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TL DRTL DR Not at all confident in his reflexive opinions of thingsRegistered User regular
People often find consent talk confusing and frustrating. There are different models in play, including 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' and 'RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)'. This is a neato podcast that talks about a few models, their implications, and what it means to engage in consent negotiations in a way that can still be sexy and seductive.

Passion and Soul Podcast: Episode 94
From Safe, Sane and Consensual to building a Consent Castle, join Lee has he explores 6 models for consent, as well as two common non-verbal systems. Noting the various layers, opportunities, and definitions for sex, these tools help make sex the collaborative sport it truly can be. But don’t worry – there are sexy interludes to enjoy too, as we dive in deep, moving towards having everyone win

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  • PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited September 2016
    if i get a tattoo it's gonna be this
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  • 21stCentury21stCentury Call me Pixel, or Pix for short! [They/Them]Registered User regular
    TL DR wrote: »
    People often find consent talk confusing and frustrating. There are different models in play, including 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' and 'RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)'. This is a neato podcast that talks about a few models, their implications, and what it means to engage in consent negotiations in a way that can still be sexy and seductive.

    Passion and Soul Podcast: Episode 94
    From Safe, Sane and Consensual to building a Consent Castle, join Lee has he explores 6 models for consent, as well as two common non-verbal systems. Noting the various layers, opportunities, and definitions for sex, these tools help make sex the collaborative sport it truly can be. But don’t worry – there are sexy interludes to enjoy too, as we dive in deep, moving towards having everyone win

    i'm sorry, but having everyone win at sex is not okay. What is this participation trophies bullshit.

    When i sex, i sex to win and i win at sex alone.

  • MazzyxMazzyx Comedy Gold Registered User regular
    TL DR wrote: »
    People often find consent talk confusing and frustrating. There are different models in play, including 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' and 'RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)'. This is a neato podcast that talks about a few models, their implications, and what it means to engage in consent negotiations in a way that can still be sexy and seductive.

    Passion and Soul Podcast: Episode 94
    From Safe, Sane and Consensual to building a Consent Castle, join Lee has he explores 6 models for consent, as well as two common non-verbal systems. Noting the various layers, opportunities, and definitions for sex, these tools help make sex the collaborative sport it truly can be. But don’t worry – there are sexy interludes to enjoy too, as we dive in deep, moving towards having everyone win

    I uh, hmmm this is actually interesting with me with work more than personal stuff atm.

    But consent is kind of the basis of stuff we do.

    Well lack there of.

    Yeah, its depressing.

    *pulls out a bottle of whiskey*

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  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    @Grape Ape what are the weird reasons for not being a fan of concentration camp tattoos

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  • Evil MultifariousEvil Multifarious Registered User regular
    Today I am 32. I am so tired. So tired.

  • override367override367 ALL minions Registered User regular
    edited September 2016
    Thanks for the encouragement [chat] it legitimately helps because I feel like my entire life and all my associations are a giant crab bucket. The only person in my life who's not being a shitheel is my brother who's a programmer that does document processing software for state governments, he's like "dude everyone else is stupid you're the only one other than me in our family to finish college, in 5 years you'll be making more than any of them ever have"

    My other brother, who's frequently homeless or in jail for being a drunk, and hasn't had a real job in 15 years, is like LOL YOU SHOULDNT TAKE LESS THAN 60K

    I just filled out my paperwork for health insurance, my new job starts 9/26 and my health insurance coverage kicks in Sunday 10/2

    also my new workplace has a full espresso/latte/cappuccino bar completely free as much as you want

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  • TL DRTL DR Not at all confident in his reflexive opinions of thingsRegistered User regular
    Related: my friend is getting his Masters and for his first semester back to school, one of the classes is basically Social Justice 101. It's great to have him call me and have things to say about intersectionality and microaggressions.

