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[Queer] thread: A Gay ‘Ol Time

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    DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    I call myself non-binary, I just go masc because honestly, it's just way easier to be a dude.

    I have been playing up my queer behaviors both because it's freeing and it makes my one friend uncomfortable.

    not because he's got any particular prejudices but he grew up really religious and with strict gender roles and I like fucking with him.

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    XenaLenaXenaLena Bumflum IndianaRegistered User regular
    Thank you guys for everything. I came to a decision. I wish you all the best on your journeys.

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    KwoaruKwoaru Confident Smirk Flawless Golden PecsRegistered User regular
    edited March 29
    Uhhhhhh hey @XenaLena thats an incredibly ominous looking post could you please expand on exactly what you mean by that

    Edit and if it is as bad as it sounds please call one of these numbers instead I have no other avenue for reaching out

    http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
    1-800-273-TALK (8255)
    http://www.befrienders.org/ (An international site that includes most countries and languages)
    The Trevor Project 1 866 488 7386
    LGBT Youth Support Line 1 800 850 8078

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    Atlas in ChainsAtlas in Chains Registered User regular

    Kwoaru wrote: »
    Uhhhhhh hey @XenaLena thats an incredibly ominous looking post could you please expand on exactly what you mean by that

    Edit and if it is as bad as it sounds please call one of these numbers instead I have no other avenue for reaching out

    http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
    1-800-273-TALK (8255)
    http://www.befrienders.org/ (An international site that includes most countries and languages)
    The Trevor Project 1 866 488 7386
    LGBT Youth Support Line 1 800 850 8078

    To put you at ease, XenaLena's post from last page.
    XenaLena wrote: »

    It's okay. I woke up today and decided that I'm not going to stop trying to find me and my comfortability just because of a few a**hats. I just need to work on not freezing up in those situations and find my assertiveness.

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    nightmarennynightmarenny Registered User regular
    Peen wrote: »
    You may want to open it in an incognito browser tab to avoid tracking fuckery but I really enjoy this slightly confused article by someone who was clearly trying to find things to be outraged by at a children's pride parade a few library branches in DC organized but couldn't quite manage it.

    "The kids seemed uninterested in what the adults were trying to teach them" steam startlingly naive with regard to the dynamic of children who are already going to a pride festival.

    Like my guy in general I would say those kids probably don't have much to learn.

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    FencingsaxFencingsax It is difficult to get a man to understand, when his salary depends upon his not understanding GNU Terry PratchettRegistered User regular
    The Daily Signal is owned by the Heritage Foundation

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    PeenPeen Registered User regular
    Yeah sorry I could have been more explicit, it's a ding dong writing in a right wing rag, thus my advice to avoid their tracking cookies.

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    nightmarennynightmarenny Registered User regular
    Peen wrote: »
    Yeah sorry I could have been more explicit, it's a ding dong writing in a right wing rag, thus my advice to avoid their tracking cookies.

    Not at all. You were very clear. My remark is just about how fundamentally poorly they comprehend pride events. Their purpose and their attendees.

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    VeldrinVeldrin Sham bam bamina Registered User regular
    Ding Dong Writing in a Right Wing Rag is my favourite Tom Waits song

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    XenaLenaXenaLena Bumflum IndianaRegistered User regular
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    Uhhhhhh hey @XenaLena thats an incredibly ominous looking post could you please expand on exactly what you mean by that

    Edit and if it is as bad as it sounds please call one of these numbers instead I have no other avenue for reaching out

    http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
    1-800-273-TALK (8255)
    http://www.befrienders.org/ (An international site that includes most countries and languages)
    The Trevor Project 1 866 488 7386
    LGBT Youth Support Line 1 800 850 8078

    My apologies. I just meant on my journey, and was wishing you all well on yours. I think I was up well over 24hrs hours with insomnia, words got kinda weird.

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    IblisIblis Registered User regular
    After a lot of thought, I decided I am just happier being feminine. I am starting estrogen on Monday (well, guess tomorrow at this point) and I am very excited. Also slightly terrified as I opted for injections since it will be faster, and I hate needles.

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    King RiptorKing Riptor Registered User regular
    It gets easier as you do it don't worry

    I have a podcast now. It's about video games and anime!Find it here.
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    WhippyWhippy Moderator, Admin Emeritus Admin Emeritus
    needles are awesome. they're fulla girl juice

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    Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    I accidentally dropped a tiddy skittle on my kitchen floor the other day and it completely vanished from our universe. I heard the bounce even! 💭😝

    But that gives you an idea of just how powerful they are. 🛬

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    DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    the other day I thought of referring to the various hormones and medicines as "gender benders" and I've been sitting on it and now I can't think of a good joke so I'm just gonna say gender benders.

    oh, a trans Avatar is a gender bender

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    DocshiftyDocshifty Registered User regular
    the other day I thought of referring to the various hormones and medicines as "gender benders" and I've been sitting on it and now I can't think of a good joke so I'm just gonna say gender benders.

    oh, a trans Avatar is a gender bender

    The Avatar bends all four elements, and gender.

