So hey, I'm Ashley, I'm a gay trans woman and it seems weird but my life is slowly coming together.
I've moved to Seattle and have been living with people I honestly love to be around and who love to be around me. I have a job that pays well enough and is in the video game industry so that's sweet.
Oh I'm also dating "Bobkins Flymo" who is just the nicest, cutest, loveliest girl. She brightens my day so much and seeing her send me a text puts me on air.
Oh shit, I need to update the forum shipping chart! I never know who is dating who. I need to make a forum relationship chart. Gonna need string, thumbtacks, pictures, and some coffee
Also! Glad you two are doing well. Makes my heart happy to see good people doing well.
we need Fire Emblem: SE++ edition
do we also have to figure out what abilities we pass on so we can figure out who is the best possible couple?
So hey, I'm Ashley, I'm a gay trans woman and it seems weird but my life is slowly coming together.
I've moved to Seattle and have been living with people I honestly love to be around and who love to be around me. I have a job that pays well enough and is in the video game industry so that's sweet.
Oh I'm also dating "Bobkins Flymo" who is just the nicest, cutest, loveliest girl. She brightens my day so much and seeing her send me a text puts me on air.
Oh shit, I need to update the forum shipping chart! I never know who is dating who. I need to make a forum relationship chart. Gonna need string, thumbtacks, pictures, and some coffee
Also! Glad you two are doing well. Makes my heart happy to see good people doing well.
we need Fire Emblem: SE++ edition
do we also have to figure out what abilities we pass on so we can figure out who is the best possible couple?
yeah there'd be the canon pairings and then you can match people up for optimal setups as well
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Updated my email signature to have new name, Lync has "call me Erin" as the status, I changed my Lync avatar from Finn to Fionna from Adventure Time. Making all the progress I can!
Well slight bummer: can't change my name & gender marker at school until I do the same with the government first. Ah well... maybe time to get shit changed legally sooner than originally planned.
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Well slight bummer: can't change my name & gender marker at school until I do the same with the government first. Ah well... maybe time to get shit changed legally sooner than originally planned.
Same here but with work. Sucks
Best of luck on getting it done quickly and efficiently!
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Well, that was interesting...
I got a call yesterday from my old boss from when I worked at the Department of Corrections. He said he wanted to meet up and have coffee, which was weird because we hadn't talked at all since a month or two before I left that job.
We met up at a coffee place and got some Beignets and coffee, and he proceeded to ask me some questions about the whole being trans thing, which I figured was the reason he wanted to talk. They were mostly innocuous questions, but at some point he decided to tell me that he had found religion! And then he tried to inject Jesus into every following thing we talked about.
After that he told me that he couldn't support my "decision" but that he would be there to support me if it was needed. I appreciate the sentiment, but treating being trans and gay like a decision seems a bit... Dumb?
I am proud of who I am, but who thinks that someone would decide, during the unfathomably stupid rein of President Trump, that another human being would choose how to select the translesbian subclass? Does that classify as hard mode? does the real Dark Souls begin here?
Anyway, that was a weird and increasingly uncomfortable conversation, but I got to eat some Beignets, so it's not all bad. How is everyone else is day going?
So hey, I'm Ashley, I'm a gay trans woman and it seems weird but my life is slowly coming together.
I've moved to Seattle and have been living with people I honestly love to be around and who love to be around me. I have a job that pays well enough and is in the video game industry so that's sweet.
Oh I'm also dating "Bobkins Flymo" who is just the nicest, cutest, loveliest girl. She brightens my day so much and seeing her send me a text puts me on air.
Oh shit, I need to update the forum shipping chart! I never know who is dating who. I need to make a forum relationship chart. Gonna need string, thumbtacks, pictures, and some coffee
Also! Glad you two are doing well. Makes my heart happy to see good people doing well.
we need Fire Emblem: SE++ edition
do we also have to figure out what abilities we pass on so we can figure out who is the best possible couple?
yeah there'd be the canon pairings and then you can match people up for optimal setups as well
"Wow weird, it seems that 98% of these pairings have at least one parent pass on the 'Depression' trait!"
I got a call yesterday from my old boss from when I worked at the Department of Corrections. He said he wanted to meet up and have coffee, which was weird because we hadn't talked at all since a month or two before I left that job.
We met up at a coffee place and got some Beignets and coffee, and he proceeded to ask me some questions about the whole being trans thing, which I figured was the reason he wanted to talk. They were mostly innocuous questions, but at some point he decided to tell me that he had found religion! And then he tried to inject Jesus into every following thing we talked about.
After that he told me that he couldn't support my "decision" but that he would be there to support me if it was needed. I appreciate the sentiment, but treating being trans and gay like a decision seems a bit... Dumb?
