Ya, this is an alt. RL ppl know my alias and I don't want them to find this question through a google search as they can put 2 and 2 together.
Here's my problem. I'm 27 and I've never kissed a girl, let alone had sex.
I've recently told friends about this. One of them...mabye two, have given me the idea that I might get some practice with them if I ask.
Here's my dilemma. One of them is engaged. However she has also been the most vocal about lending me a hand. She has a very open relationship with her fiance and is openly bi-sexual. She has done it with girls and her fiance knows about it and is cool with it(who wouldn't?). She's basically told me that if her fiance found out she gave me some practice he would be cool with it.
The other girl, not engaged but does have a boyfriend. Who may not be so cool about it if we're not discreet enough.
Plus, apparantly, the girls have discussed having a 3-some with me.
So, am I being too uptight about this? Both of them are cool with it. But I'm still looking at the "both of them are in relationships" angle and it makes me a little uncomfortable. I suppose if I'm reading this situation correctly and something actually got started then I may not be uncomfortable anymore.
But what do you guys think? Should I be hitting it without a second thought? Should I continue to put it off? Would it be as bad if it was non-intercourse play?