We're certainly of the opinion that ever being mad is beneath us up in here.
If only we all had the collective self control of people who never got angry and looked down on others for it.
you are learning, grasshopper
(for real though learning not to go berserk at the slightest provocation or frustration is the very first social lesson that functional human beings learn in this world. u should have this licked around kindergarten or so.)
also "don't bottle it up" is the worst tip ever
bottle it up, keep it inside, control it, and it goes away
a useful definition of adult would be having learned to not be controlled by your emotions
Slight modification. Bottle it in the moment, but that shit has an expiration date and you best find some healthy outlets to deal with the aggression in your life.
Sitting on a mountain of anger with no outlet eventually leads to bad things.
No, because it doesn't work like that. Pressure doesn't build, you don't need an outlet. It's not a gas. You calm down, and it goes away.
You need ways to clear your mind, not to let out aggression.
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We're certainly of the opinion that ever being mad is beneath us up in here.
If only we all had the collective self control of people who never got angry and looked down on others for it.
you are learning, grasshopper
(for real though learning not to go berserk at the slightest provocation or frustration is the very first social lesson that functional human beings learn in this world. u should have this licked around kindergarten or so.)
also "don't bottle it up" is the worst tip ever
bottle it up, keep it inside, control it, and it goes away
a useful definition of adult would be having learned to not be controlled by your emotions
Slight modification. Bottle it in the moment, but that shit has an expiration date and you best find some healthy outlets to deal with the aggression in your life.
Sitting on a mountain of anger with no outlet eventually leads to bad things.
i direct all my anger against the rules of gramar and spelin
it is pretty good...i wasn't expecting to like it, not a huge halo fan, but the fact that i'm playing it more in beta than i did in alpha, despite it being 80% the same content, is a good sign for me
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I mean just the fact that it isn't horrifying and soul-rending is amazing
but it was pretty good re: disabilities and shit
and yes I have played it
One of the things that was interesting considering it was 4chan made there is a check box that turns off all the sex stuff so you just get the story.
also the fact that that button would also cut out a bit of the story
there was no gratuitious sex scenes
or, well, there was in the one storyline but that's because all of it was terribly written and I'd like a button that disabled like all of that one but they had different writers for different things
for the most part the game was adorable
It is a game I would of never touched if it wasn't for [chat] talking about it.
The game actually brought the feels for me.
I was fucking shocked.
I know!
I am glad I did go "Okay fuck it let's check out this weird thing" because that was a pleasant surprise
As long as I can get ten to fifteen minutes, I'm fine dealing with anger. Even that much gets me to calm down and just let it vanish - don't even need to bottle it up.
It's when I can't get that ten to fifteen minutes of separation that bad shit starts happening.
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I have the patience of a saint.
Comes with two little boys.
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Should've called, dumbo loser! (that didn't sound any better, did it, your fault for your username)
My butt is sore today. Did a lot of leg press yesterday. Only doing like 250-300lb sets of 8-10, I think I can up it to 350 and do 6-8 or GO MAX POWER.
My chest is expanding, but how dost I get shoulders.
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We're certainly of the opinion that ever being mad is beneath us up in here.
If only we all had the collective self control of people who never got angry and looked down on others for it.
you are learning, grasshopper
(for real though learning not to go berserk at the slightest provocation or frustration is the very first social lesson that functional human beings learn in this world. u should have this licked around kindergarten or so.)
also "don't bottle it up" is the worst tip ever
bottle it up, keep it inside, control it, and it goes away
a useful definition of adult would be having learned to not be controlled by your emotions
Slight modification. Bottle it in the moment, but that shit has an expiration date and you best find some healthy outlets to deal with the aggression in your life.
Sitting on a mountain of anger with no outlet eventually leads to bad things.
No, because it doesn't work like that. Pressure doesn't build, you don't need an outlet. It's not a gas. You calm down, and it goes away.
You need ways to clear your mind, not to let out aggression.
The problem is when people stew in it, and spend time thinking about being angry. That's when it gets the worst.
But just letting go and forgetting it works. Once the anger is out of your mind it's just gone.
I almost got angry with my best mate's girlfriend week before last. Me and him always have arguments about everything between heaven and earth and it can seem really angry and fired up from the outside but that couldn't be further from the truth.
Avoid discussing politics with her in the future, I guess. Or, politics that aren't like, foreign or agricultural or economic policy.
Welfare, is what I need to avoid. Damn near lost my cool. Which would not have been cool.
I was also super tired from work and we were all getting pretty drunk so just like, man, that was not the time to be all about how people should just pull themselves together and deal with their problems it's not that hard
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cptruggedI think it has something to do with free will.Registered Userregular
Everyone has their buttons that can be pushed for anger. If you don't get angry often then you've done well to mold your life around avoiding those buttons or people who will try to push them. Honestly, if you're not an asshole, that's what most people do all the time when choosing social groups and living / work environments.
We're certainly of the opinion that ever being mad is beneath us up in here.
If only we all had the collective self control of people who never got angry and looked down on others for it.
you are learning, grasshopper
(for real though learning not to go berserk at the slightest provocation or frustration is the very first social lesson that functional human beings learn in this world. u should have this licked around kindergarten or so.)
also "don't bottle it up" is the worst tip ever
bottle it up, keep it inside, control it, and it goes away
a useful definition of adult would be having learned to not be controlled by your emotions
Slight modification. Bottle it in the moment, but that shit has an expiration date and you best find some healthy outlets to deal with the aggression in your life.
Sitting on a mountain of anger with no outlet eventually leads to bad things.
