<--- I live in NY. NY is a horrible place for nerds. There are none of us here, we are some kind of endangered species. It's like a cesspool for my interests, and if you attempt to approach random people and interact with them, they just shut you down. My circle of freinds really isn't into the things i'm into. They are good people, but I just don't have the connection with them that i could have if we shared interests.
Don't even get me started on finding a significant other, either. It has been a sad, sad journey.
I have tried Meetup, Geek2Geek, Facebook, Myspace, etc..and nothing. I am tired of being an outcast, and seem to be seriously unlucky when meeting people into...the things posted on this forum, pretty much.
Is NY just a barren stretch of singular nerdom? What types of stories do you have where your interests have gotten you into similar trouble making and influencing freinds? How many of you feel singled out due to social awkwardness because of this? Discuss.
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maybe you are just an awful human being and your interests have nothing to do with it
Probably this.
Also New York is a bad place for nerds? What that's where the god damn real life Pokecentre is.
What spring does with the cherry trees.
i bet they don't occur in places where you'd meet new or interesting or social persons
help me, forum on a website about a webcomic about videogames!
And Druhim
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but all your friends are your cats
also when the number of friends you have is zero, it doesn't take long to evaluate them
pervert
What spring does with the cherry trees.
non-nerds date.
there is zero reason being a nerd should get in the way of anything social
In fact, I am where I am today (happily) because I am a huge nerd
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oh hey found your problem
fish make such good friends, TLB.
Haha yes. I won't put you through the trial of Awesome Post, but lets call this a Good One.
and can only date and/or be good friends with other people with nerdy hobbies
those people make me sad
grow up
ain't need to talk about the hulk all the time to be a good friend
also I am pretty sure talkin' 'bout the hulk all the time ain't gonna get you no action
basically, mr. clark, I'm saying you a busta
This is true
But I think the bottom line here is that if all you're seeing of NY, or any particular place, is your room hell yeah there will be a dearth of people to hang out with
Go outside, do stuff, meet people, have fun
well with their short memories, they can constantly forget how awful you are
so yes
they are the battered wives of pets
But you're in the city where you could probably find anything if you look for it.
What spring does with the cherry trees.
You grow up
Segregation is in
I was going more for there are friend, interesting people, and then there's Druh.
I thought it was funny. I've also been working with chloroform extractions.
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Kate Beaton is your true love.
i can't tell if this means you have a lot of fish and consider them your friends or if you just threatened to drown him
"You're...like me..."
"...yes. I too play the..."bideogames"..."
What spring does with the cherry trees.
so many 'do girls like Lelah exist??' topics
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they played warhammer or D&D or liked comic books or otherwise shared hobbies with me
but outside of those shared hobbies they were fucking losers and i actually didn't enjoy doing anything with them except playing those games with them or whatever
i realized that these people are best defined as acquaintances and are not worth my time trying to invest a great deal of effort into being close with
because the truth is, i don't really like them very much
in some cases, they felt the same way about me but were too polite to really broach the subject
If you play any kind of tabletop, Hobby/Gaming stores always have open and planned gaming session. That is like an instant social circle right there. If you do video games, figure out when the tourneys are, or just go during high traffic days. I went downtown to play DDR on Saturdays when I was in high school and frequently ran into the same group of people.
i wish
tifa weren't taken
Typical nerdball.
Dear satan I wish for this or maybe some of this....oh and I'm a medium or a large.
she would never drown me
I give her more attention than any other human being to ever cross her path
including her parents