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    NechriahNechriah Chookity!Registered User regular
    I call mine anticistamines

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    XenaLenaXenaLena Bumflum IndianaRegistered User regular
    edited April 1
    Is it still non-binary if you don't feel like you have a gender 90% of the time. And the other 10% you feel a fem part inside?

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    admanbadmanb unionize your workplace Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    XenaLena wrote: »
    Is it still non-binary if you don't feel like you have a gender 90% of the time. And the other 10% you feel a fem part inside?

    it's whatever you want it to be, honestly

    but yeah most people would either call that non-binary or agender

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    IblisIblis Registered User regular
    It gets easier as you do it don't worry

    Oh yeah, I assume so. My father had a similar thing with needles and got over it when he became diabetic, so I assume this will help desensitize me. I was just watching the instructional video they sent me and kept twitching and cringing. On the other hand, I was reading about the effects of estrogen they had sent me and and I keep thinking about it and getting super excited!

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    ElldrenElldren Is a woman dammit ceterum censeoRegistered User regular
    Belated TDoV y’all

    Was too busy to come here and say a thing yesterday but y’all are all valid and beautiful and deserve love and support.

    So if you need any just ask!

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    GnizmoGnizmo Registered User regular
    XenaLena wrote: »
    Is it still non-binary if you don't feel like you have a gender 90% of the time. And the other 10% you feel a fem part inside?

    If it cannot be summed up as one of the common binary identities then it is generally called non-binary. The fluidity itself is a non-binary trait.

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    Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    I would dig up a selfie for TDOV this year but that requires burning calories that could be used to crush TERF's into a fine paste instead.

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    VeeveeVeevee WisconsinRegistered User regular
    Put on my easter dress and went up to mt Hamilton observatory. It was cold and had to put on my pax hoodie hiding my full cuteness, but whatever

    Spoil'd for bigness
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    IblisIblis Registered User regular
    Had some insurance issues, so now I should be starting my estrogen this Tuesday. Week delay was depressing, but I’m still so excited.

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    WeaverWeaver Who are you? What do you want?Registered User regular
    So about a month ago I switched from pill to IM injections because I just wasn't absorbing enough from the pills. I've been following my prescription dosage, but uhh maybe a bit of an overcorrection?

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    WyvernWyvern Registered User regular
    Injections are always like that. Since you take them less frequently, you get a huge spike at first and then it drops steadily over the week(s) until it's time for the next dose.

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    WeaverWeaver Who are you? What do you want?Registered User regular
    Ah, gotcha.

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    GnizmoGnizmo Registered User regular
    Wyvern wrote: »
    Injections are always like that. Since you take them less frequently, you get a huge spike at first and then it drops steadily over the week(s) until it's time for the next dose.

    I will also add that I have seen a lot of stuff saying you get more out of injections than pills because you bypass the liver. The equivalency charts get a little goofed as a result which can lead to a need to fiddle a bit.

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    TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    I am learning how to do my girlfriend's injections. The first time I didn't have any trouble but last night I went a little too quick with the syringe. Nothing catastrophic but it is a little nerve-wracking.

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    DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    wait are the injections IV? or subcutaneous or whatever?

    intramuscular?

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    Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    wait are the injections IV? or subcutaneous or whatever?

    intramuscular?

    You wouldn't give an IV injection at home without like, a port.

    Humor can be dissected as a frog can, but dies in the process.
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    BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    intramuscular I believe for hormones, and like vaccines and such

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    WeaverWeaver Who are you? What do you want?Registered User regular
    You can do either IM or subcutaneous, I'm doing IM. I alternate between glute/thigh.

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    GnizmoGnizmo Registered User regular
    I have always done subcutaneous and it works really well for me. Just rotate around the belly button. I have had one issue recently where I went too close to a nerve, but mostly that happened because my other subcutaneous injections made me want to find a different space for it.

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    VeldrinVeldrin Sham bam bamina Registered User regular
    I guess it's mostly over by now but happy international asexuality day, ace gang

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    XenaLenaXenaLena Bumflum IndianaRegistered User regular
    Guess what!? I never went back to my old job, so I never officially came out at work which is like to the public for a hermit like me. I started a new job today and without hesitation I informed them of my preferred name and pronouns. Feels super freaking good. That being said I must also take a moment to thank every LBGTQ who fought so hard and continues to fight to make that possible and more. It is their strength I think of when I get scared.

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    BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    hellll yeah

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    DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    wait are the injections IV? or subcutaneous or whatever?

    intramuscular?

    You wouldn't give an IV injection at home without like, a port.

    that's why I asked, it seemed unlikely!

    brb gonna read up on hormones and shit on wikipedia.

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    Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    edited April 9
    Well, I can't speak for anyone else, {at peak Trans*™} but I have multiple dedicated & auxiliary HRT injection ports:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D4RlQNHZlIA

    ^(Figure a. Me getting ready in the mornings...)

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