I am proud of who I am, but who thinks that someone would decide, during the unfathomably stupid rein of President Trump, that another human being would choose how to select the translesbian subclass? Does that classify as hard mode? does the real Dark Souls begin here?
Anyway, that was a weird and increasingly uncomfortable conversation, but I got to eat some Beignets, so it's not all bad. How is everyone else is day going?
Today I finally reached the end of a return for a business that will be filing in thirty states - or at least the point where I hand it off to my boss for him to review. I don't think they actually need to file in thirty states, but that's what they want, apparently.
Also today I did not find out where I stand with the bell choir or whether anything I've said to the director sunk in, because the church is still using that cleaner that makes it hard for me to breathe and I had to leave immediately.
I have a feeling this is going to end in the dumbest way possible, with my quitting because they don't change the cleaner.
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I got a call yesterday from my old boss from when I worked at the Department of Corrections. He said he wanted to meet up and have coffee, which was weird because we hadn't talked at all since a month or two before I left that job.
We met up at a coffee place and got some Beignets and coffee, and he proceeded to ask me some questions about the whole being trans thing, which I figured was the reason he wanted to talk. They were mostly innocuous questions, but at some point he decided to tell me that he had found religion! And then he tried to inject Jesus into every following thing we talked about.
After that he told me that he couldn't support my "decision" but that he would be there to support me if it was needed. I appreciate the sentiment, but treating being trans and gay like a decision seems a bit... Dumb?
I am proud of who I am, but who thinks that someone would decide, during the unfathomably stupid rein of President Trump, that another human being would choose how to select the translesbian subclass? Does that classify as hard mode? does the real Dark Souls begin here?
Anyway, that was a weird and increasingly uncomfortable conversation, but I got to eat some Beignets, so it's not all bad. How is everyone else is day going?
Today I finally reached the end of a return for a business that will be filing in thirty states - or at least the point where I hand it off to my boss for him to review. I don't think they actually need to file in thirty states, but that's what they want, apparently.
Also today I did not find out where I stand with the bell choir or whether anything I've said to the director sunk in, because the church is still using that cleaner that makes it hard for me to breathe and I had to leave immediately.
I have a feeling this is going to end in the dumbest way possible, with my quitting because they don't change the cleaner.
That blows. But you gotta take care of you. Maybe get a doctor's mask and put some essential oils in it?
I got a call yesterday from my old boss from when I worked at the Department of Corrections. He said he wanted to meet up and have coffee, which was weird because we hadn't talked at all since a month or two before I left that job.
We met up at a coffee place and got some Beignets and coffee, and he proceeded to ask me some questions about the whole being trans thing, which I figured was the reason he wanted to talk. They were mostly innocuous questions, but at some point he decided to tell me that he had found religion! And then he tried to inject Jesus into every following thing we talked about.
After that he told me that he couldn't support my "decision" but that he would be there to support me if it was needed. I appreciate the sentiment, but treating being trans and gay like a decision seems a bit... Dumb?
I am proud of who I am, but who thinks that someone would decide, during the unfathomably stupid rein of President Trump, that another human being would choose how to select the translesbian subclass? Does that classify as hard mode? does the real Dark Souls begin here?
Anyway, that was a weird and increasingly uncomfortable conversation, but I got to eat some Beignets, so it's not all bad. How is everyone else is day going?
Today I finally reached the end of a return for a business that will be filing in thirty states - or at least the point where I hand it off to my boss for him to review. I don't think they actually need to file in thirty states, but that's what they want, apparently.
Also today I did not find out where I stand with the bell choir or whether anything I've said to the director sunk in, because the church is still using that cleaner that makes it hard for me to breathe and I had to leave immediately.
I have a feeling this is going to end in the dumbest way possible, with my quitting because they don't change the cleaner.
That blows. But you gotta take care of you. Maybe get a doctor's mask and put some essential oils in it?
Frankly, it's not worth that effort anymore. I was ready to quit back in June and I kind of feel like it's only inertia keeping me there now.
I specifically told the director about the cleaner the first time, which was weeks ago, and tonight I told the.. music director? I dunno what her title is exactly, but she said she would talk to somebody who I'm assuming can make the change. I'm going to check back after Sunday to be sure that she has, but my patience is already out. If I have to miss again next week I'm done.
I’m a pretty private person, don’t normally talk about this kind of thing here, but I moved in with my girlfriend a little over a month ago and it’s the happiest I’ve ever been? like..in my whole life, probably? So that’s nice. Weird, but nice. I don’t know how to exist while happy so life is a little “what now” but that’s not the worst problem to have innit
For me, the last 2 1/4 months have definitely been the happiest time of my life. Just having Amara in my life has opened me up in ways I didn't think I ever could anymore. She even gave me the inspiration to start writing again, for the first time in at least half a decade.
