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Then again my parents have been great to me since forever, and at least I know my parents, unlike some people, so I guess I can't complain. Am just a little shell-shocked.
Wow, that's...sudden. I was surprised when my parents got divorced, but it was handled in a much more...I dunno, I much more "family" way, like mom and dad had the conversation with us together, they were both there, it wasn't an argument or anything.
I've spent a great majority of my life not knowing if my dad is dead or alive.
Not because he's a special agent for the FBI working deep undercover, but because he's really just not worth talking to or keeping track of.
Maybe I'll get a call if he turns up dead, maybe not.
This is kind of awesome and you know it
It is totally awesome, I would hate to end up like my dad. A worthless shifter, mooching off his girlfriend, so fucking lazy that he had an arrest warrant put out on him because he didn't bother showing up to child support hearings.
Teefs' SATs burnt out the reading portion of her brain.
Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.
Wow, that's...sudden. I was surprised when my parents got divorced, but it was handled in a much more...I dunno, I much more "family" way, like mom and dad had the conversation with us together, they were both there, it wasn't an argument or anything.
It's sudden, but they've been having a few more intense arguments lately, and the "d" word was flung around a bit, but to no effect usually.
But it's different this time, it really feels fucked up.
I'm sure they'll talk this over when emotions cool over a bit tomorrow, but it doesn't look like it will go back to "happy family" again this time.
I thought my parent's were going to get divorced for a long time, but then my dad found jeebus so that was no longer an option. The funny thing is the whole god thing didn't make my dad less of a dick, just a different kind of dick.
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my parents divorced when I was very young
young enough that it was unclear to me exactly what was wrong
only that bad things were happening
in fact I remember what I thought of my dad at the time
he was home so rarely that I thought of him as a stranger
I didn't fully understand his role for a few years
Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.
Yeah, fo' sho'. I couldn't really get much out of my dad this evening when mum was out, apart from some "I'm a bad husband" and "sorry for everything".
Fuck you know how awkward it is having your old man in your arms apologising and crying because he thinks he's fucked up my life big time or something?
I've been meaning to buy a car soon, but now it's kinda been thrust upon me.
Dad's offered to pay for half of whatever we buy, within reason obviously.
I dunno, on one hand I want something rad, but I don't wanna waste too much of my savings on a car, so I gotta be realistic. Goddammit being a responsible adult sucks.
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Shortytouching the meatIntergalactic Cool CourtRegistered Userregular
edited June 2008
man that would be some awkward shit
my dad and I have hugged exactly one time
and that was immediately before I shipped off to bootcamp
Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.
Yeah, fo' sho'. I couldn't really get much out of my dad this evening when mum was out, apart from some "I'm a bad husband" and "sorry for everything".
Fuck you know how awkward it is having your old man in your arms apologising and crying because he thinks he's fucked up my life big time or something?
Your dad sounds way easier to talk to than my dad.
My dad would never cry after an argument, or admit fault, or stop yelling.
Basically the fact that your dad sounds remorseful and sad make him awesome to me.
On the plus side, I'll get to drive dad's car tomorrow morning before we got out to look for a new one. Subaru Liberty B4 fuck yeah. 2.0 litre boxer four twin-turbo. Picks up like a beast. Sure beats the Toyota Corolla.
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Shortytouching the meatIntergalactic Cool CourtRegistered Userregular
Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.
Yeah, fo' sho'. I couldn't really get much out of my dad this evening when mum was out, apart from some "I'm a bad husband" and "sorry for everything".
Fuck you know how awkward it is having your old man in your arms apologising and crying because he thinks he's fucked up my life big time or something?
Your dad sounds way easier to talk to than my dad.
My dad would never cry after an argument, or admit fault, or stop yelling.
Basically the fact that your dad sounds remorseful and sad make him awesome to me.
My dad is probably the most open and kind-hearted man I know. I'd be in a fucking daze if he were to suddenly vanish from my life. Not that he will.
My dad and step mom at one point were having pretty intense arguments everyday about stuff. I guess there was stuff involving me being argued about because my dad came up to me and said "If Ann and I get a divorce then you and I are done being family."
My dad and step mom at one point were having pretty intense arguments everyday about stuff. I guess there was stuff involving me being argued about because my dad came up to me and said "If Ann and I get a divorce then you and I are done being family."
