So, I'm a groomsman for a good friends wedding but one of the other groomsmen is constantly using 'gay' as a derogatory to refer to something being bad or otherwise not good as well as just as casually using a-British-term-for-a-cigarette for the same purpose and it really makes me clench my jaw and get really fucking pissed. I've refrained from calling him out on it and otherwise causing a bust up because we are the groomsmen and creating a hostile atmosphere in the build up to my friends would be a huge disservice. At the same time I find it personally abhorrent and I really want to address.
So I'm stuck between just letting sleeping dogs lie and putting it aside for my friends wedding, or potentially causing a bust up by calling him out on it.
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