I never knew what it was like to feel whole, until she came along. It's so incredible.
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For me, the last 2 1/4 months have definitely been the happiest time of my life. Just having Amara in my life has opened me up in ways I didn't think I ever could anymore. She even gave me the inspiration to start writing again, for the first time in at least half a decade.
I never knew what it was like to feel whole, until she came along. It's so incredible.
I started opening myself up to those feelings recently and it absolutely improved my quality of life even though I didn’t get to dating yet. Got rejected a couple times but it still felt great.
I got a call yesterday from my old boss from when I worked at the Department of Corrections. He said he wanted to meet up and have coffee, which was weird because we hadn't talked at all since a month or two before I left that job.
We met up at a coffee place and got some Beignets and coffee, and he proceeded to ask me some questions about the whole being trans thing, which I figured was the reason he wanted to talk. They were mostly innocuous questions, but at some point he decided to tell me that he had found religion! And then he tried to inject Jesus into every following thing we talked about.
After that he told me that he couldn't support my "decision" but that he would be there to support me if it was needed. I appreciate the sentiment, but treating being trans and gay like a decision seems a bit... Dumb?
I am proud of who I am, but who thinks that someone would decide, during the unfathomably stupid rein of President Trump, that another human being would choose how to select the translesbian subclass? Does that classify as hard mode? does the real Dark Souls begin here?
Anyway, that was a weird and increasingly uncomfortable conversation, but I got to eat some Beignets, so it's not all bad. How is everyone else is day going?
That "love the sinner, hate the sin" is the hottest of bullshits, and the only Christian I've ever heard to successfully pull it off is the big JC Himself. And I'm not even sure about that, because He doesn't seem to hate the sin, so much as it makes Him very, very disappointed.
So! I don't think I've ever properly introduced myself. I'm Robonun, a more or less cishet woman, pretty disinterested in sex, not sure if that's my general inclination or my chronic depression talking. Howdy.
Nabbed tickets to Professor Marston & The Wonder Women. Which, on the one hand, is pretty great. Give me all of your R-rated queer biopics, I will feed on them for life energy. On the other hand, I'm lookin' at the available seating for all the showings and maaaaaan, ain't nobody gonna go see this fuckin' movie, huh?
"I'm disappointed in your decision but I support you" is what you say about someone's questionable haircut or getting a small annoying dog or putting ketchup on steak, nothing above that level though.
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I got a call yesterday from my old boss from when I worked at the Department of Corrections. He said he wanted to meet up and have coffee, which was weird because we hadn't talked at all since a month or two before I left that job.
We met up at a coffee place and got some Beignets and coffee, and he proceeded to ask me some questions about the whole being trans thing, which I figured was the reason he wanted to talk. They were mostly innocuous questions, but at some point he decided to tell me that he had found religion! And then he tried to inject Jesus into every following thing we talked about.
After that he told me that he couldn't support my "decision" but that he would be there to support me if it was needed. I appreciate the sentiment, but treating being trans and gay like a decision seems a bit... Dumb?
I am proud of who I am, but who thinks that someone would decide, during the unfathomably stupid rein of President Trump, that another human being would choose how to select the translesbian subclass? Does that classify as hard mode? does the real Dark Souls begin here?
Anyway, that was a weird and increasingly uncomfortable conversation, but I got to eat some Beignets, so it's not all bad. How is everyone else is day going?
That "love the sinner, hate the sin" is the hottest of bullshits, and the only Christian I've ever heard to successfully pull it off is the big JC Himself. And I'm not even sure about that, because He doesn't seem to hate the sin, so much as it makes Him very, very disappointed.
So! I don't think I've ever properly introduced myself. I'm Robonun, a more or less cishet woman, pretty disinterested in sex, not sure if that's my general inclination or my chronic depression talking. Howdy.
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Step dad cancer update for those who've been following along
His doctors are saying that he'll probably make it through the holidays, but not much longer. They haven't given up, they're gonna try a few more things, but from everything my mom has told me it's not looking good at all.
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Step dad cancer update for those who've been following along
His doctors are saying that he'll probably make it through the holidays, but not much longer. They haven't given up, they're gonna try a few more things, but from everything my mom has told me it's not looking good at all.
Fuck. That's hard. I hope they're wrong somehow and things improve! But regardless, if you need to vent at any time vent away. We all care about you and your happiness and are here to listen.
I’m a pretty private person, don’t normally talk about this kind of thing here, but I moved in with my girlfriend a little over a month ago and it’s the happiest I’ve ever been? like..in my whole life, probably? So that’s nice. Weird, but nice. I don’t know how to exist while happy so life is a little “what now” but that’s not the worst problem to have innit
I'm doing the same thing with my boyfriend in a few months! I am terrified and excited!
