Like, on one hand I consider myself a pretty sexually adventurous person. But on the other hand, I just don't feel like food and sex mixes at all.
Aaron and I bought chocolate syrup and whipped cream but chocolate syrup is sticky and awful and horrible and it is not romantic when it comes out of a bottle shaped like a bunny
we ended up laughing and Aaron sprayed a big load of whipped cream into my mouth and i sprayed it on the wall and the paint stained a bit pale where the whipped cream hit
look, if you are the sort of person who is a swinger or into orgies
yes, i am judging you a little, but not like
a lot
but for fuck's sake don't try to sucker people into your lifestyle
hit craigslist or something and find your own likeminded kind
don't misrepresent your gatherings to cajole people into the environment so you can try to use a combination of peer pressure and seduction in order to fuck them
When I was in high school trying to find some organized poly shit was ridiculous, I guess I should have just straight up been hitting on ladies and dudes my age but I wanted to do things RIGHT with communication and honesty etc
If I had an orgy sprung upon me....well I guess it would depend on the company.
the way see it, this is a reasonable stance to take
let's face it, you aren't at an orgy to have sex with people because you like their personality
people tend to be a lot more forgiving of complexities of physical appearance when they're emotionally invested in the person
like if my fiancee somehow gained a bunch of weight and got pretty fat, i'd still love her and we'd still have physical intimacy. would i be happy about her weight gain? no, but more because of health risks than personal appearance.
however, that's my fiancee, a woman i love.
some random people or casual acquaintances? i'm there to fuck them. i am not in love with them or enjoying the intimacy shared with a whole person. we're screwing like animals
in which case, i feel it's perfectly fair to be superficial and demanding towards standards of appearance and grooming
nuclear power fearmongering can suck my dick deeply
if you are refering to the maddow twitter, you are being a fucking asshat.
Huge difference here between nuclear power fearmongering and a garguantuan wildfire getting near one of the most dangerous nuclear dump sites in the world.
When I was in high school trying to find some organized poly shit was ridiculous, I guess I should have just straight up been hitting on ladies and dudes my age but I wanted to do things RIGHT with communication and honesty etc
To be fair, even once you find it, organized poly shit tends to be pretty ridiculous.
Feral on
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Its always disappointing to go to the gym and lift a warmup weight and be like
"Whelp this is all I've got in me today, guess today is shit."
But, much like deviations in weight, its not about performance on a specific day but establishing trends.
The only thing worse then that, is overdoing yourself, get stuck unable to lift shit, and then have some well meaning guy come up and delivery a lecture.
When I was in high school trying to find some organized poly shit was ridiculous, I guess I should have just straight up been hitting on ladies and dudes my age but I wanted to do things RIGHT with communication and honesty etc
To be fair, even once you find it, organized poly shit tends to be pretty ridiculous.
I just realized that I was doing it for the wrong reasons and that I honestly got lucky with the experience I had. If we had kept going with a revolving door of ladies, I dunno if I'd still be with Choco.
Yeah, but the weight before B went up easily. It was really disconcerting when I went from "Okay, not too hard" to "oh god maybe one rep ugh".
Human body has ups and downs, some days you can bench X and some days you can bench X+20, the important thing is that if you keep going for a few months suddenly "X" is a much bigger number than it used to be.
No merit in stressing over minor fluctuations, bad sleep / diet / sore muscles / sickness / motivation / mindset can all add or subtract a few pounds from what you do.
When I was in high school trying to find some organized poly shit was ridiculous, I guess I should have just straight up been hitting on ladies and dudes my age but I wanted to do things RIGHT with communication and honesty etc
To be fair, even once you find it, organized poly shit tends to be pretty ridiculous.
I just realized that I was doing it for the wrong reasons and that I honestly got lucky with the experience I had. If we had kept going with a revolving door of ladies, I dunno if I'd still be with Choco.
What reasons were you doing it for? If you dont mind me asking.
When I was in high school trying to find some organized poly shit was ridiculous, I guess I should have just straight up been hitting on ladies and dudes my age but I wanted to do things RIGHT with communication and honesty etc
To be fair, even once you find it, organized poly shit tends to be pretty ridiculous.
I just realized that I was doing it for the wrong reasons and that I honestly got lucky with the experience I had. If we had kept going with a revolving door of ladies, I dunno if I'd still be with Choco.
What reasons were you doing it for? If you dont mind me asking.
I felt like Choco was stuck in a relationship with my dumb ass and he deserved better, so I was giving him the chance to find someone new and realize what a shit I was.
Yeah, but the weight before B went up easily. It was really disconcerting when I went from "Okay, not too hard" to "oh god maybe one rep ugh".
Human body has ups and downs, some days you can bench X and some days you can bench X+20, the important thing is that if you keep going for a few months suddenly "X" is a much bigger number than it used to be.
No merit in stressing over minor fluctuations, bad sleep / diet / sore muscles / sickness / motivation / mindset can all add or subtract a few pounds from what you do.
Right, but I'm saying that on today's workout, weight C went up easily, weight B went up barely, and I didn't even try A. I know there are ups and downs, but you don't expect to hit a down in the middle of a workout.
Right, but I'm saying that on today's workout, weight C went up easily, weight B went up barely, and I didn't even try A. I know there are ups and downs, but you don't expect to hit a down in the middle of a workout.
Eh, it happens. All sorts of reasons for it to happen too.
Is Winky still online? Does he have an IM client? I want to tell him my critique of his stuff but I don't want to write up a thing I just want to talk to him about what I think.
Right, but I'm saying that on today's workout, weight C went up easily, weight B went up barely, and I didn't even try A. I know there are ups and downs, but you don't expect to hit a down in the middle of a workout.
