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GAMERDAD '08 Open Letter to PAX Attendees

GamerDadGamerDad Registered User regular
edited October 2008 in PAX Archive
Dear PAX attendees,
Three years ago I ran into Tycho at E3 and he urged me to come to PAX. "The future of gaming is there, and it has kids." I came, I helped out with a few panels, and I saw. He was right. I've been envisioning a GamerParent revolution (a time when gaming parents - not non-gamers rate and judge games) for a decade now and I've run GamerDad for 5 years. Tycho was right, something special was happening in Seattle.

Last year I took my wife and performed an hour-long speech about gaming and children. It went over well. I also filled in for a few panels again, and I did an hour-long speech about Politics and the History of Gaming when the ECA's Hal Halpin had to cancel and the political panel was in jeopardy. That went over even better, garnering a write up in Seattle's The Stranger newsweekly. My wife, GamerMom, was impressed with the show. We had a great time. Energized, we headed home and almost one week later...

I had a massive heart attack. Then another one in the hospital. An emergency quadruple bypass operation stopped that nonsense. While in the hospital, GamerMom asked for help. Gabe posted it on the front page of Penny-Arcade (showing here (scroll down to Gabe's message)) http://www.penny-arcade.com/2007/09/14/ and over 1000 people - industry leaders, game developers, celebrities, my audience at GamerDad and YOU - donated money. Each message told me to soldier on, each dollar amount was dwarfed by the collective hug that came largely from this wonderful community.

I'm proud to be speaking at PAX 08. Even if you're not a parent, come to hear me say thank you. Come to hear me talk about what's good about gaming. See me preview concepts from my new book. Come join the GamerParent Revolution and come see why Tycho was right...

PAX is the future of gaming. And it does have kids. It's time for more gaming with children.

(To test the patience of the admins, here's a link detailing the above and also talking about what I've accomplished this past year - mostly because of your generosity) http://www.gamingwithchildren.com/2008-08-11/penny-arcadegamerdad-overview/

GamerDad: Gaming with Children Speech
2:30-3:30 Sunday at PAX!

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  • LigerLiger Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Huzzah GamerDad! And congrats on the recovery. I know how hard that is. While you were under the knife, so was my dad for his second double-bypass. The various communities surrounding PAX are so full of love and support; it was amazing to see so many people sending help and warm wishes to your family and (in smaller circles) mine.

    I hope I can catch your panel this year. I didn't get a chance to at '07!

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  • NefariousJoeNefariousJoe Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    I look forward to ensuring that your panel runs absolutely smoothly.

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  • chibidanichibidani Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Being a mom of a 2 year old, i was already interested in your panel. Now, after reading your post here and even more on your blog, I SO wanna be there! It sounds great.

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  • ArcoArco Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Hey, alright! Way to survive a few heart attacks. I'll definitely drop by and say hello. I don't have any kids, but I'm getting to the age where I'm thinking about having them, and this is a topic that interests me quite a bit.

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  • kropotkinkropotkin Forum Badge Creator London UKRegistered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Great to hear you've recovered. ahh the wonders of modern medicine. As for your message of games/parenting and kids I hear it loud and clear. I just wish Fox News did too...

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  • Mike FehlauerMike Fehlauer Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Glad to have you back, Bub!

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  • HaikufrenzyHaikufrenzy Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Yeah for my coverage of PAX 08 you are on the top three of people I wanted to get a quick interview with. Especially for the quality of your website. I'm always recommending it to parents I overhear.

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  • George Fornby GrillGeorge Fornby Grill ...Like Clockwork Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Both of my parents are going to PAX, and I'm definitely making them go to your panel and "Raising Our Kids on Games".

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  • AvidAvid Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    We were on the same flight together last year but I didnt know who you were by looking at you at the time.

    Looking forward to the panel.

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  • dyaballikldyaballikl PAX Main Theatre House & Security Manager • PAX Community Cartographer Gold Coast QLD AustraliaRegistered User regular
    edited August 2008
    GamerDad wrote: »
    An emergency quadruple bypass operation stopped that nonsense.
    zing! lol. dude, i totally forgot about all that "nonsense." so glad my donation went towards a good cause and to help you. may i recommend investing in some exercise equipment though? :D

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  • GamerDadGamerDad Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    My heart attack had little to do with my excercise or eating habits (I've been in good trim for the last 5 years now) and everything to do with faulty genetics. My grandpa and uncle died in their 40s. But yeah, everyone reading do some DDR, Wii Fit, something now and then and lay off the cheetos too.

    Aw forget it. I'm not your dad.

    Thanks for all the kind words and I will be available for interviews, etc., hope to see a bunch of you guys there.

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  • beta_angelbeta_angel ColoradoRegistered User regular
    edited August 2008
    First off, i'm glad to hear that you're ok.

    Second, i'm unfamiliar with your site, but as I looked over it I can only say that it's well done and I really appreciate what you bring to the table.

    I, myself, am a gamerdad. I make sure to game with my daughter and we have a great time. This year, she will not be attending PAX with me, but perhaps sometime down the road if she has the interest.

    So, well done. Unfortunatly, I will not be able to attend Sunday, which means i'll miss your panel but I wish you the best of luck and again, congrats on the site.

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  • GealachGealach Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    wow. I'm planning to write my graduate school thesis-like research paper about online communities. I'm hoping to find more stories like yours as I work on it since I'm tired of hearing about how computers and video games are isolating us and ruining our lives. Look forward to hearing you speak. :)

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  • RaymanRayman Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Add me to the ever growing list of gamer dads!! My two kids n I will be hitting our first PAX and we are just going out of our freaking minds in anticipation!!! Glad to hear you are well and I look forward to stopping by and giving you a button as a kind of 'thanks' for your contribution to all of us who game with our kids...
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  • GamerDadGamerDad Registered User regular
    edited August 2008
    Glad to hear it. My youngsters are a little too youngsterish for now but the year is approaching. Here's an article from a PA Enforcer who works for me too, it's about Paxing with Children. See you all there!

    http://www.gamingwithchildren.com/2008-08-12/pax-with-children/

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  • GamerDadGamerDad Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    The GamerParents of PAX. The remarkable true story about GamerDad.com, Penny-Arcade, PAX and the future of our Hobby

    http://www.gamingwithchildren.com/2008-09-30/the-gamerparents-of-pax/

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  • dyaballikldyaballikl PAX Main Theatre House & Security Manager • PAX Community Cartographer Gold Coast QLD AustraliaRegistered User regular
    edited October 2008
    GamerDad wrote: »
    The GamerParents of PAX. The remarkable true story about GamerDad.com, Penny-Arcade, PAX and the future of our Hobby

    http://www.gamingwithchildren.com/2008-09-30/the-gamerparents-of-pax/

    i'm curious as to why you feel pax isn't for kids. i definitely appreciate your ideals most of of the time, but i feel that there is plenty for kids at pax, far more than at e3. granted, i'd personally rather the kids quantity be minimized, but i don't see anything bad at pax for them.

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  • GSpeezyGSpeezy Registered User regular
    edited October 2008
    Comment'd.

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