There's no plan, there's no race to be run
The harder the rain, honey, the sweeter the sun.
Step dad cancer update for those who've been following along
His doctors are saying that he'll probably make it through the holidays, but not much longer. They haven't given up, they're gonna try a few more things, but from everything my mom has told me it's not looking good at all.
Try to make good memories with him while you can.
I lost both my parents a year apart because of Cancer with my father passing last September.
Cancer sucks and I hope it's scourge is eradicated forever someday.
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I hope everyone is having an ok weekend! I went ice skating for the first time Friday and fell on my hip several times and feel like I'm 200 years old
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do we also have to figure out what abilities we pass on so we can figure out who is the best possible couple?
yeah there'd be the canon pairings and then you can match people up for optimal setups as well
And that somebody has been munching on a tasty batch of cookie butter fudge I sent them. 83
That fudge is dangerous. You sent me some of the stuff you made once and holy crap it was tasty
Same here but with work. Sucks
Best of luck on getting it done quickly and efficiently!
I got a call yesterday from my old boss from when I worked at the Department of Corrections. He said he wanted to meet up and have coffee, which was weird because we hadn't talked at all since a month or two before I left that job.
We met up at a coffee place and got some Beignets and coffee, and he proceeded to ask me some questions about the whole being trans thing, which I figured was the reason he wanted to talk. They were mostly innocuous questions, but at some point he decided to tell me that he had found religion! And then he tried to inject Jesus into every following thing we talked about.
After that he told me that he couldn't support my "decision" but that he would be there to support me if it was needed. I appreciate the sentiment, but treating being trans and gay like a decision seems a bit... Dumb?
I am proud of who I am, but who thinks that someone would decide, during the unfathomably stupid rein of President Trump, that another human being would choose how to select the translesbian subclass? Does that classify as hard mode? does the real Dark Souls begin here?
Anyway, that was a weird and increasingly uncomfortable conversation, but I got to eat some Beignets, so it's not all bad. How is everyone else is day going?
Oh yeah! I sent you and Ceres and Darth Waiter a batch that one time, a couple years ago.
The harder the rain, honey, the sweeter the sun.
Nah my man, goodbye forever
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"Wow weird, it seems that 98% of these pairings have at least one parent pass on the 'Depression' trait!"
*stuffs face with fudge then hides plate*
Rookie move. Eat the plate too!
CRAP!! *devours plate*
Also today I did not find out where I stand with the bell choir or whether anything I've said to the director sunk in, because the church is still using that cleaner that makes it hard for me to breathe and I had to leave immediately.
I have a feeling this is going to end in the dumbest way possible, with my quitting because they don't change the cleaner.
That blows. But you gotta take care of you. Maybe get a doctor's mask and put some essential oils in it?
I specifically told the director about the cleaner the first time, which was weeks ago, and tonight I told the.. music director? I dunno what her title is exactly, but she said she would talk to somebody who I'm assuming can make the change. I'm going to check back after Sunday to be sure that she has, but my patience is already out. If I have to miss again next week I'm done.
Atta girl! You show that plate who's boss!
That's the name of my Hell's Kitchen cover band.
It's really something else, being in love.
For me, the last 2 1/4 months have definitely been the happiest time of my life. Just having Amara in my life has opened me up in ways I didn't think I ever could anymore. She even gave me the inspiration to start writing again, for the first time in at least half a decade.
I never knew what it was like to feel whole, until she came along. It's so incredible.
I started opening myself up to those feelings recently and it absolutely improved my quality of life even though I didn’t get to dating yet. Got rejected a couple times but it still felt great.
Love is great. A+ emotion, will feel again.
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Have a great Friday everyone!
I think for next session, next week, I want to have reopened social media channels and maybe try to get something going with some dating sites.
it's very difficult, but I'll succeed!
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That "love the sinner, hate the sin" is the hottest of bullshits, and the only Christian I've ever heard to successfully pull it off is the big JC Himself. And I'm not even sure about that, because He doesn't seem to hate the sin, so much as it makes Him very, very disappointed.
So! I don't think I've ever properly introduced myself. I'm Robonun, a more or less cishet woman, pretty disinterested in sex, not sure if that's my general inclination or my chronic depression talking. Howdy.
Fuck. That's hard. I hope they're wrong somehow and things improve! But regardless, if you need to vent at any time vent away. We all care about you and your happiness and are here to listen.
I'm doing the same thing with my boyfriend in a few months! I am terrified and excited!
The harder the rain, honey, the sweeter the sun.
Try to make good memories with him while you can.
I lost both my parents a year apart because of Cancer with my father passing last September.
Cancer sucks and I hope it's scourge is eradicated forever someday.