She needs something like Zelda or FF IX, which are estethically pleasing, and an easy attainable storyline from the get go.. Go save/kidnap the princess.. Since none of these are widely attainable for old laptop machines however, this is more a tip of what to avoid, than what to get, I assume..

    I could remark that the only game I've gotten a girl to play was the rope jumping part in FFIX and an arkanoid clone.. Girls seems to love those simple to understand, yet hard to master puzzle games.. /generalisation

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  • TerrendosTerrendos Decorative Monocle Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    When Spore comes out, you can try that. It's all about your choices having an effect on your creature, culture, and eventually planet and galaxy. And it's made by Will Wright, so she'd probably be pretty receptive to it too. Of course, that does mean waiting until March.

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  • JansonJanson Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Some of the generalisations and comments on half of the population are hilariously inaccurate and offensive, but then they usually are in these kinds of threads.

    My first experience with RPGs was BG1 and I thought it was amazing but then I had had a little experience with the system it was based on. Still, it's going to run well on a laptop and it has a very engaging story. Yes, 2 is much better, but it can be nice to carry a character through.

    However, nearly everyone else is correct in that, if the laptop runs it, KotOR is probably your best bet. It's perfect: good length but not too epic, engaging, simple, feels like you have choice, and has a recognisable universe. Plus good romances.

    Bioware has a huge female fanbase, if you want to talk generalisations. They did their research and their later games (KotOR, Jade Empire, Mass Effect) cater really, really well for a female audience. Much better than any FF game.

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  • chesspiecefacechesspieceface Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Nox may not be a bad choice. It's fairly simple in the diablo action way, but my recollection is that it is much more story driven than it's diablo counterparts.

    Edit: I also think your best bets are to look into games that won't overwhelm her with the "system". Not because she is a girl gamer, but because her experiences with games aren't that in depth yet. Pick games where she won't get hung up on figuring out how to play, and she will just be able to get to the story even if that means her choices on effecting the story aren't as in depth as some other games may be. If she plays a game like Nox and doesn't like the story or doesn't feel that she is having as much as an impact as she would like in her games than she can find a new game that she might like better. If on the other hand you throw a game like Oblivion or even Baldur's Gate at her she may never get the chance to enjoy the story because she is too busy trying to learn how to play the system and not be able to get to the story.

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  • FantasyrogueFantasyrogue Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I was gonna say something but Janson says it much better than I could :)

    I think my first rpg experience was probably Daggerfall, followed by Shadows over Riva. My only concern with Baldur's Gate is still dependant on what the op's girlfriend is like with the interface (and the stats thingie). But only the op can tell us this.

    And I still disagree with the hack 'n slash suggestions. They're a completely different genre.

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  • chesspiecefacechesspieceface Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    another thing to think about is that a lot of these games people are recommending are pretty cheap, and can be found used easily. grab a couple from each area and let her decide which she enjoys playing. If she prefers one subgenre over the other than you can go hog wild in that area.

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  • minigunwielderminigunwielder __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Crashmo wrote: »
    Wienke wrote: »
    World of Warcraft. Seriously. Girls eat that shit up once they get settled in.

    Plus when she joins a guild, she'll have guys complementing her 1000x a day and kissing her ass so you don't have to.

    So she games and gets a self-esteem boost. Win-win!

    Then work her into the offline stuff after she gets hooked...

    This is pretty truthful. Just keep an eye out so she doesn't end up running away with her GM. ;)

    That stopped being true a long time ago, WoW is now so horribly top heavy that the largest guild in the most populated server(Deathwing) is incapable of doing anything except suck and die...


    X-Com1(UFO Defense)/2(TFTD) is always a bit of a hit for this scenario(if you get a version that works), Those people who reccomend avoiding Planescape really need a reality check, she will probably like it after she plays her second game(Any of you idiots saying that it is not a beginners game fail to understand how fucking purposeless combat is, you are immortal)

    Arcanum is fucking awesome(and is my only reccomendation that I can wholehartedly support, in any circumstance)(and it will run perfectly on her box)

    V:TM:BL is okay once you get her hooked.

    If you know any non-freaky friends who play PnP Paranoia is always good, oWoD is awesome(start with Changeling, girls get weirded out with everything else until they realize that PnP is not the devil(we know she is intelligent, just, social stigma))

    Also, RAM is the easiest thing to replace on a laptop, tell the guys on this forum what make and model and they will tell you what to do.(eventually)

    Also, that dumbass five or so posts below me fails to realize that she can tolerate the Sims, she can handle Fallout, if anyone reccomends MW or OB, ignore them, she wants consequences, not canned bullshit.

    When you finally get her hooked, TF2 is sincerely the way to go.

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  • DisruptorX2DisruptorX2 Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Chrono Trigger or Kotor are both newbie friendly games that are easy to get into. Both have good graphics, good stories, and easy controls.
    Xagarath wrote: »
    Baldur's Gate 2, if she can handle the interface..
    God no, very newbie unfriendly. If you'd have said BG 1, I would have even thought you were being sarcastic. :P

    Anyone recommending Fallout has got to be sarcastic. He's asking for an RPG for a newbie RPG player. I'd say games where its really easy to permanantly fuck up are not newbie friendly.

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  • XagarathXagarath Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Super Paper Mario is actually a really good suggestion in one sense.
    It had members of my family who do not play games interested.