Eh, it happens. All sorts of reasons for it to happen too.
Sure, but that doesn't make it any less irritating, and having it happen suddenly really kills the whole "yeah, doing well" vibe.
Is your gym that terrible? Squats are easy to set up!
"Here is a bar. Put things on it. Now it is a bar with heavy things on it. Put it on your shoulders and wiggle up and down by sticking your butt out. Grunt a bit if necessary. Put the bar back."
Mostly they're a pain in the ass because you can hit any leg press or similar and lift heavy weights all day and be like "Yeah I'm so studly unf unf look at that leg press so strong not even tired unf unf" but squats are just
Is Winky still online? Does he have an IM client? I want to tell him my critique of his stuff but I don't want to write up a thing I just want to talk to him about what I think.
I've been listening a lot to the Tron: Legacy soundtrack since I saw the movie last week. I think Daft Punk really nailed the mix of orchestrated score and bleepy bloops.
Ninja, I don't have a gym. I lift weights using two machines crammed into the work building. Setting up a way to do squats safely would be enormously time consuming and might well not even be possible.
Ninja, I don't have a gym. I lift weights using two machines crammed into the work building. Setting up a way to do squats safely would be enormously time consuming and might well not even be possible.
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Aaron and I bought chocolate syrup and whipped cream but chocolate syrup is sticky and awful and horrible and it is not romantic when it comes out of a bottle shaped like a bunny
we ended up laughing and Aaron sprayed a big load of whipped cream into my mouth and i sprayed it on the wall and the paint stained a bit pale where the whipped cream hit
yes'm
basically as soon as the naked chick came out and laid on the goatskin altar i was like "uhhhhh" and then people started disrobing
literally
and putting their junk on her and i was like OKAY PEACE OUT
i talked to the people i knew the next day and i was like "the hell didn't you tell me it was going to be like that"
and they were like "well we figured after you got a few drinks in you you'd be cool with it and stuff so"
yeah i stopped talking to them after that
yes, i am judging you a little, but not like
a lot
but for fuck's sake don't try to sucker people into your lifestyle
hit craigslist or something and find your own likeminded kind
don't misrepresent your gatherings to cajole people into the environment so you can try to use a combination of peer pressure and seduction in order to fuck them
that would make you a bad person.
the way see it, this is a reasonable stance to take
let's face it, you aren't at an orgy to have sex with people because you like their personality
people tend to be a lot more forgiving of complexities of physical appearance when they're emotionally invested in the person
like if my fiancee somehow gained a bunch of weight and got pretty fat, i'd still love her and we'd still have physical intimacy. would i be happy about her weight gain? no, but more because of health risks than personal appearance.
however, that's my fiancee, a woman i love.
some random people or casual acquaintances? i'm there to fuck them. i am not in love with them or enjoying the intimacy shared with a whole person. we're screwing like animals
in which case, i feel it's perfectly fair to be superficial and demanding towards standards of appearance and grooming
This should be in Wikipedia
under "tragedy of the commons"
if you are refering to the maddow twitter, you are being a fucking asshat.
Huge difference here between nuclear power fearmongering and a garguantuan wildfire getting near one of the most dangerous nuclear dump sites in the world.
last week I barely managed a fairly high weight A
this week I barely managed weight B, the step before weight A
at least I did a set or two at low weight more
still, not what I was expecting
Goddamnit
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ytCEuuW2_A
"Whelp this is all I've got in me today, guess today is shit."
But, much like deviations in weight, its not about performance on a specific day but establishing trends.
To be fair, even once you find it, organized poly shit tends to be pretty ridiculous.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
The only thing worse then that, is overdoing yourself, get stuck unable to lift shit, and then have some well meaning guy come up and delivery a lecture.
I just realized that I was doing it for the wrong reasons and that I honestly got lucky with the experience I had. If we had kept going with a revolving door of ladies, I dunno if I'd still be with Choco.
No lectures, just weights.
Human body has ups and downs, some days you can bench X and some days you can bench X+20, the important thing is that if you keep going for a few months suddenly "X" is a much bigger number than it used to be.
No merit in stressing over minor fluctuations, bad sleep / diet / sore muscles / sickness / motivation / mindset can all add or subtract a few pounds from what you do.
What reasons were you doing it for? If you dont mind me asking.
SQUAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATS!
Xbox achievement.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
I felt like Choco was stuck in a relationship with my dumb ass and he deserved better, so I was giving him the chance to find someone new and realize what a shit I was.
Right, but I'm saying that on today's workout, weight C went up easily, weight B went up barely, and I didn't even try A. I know there are ups and downs, but you don't expect to hit a down in the middle of a workout.
My cheevos!
Eh, it happens. All sorts of reasons for it to happen too.
pain in the assssssss
and hard to set uuuuuuuuup
Sure, but that doesn't make it any less irritating, and having it happen suddenly really kills the whole "yeah, doing well" vibe.
Nonsense.
Homeless people manage it all the time.
Is your gym that terrible? Squats are easy to set up!
"Here is a bar. Put things on it. Now it is a bar with heavy things on it. Put it on your shoulders and wiggle up and down by sticking your butt out. Grunt a bit if necessary. Put the bar back."
Mostly they're a pain in the ass because you can hit any leg press or similar and lift heavy weights all day and be like "Yeah I'm so studly unf unf look at that leg press so strong not even tired unf unf" but squats are just
so
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaard
by comparison. Which is why they're great!
he's on gtalk sometimes
Xenophobe.
yessir
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
That stinks.
....
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find a gym?