    If you aren't hip to this kind of thing, I encourage you to do a little exploration. It can seem daunting, but the result is a much more liberated mode of interaction with other humans. Respect is sexy. Consent is sexy. Asking "Can I kiss you?" can be the sexiest thing in the world.

  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    "Grape Ape" what are the weird reasons for not being a fan of concentration camp tattoos

    Why did you post that pic

  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    TL DR wrote: »
    People often find consent talk confusing and frustrating. There are different models in play, including 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' and 'RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)'. This is a neato podcast that talks about a few models, their implications, and what it means to engage in consent negotiations in a way that can still be sexy and seductive.

    Passion and Soul Podcast: Episode 94
    From Safe, Sane and Consensual to building a Consent Castle, join Lee has he explores 6 models for consent, as well as two common non-verbal systems. Noting the various layers, opportunities, and definitions for sex, these tools help make sex the collaborative sport it truly can be. But don’t worry – there are sexy interludes to enjoy too, as we dive in deep, moving towards having everyone win

    i'm sorry, but having everyone win at sex is not okay. What is this participation trophies bullshit.

    When i sex, i sex to win and i win at sex alone.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5upFVziVk8Q

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  • GooeyGooey (\/)┌¶─¶┐(\/) pinch pinchRegistered User regular


    92.6mph comeback no look behind the back catch for a double play

    lel

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  • MazzyxMazzyx Comedy Gold Registered User regular
    Today I am 32. I am so tired. So tired.

    Congrats on drawing ever closer to oblivion.

    We salute you and your stance on not being part of the void, yet.

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  • 21stCentury21stCentury Call me Pixel, or Pix for short! [They/Them]Registered User regular
    Today I am 32. I am so tired. So tired.

    Yooooo! happy birthday dude! Did you assign your stat and skill points yet? Are you sticking with the original spec you were going for?

  • GooeyGooey (\/)┌¶─¶┐(\/) pinch pinchRegistered User regular
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    Today I am 32. I am so tired. So tired.

    congratulations on making it one more year closer to the end

    soon you can sleep

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  • VariableVariable Mouth Congress Stroke Me Lady FameRegistered User regular
    happy birthday EM

    may this day not stand out in any particular way

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  • TL DRTL DR Not at all confident in his reflexive opinions of thingsRegistered User regular
    gooby I think baseball is a snoozefest but that's neato

  • VariableVariable Mouth Congress Stroke Me Lady FameRegistered User regular
    on a work computer @gooey so I can't see it right now but will look later, thanks for signalling!

    BNet-Vari#1998 | Switch-SW 6960 6688 8388 | Steam | Twitch
  • 21stCentury21stCentury Call me Pixel, or Pix for short! [They/Them]Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    TL DR wrote: »
    People often find consent talk confusing and frustrating. There are different models in play, including 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' and 'RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)'. This is a neato podcast that talks about a few models, their implications, and what it means to engage in consent negotiations in a way that can still be sexy and seductive.

    Passion and Soul Podcast: Episode 94
    From Safe, Sane and Consensual to building a Consent Castle, join Lee has he explores 6 models for consent, as well as two common non-verbal systems. Noting the various layers, opportunities, and definitions for sex, these tools help make sex the collaborative sport it truly can be. But don’t worry – there are sexy interludes to enjoy too, as we dive in deep, moving towards having everyone win

    i'm sorry, but having everyone win at sex is not okay. What is this participation trophies bullshit.

    When i sex, i sex to win and i win at sex alone.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5upFVziVk8Q

    (that was the joke)

  • override367override367 ALL minions Registered User regular


    I want to play this version of mario kart

  • descdesc Goretexing to death Registered User regular
    Today I am 32. I am so tired. So tired.

    Here's an antacid and a pillow

  • GooeyGooey (\/)┌¶─¶┐(\/) pinch pinchRegistered User regular
    Variable wrote: »
    on a work computer @gooey so I can't see it right now but will look later, thanks for signalling!

    there's video in the link i posted (mlb.com is terrible and won't let you embed or link directly to videos)

    Mike Scioscia is so pissed it's great

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  • SniperGuySniperGuy SniperGuyGaming Registered User regular
    Aby that seems somewhat NSFW.