No, because it doesn't work like that. Pressure doesn't build, you don't need an outlet. It's not a gas. You calm down, and it goes away.
You need ways to clear your mind, not to let out aggression.
The problem is when people stew in it, and spend time thinking about being angry. That's when it gets the worst.
But just letting go and forgetting it works. Once the anger is out of your mind it's just gone.
Drinking can be really good for that.
Or really bad.
There doesn't tend to be much of a middle ground when it comes to drinking and letting go of anger.
Totally not my business but this is a thing that I cannot fathom or understand. It is literally the most foreign concept I've ever encountered on these forums.
¯\(°_o)/¯
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it is pretty good...i wasn't expecting to like it, not a huge halo fan, but the fact that i'm playing it more in beta than i did in alpha, despite it being 80% the same content, is a good sign for me
Everyone has their buttons that can be pushed for anger. If you don't get angry often then you've done well to mold your life around avoiding those buttons or people who will try to push them. Honestly, if you're not an asshole, that's what most people do all the time when choosing social groups and living / work environments.
I volunteer to get shouted at and get death threats spat in my face, for fun!
it is pretty good...i wasn't expecting to like it, not a huge halo fan, but the fact that i'm playing it more in beta than i did in alpha, despite it being 80% the same content, is a good sign for me
We're certainly of the opinion that ever being mad is beneath us up in here.
If only we all had the collective self control of people who never got angry and looked down on others for it.
you are learning, grasshopper
(for real though learning not to go berserk at the slightest provocation or frustration is the very first social lesson that functional human beings learn in this world. u should have this licked around kindergarten or so.)
also "don't bottle it up" is the worst tip ever
bottle it up, keep it inside, control it, and it goes away
a useful definition of adult would be having learned to not be controlled by your emotions
Slight modification. Bottle it in the moment, but that shit has an expiration date and you best find some healthy outlets to deal with the aggression in your life.
Sitting on a mountain of anger with no outlet eventually leads to bad things.
No, because it doesn't work like that. Pressure doesn't build, you don't need an outlet. It's not a gas. You calm down, and it goes away.
You need ways to clear your mind, not to let out aggression.
The problem is when people stew in it, and spend time thinking about being angry. That's when it gets the worst.
But just letting go and forgetting it works. Once the anger is out of your mind it's just gone.
Drinking can be really good for that.
Or really bad.
There doesn't tend to be much of a middle ground when it comes to drinking and letting go of anger.
Going out drinking with friends will dissipate your anger like that if it makes you forget about it because you're busy having fun and being drunk
stewing on it + less impulse control may be a bad combo
As anyone who has worked in a call center, retail, or any other customer-facing job knows, the secret to dealing with anger is channeling it into passive-aggressiveness.
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As anyone who has worked in a call center, retail, or any other customer-facing job knows, the secret to dealing with anger is channeling it into passive-aggressiveness.
One of my co-workers used to walk away with her hands up in the air going "NOPE. NOPE. NO. NO." and into the back room.
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No, because it doesn't work like that. Pressure doesn't build, you don't need an outlet. It's not a gas. You calm down, and it goes away.
You need ways to clear your mind, not to let out aggression.
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
i direct all my anger against the rules of gramar and spelin
It's the stats collected from various DV helplines. I assume the delay you're seeing has to do with family and ease of access.
didn't work out, though. turns out that you can't weaponize impotent anger.
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I know!
I am glad I did go "Okay fuck it let's check out this weird thing" because that was a pleasant surprise
It's when I can't get that ten to fifteen minutes of separation that bad shit starts happening.
I have learned to differentiate between the two.
You getting mad at other people getting mad makes me mad.
Comes with two little boys.
My butt is sore today. Did a lot of leg press yesterday. Only doing like 250-300lb sets of 8-10, I think I can up it to 350 and do 6-8 or GO MAX POWER.
My chest is expanding, but how dost I get shoulders.
Why would I have gotten mad at that? That was awesome.
The problem is when people stew in it, and spend time thinking about being angry. That's when it gets the worst.
But just letting go and forgetting it works. Once the anger is out of your mind it's just gone.
That makes sense. A lot of people don't ask for restraining orders after DV or wait for a while before deciding to do it.
Which isn't Destiny specific. I'm having a pretty hard time giving a fuck about any not Skyrim game at the moment.
But I'll burn out on Skyrim eventually and then move on and it'll be all good.
Avoid discussing politics with her in the future, I guess. Or, politics that aren't like, foreign or agricultural or economic policy.
Welfare, is what I need to avoid. Damn near lost my cool. Which would not have been cool.
idk what kine bud is but $45 is a lot of pot to smoke
Drinking can be really good for that.
Or really bad.
There doesn't tend to be much of a middle ground when it comes to drinking and letting go of anger.
¯\(°_o)/¯
r u playing on ps4 or peecee?
I volunteer to get shouted at and get death threats spat in my face, for fun!
Staying calm is p dang important.
BUT
when other people get mad, I laugh in their face
and that certainly doesn't help the situation.
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Its not on PC, master race my ass
just ps3/4 and 360/xbone
I have gotten angry at other people in those games
get frustrated a lot tho
Going out drinking with friends will dissipate your anger like that if it makes you forget about it because you're busy having fun and being drunk
stewing on it + less impulse control may be a bad combo
there is nothing harder when some giant steroid monster is shouting about what he wants to do to you
threats are only cool on film
they are always ridiculous in real life but don't fucking laugh or you'll get your teeth kicked in no stop it stop it don't smile
One of my co-workers used to walk away with her hands up in the air going "NOPE. NOPE. NO. NO." and into the back room.