    I'm still recommending Planescape: Torment, though

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  • gneGnegneGne Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Mario & Luigi: Superstar Saga! Never played Super Paper Mario, but I guess it's sort of like it? I think Nintendo RPGs are alot more user friendly than those hardcore RPGs.
    Zelda would be my next guess.

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  • Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    gneGne wrote: »
    Mario & Luigi: Superstar Saga! Never played Super Paper Mario, but I guess it's sort of like it? I think Nintendo RPGs are alot more user friendly than those hardcore RPGs.
    Zelda would be my next guess.

    This is true. The games are very basic battle systems but have an extra depth with timed attacks which are fun to me and I'm not too big on the turn based RPG.

    But as someone said earlier, you aren't finding games for a girl, you are finding games for a casual gamer who wants something a little more meatier.

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  • JansonJanson Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    It may sound strange but BG isn't as unfriendly to newbies as some of you may think.

    Before the BG series the only games I'd managed to play were Broken Sword and Duke Nukem 2D. That was it; never owned a computer before. But consider:

    1. 2D interface, so no getting to grips with tricky controls and no motion sickness
    2. Use the mouse for everything, combat is easily paused
    3. Character screen simple to understand
    4. Easy to quick save
    5. Combat is 'difficult' in the sense that you have to plan and think in some instances, but it doesn't require any good hand-eye coordination or skill

    It can get quite in-depth, I agree, but you may only really run into difficulties if you play a magic user; a fighter is straight-forward.

    Now, I don't recommend it as much because I think it's less immediately engaging than my other suggestions. But what I really appreciated about BG was how accessible the gameplay was.

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  • minigunwielderminigunwielder __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    He stopped caring the moment you started turning this thread into an excercise in how much trolling you can acheive without getting banned, so, uh, can we please lock this?

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  • MalefactMalefact Registered User new member
    edited February 2008
    A small RPG called "The Way" made independently by a fine fellow in RPGMaker2k, has arguably one of the best stories...full stop. The last chapter just completely blew me away. It's free, runs on crappy computers, and is available for download over at http://www.crestfallen.us/. Truly epic. It also has a couple of different endings, based on the decisions you've made.

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  • SageinaRageSageinaRage Registered User regular
    edited February 2008
    res0nation wrote: »
    I've been dating this girl for about two years, and she hasn't expressed interest in gaming until recently. She let me install Sims 2 on her laptop about a year ago, but that's it.

    Yesterday she said that role playing games interest her. My response was "are you trying to give me an erection?" I asked her what she thought role playing games were and she said something along the lines of "I guess a game where you have to make decisions about what you want to do, and you have an impact on the story, and not just shooting people." Yeah, I know. But that's what I have to work with.

    Here's the challenge:
    Platform: Laptop with 512mb RAM
    Target: Girl non-gamer, English Major, Total Babe, only played the Sims 2
    Game: More focused on player than story, low system requirements, non-intimidating.

    I've already ruled out the Fallout series (maybe later if I can get her hooked), The Longest Journey (too linear... she'll get bored), Planetscape (too bizzare at this point) and Neverwinter Nights (decisions are mostly about math). I'm on the fence about the Baulder's Gate series...

    Oblivion seems noob friendly enough, but it won't run on her computer. Morrowind probably wouldn't do so hot either. I absolutely love RPGs but haven't played any obscure ones, so I'm hoping perhaps a couple members of this fine community can point me to some gems that I'm missing. Do it for the children. My children. If she becomes a gamer we might be making babies very soon.

    Here's the correct answer: The Myst Series

    1. They will run fine on whatever computer you have.
    2. No violence, which she seems to not be interested in.
    3. Focused entirely on the player - your character makes no decisions without your input.
    4. Largely non-linear, solved at the pace of the player, where you make your own decisions.

    Alternate good answers include traditional adventure games, Sam and Max, Day of the Tentacle, Etc.

    People here need to stop focusing on the phrase 'role playing games' that she used, and instead read about what she wanted. She obviously doesn't know the baggage that rpg's entail these days, since she doesn't play games.

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  • Salvation122Salvation122 Registered User regular
    edited February 2008
    I cannot believe no one has suggested Skies of Arcadia

    I am disappointed in you G&T

    For shame

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  • PikaPuffPikaPuff Registered User regular
    edited March 2008
    Guys, check the dates. It's a 3 month old thread bumped by a new account's first and only post. And look, the post is suggesting a game with a website link.

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  • Xenogears of BoreXenogears of Bore Registered User regular
    edited March 2008
    Barkley:Shut Up and Jam:Gaiden is the only real answer.

    If she can't slam with the best then she can jam with the rest. :winky:

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  • SageinaRageSageinaRage Registered User regular
    edited March 2008
    PikaPuff wrote: »
    Guys, check the dates. It's a 3 month old thread bumped by a new account's first and only post. And look, the post is suggesting a game with a website link.

    It's never too late to impart my wisdom.

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  • NativityInBlackNativityInBlack Registered User regular
    edited March 2008
    Get Vampire: Bloodlines - It's sexy, awesome story, not that disturbing (it's up to the player actions), fantastic music, depth, and it's like 10-20 bucks on Steam.

    My lady LOVED it.

    Shes awesome tho.

    The HL2 engine runs on a lot of systems as well.

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