  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    So It Goes wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    "Grape Ape" what are the weird reasons for not being a fan of concentration camp tattoos

    Why did you post that pic

    because it's a "one of these is not like the others" joke on a page full of tattoos

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  • BogartBogart Streetwise Hercules Registered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    Today I am 32. I am so tired. So tired.

    On the bright side, the sweet release of Death is closer than ever before. Just lie down in the snow, EM. Soon you won't feel a thing.

  • TL DRTL DR Not at all confident in his reflexive opinions of thingsRegistered User regular
    SniperGuy wrote: »
    Aby that seems somewhat NSFW.

    What's the problem? I'm wearing white sneakers and lace panties in the office right now.

  • MazzyxMazzyx Comedy Gold Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    "Grape Ape" what are the weird reasons for not being a fan of concentration camp tattoos

    Why did you post that pic

    because it's a "one of these is not like the others" joke on a page full of tattoos

    Its a bit of a tasteless one.

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  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    SniperGuy wrote: »
    Aby that seems somewhat NSFW.

    I know what you mean, but I thought about it, and decided that that would be taking it far too far.

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  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    "Grape Ape" what are the weird reasons for not being a fan of concentration camp tattoos

    Why did you post that pic

    because it's a "one of these is not like the others" joke on a page full of tattoos

    Perhaps Ape didn't appreciate the joke

    I didn't

    /shrug

  • Shazkar ShadowstormShazkar Shadowstorm Registered User regular
    why are honey nut cheerios so tasty

    poo
  • Havelock2.0Havelock2.0 What are you? Some kind of half-assed astronaut?Registered User regular
    Happy bday EM

    May you find happiness in these, the autumn years of your existence.

    You go in the cage, cage goes in the water, you go in the water. Shark's in the water, our shark.
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    So It Goes wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    "Grape Ape" what are the weird reasons for not being a fan of concentration camp tattoos

    Why did you post that pic

    because it's a "one of these is not like the others" joke on a page full of tattoos

    Perhaps Ape didn't appreciate the joke

    I didn't

    /shrug

    well it's not a very funny one but that's a perfectly understandable reason not a weird one. I thought me meant he had some other unintuitive reason.

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  • override367override367 ALL minions Registered User regular
    edited September 2016
    why are honey nut cheerios so tasty

    The same reason why everything in America is tasty: tons of corn syrup

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  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    Mazzyx wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    "Grape Ape" what are the weird reasons for not being a fan of concentration camp tattoos

    Why did you post that pic

    because it's a "one of these is not like the others" joke on a page full of tattoos

    Its a bit of a tasteless one.

    Shrug. Get where you coming from, just don't agree.

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  • matt has a problemmatt has a problem Points to 'off' Points to 'on'Registered User regular
    Happy bday EM

    May you find happiness in these, the autumn years of your existence.

    With global warming going how it is, all our years will be summer years.

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  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    @override367

    no way, $17 an hour is great

    it's maybe a bit on the low side, sure, but you're just starting out bro

    not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    why are honey nut cheerios so tasty

    sugar, mainly

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  • PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    on the one hand this pioneer sampler seems gimmicky

    on the other hand my buddy got a promo demo to sample and loved it and dave smith's involved...

    follow my music twitter soundcloud tumblr
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  • Havelock2.0Havelock2.0 What are you? Some kind of half-assed astronaut?Registered User regular
    Happy bday EM

    May you find happiness in these, the autumn years of your existence.

    With global warming going how it is, all our years will be summer years.

    Jesus I hope not. California summers are butts as it is. I'll move to Vancouver if that happens.

    You go in the cage, cage goes in the water, you go in the water. Shark's in the water, our shark.
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