Man I probably would seriously have been like "fuck it, we're done now." I don't need that bullshit. This might stem from my apparent lack of need (not interest, but need) to be connected to my family.
My dad and step mom at one point were having pretty intense arguments everyday about stuff. I guess there was stuff involving me being argued about because my dad came up to me and said "If Ann and I get a divorce then you and I are done being family."
Man I probably would seriously have been like "fuck it, we're done now." I don't need that bullshit. This might stem from my apparent lack of need (not interest, but need) to be connected to my family.
Yeah that's pretty much what happened, but I didn't really vocalize it. Something like that hasn't happened again, but he's got a long way to go if he wants me to start looking at him as a father again. He's making progress though, just a little bit
One summer my father was being basically a jackass and my mother was just begining to deal with diabetes.
My father and I never got along, to describe it. It's the razor's edge of love and hate.
Over the years I have learned my father was messing around with a woman he worked with among other things
So one weekend in August I was told to pack my stuff I was to live with my grandfather in Cheyenne. A few months later my Mother and two brother move up and tell me what had gone on for the last 7 or so weeks and she is getting a divorce.
It was kind of odd and akward to see him and talk to him at my mother's funeral last summer
One summer my father was being basically a jackass and my mother was just begining to deal with diabetes.
My father and I never got along, to describe it. It's the razor's edge of love and hate.
Over the years I have learned my father was messing around with a woman he worked with among other things
So one weekend in August I was told to pack my stuff I was to live with my grandfather in Cheyenne. A few months later my Mother and two brother move up and tell me what had gone on for the last 7 or so weeks and she is getting a divorce.
It was kind of odd and akward to see him and talk to him at my mother's funeral last summer
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No. Mum and Dad have been great together for the last 21 years. The odd argument, but hey, don't we all have 'em.
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maybe now's his chance
Not because he's a special agent for the FBI working deep undercover, but because he's really just not worth talking to or keeping track of.
Maybe I'll get a call if he turns up dead, maybe not.
Yeah it does.
Then again my parents have been great to me since forever, and at least I know my parents, unlike some people, so I guess I can't complain. Am just a little shell-shocked.
Teefs' SATs burnt out the reading portion of her brain.
It's sudden, but they've been having a few more intense arguments lately, and the "d" word was flung around a bit, but to no effect usually.
But it's different this time, it really feels fucked up.
I'm sure they'll talk this over when emotions cool over a bit tomorrow, but it doesn't look like it will go back to "happy family" again this time.
Ditto.
I thought my parent's were going to get divorced for a long time, but then my dad found jeebus so that was no longer an option. The funny thing is the whole god thing didn't make my dad less of a dick, just a different kind of dick.
young enough that it was unclear to me exactly what was wrong
only that bad things were happening
in fact I remember what I thought of my dad at the time
he was home so rarely that I thought of him as a stranger
I didn't fully understand his role for a few years
Yeah, fo' sho'. I couldn't really get much out of my dad this evening when mum was out, apart from some "I'm a bad husband" and "sorry for everything".
Fuck you know how awkward it is having your old man in your arms apologising and crying because he thinks he's fucked up my life big time or something?
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Ah this has been breakin' my balls for ages.
I've been meaning to buy a car soon, but now it's kinda been thrust upon me.
Dad's offered to pay for half of whatever we buy, within reason obviously.
I dunno, on one hand I want something rad, but I don't wanna waste too much of my savings on a car, so I gotta be realistic. Goddammit being a responsible adult sucks.
my dad and I have hugged exactly one time
and that was immediately before I shipped off to bootcamp
they also always had different opinions on how to raise us, that whats ultimately led them to divorce
they are still awesome parents, they hate each other but they are still awesome to us
Your dad sounds way easier to talk to than my dad.
My dad would never cry after an argument, or admit fault, or stop yelling.
Basically the fact that your dad sounds remorseful and sad make him awesome to me.
I'd hang out with him even if he wasn't my dad
My dad is probably the most open and kind-hearted man I know. I'd be in a fucking daze if he were to suddenly vanish from my life. Not that he will.
Man I probably would seriously have been like "fuck it, we're done now." I don't need that bullshit. This might stem from my apparent lack of need (not interest, but need) to be connected to my family.
And that's all I have to say about that.
Yeah that's pretty much what happened, but I didn't really vocalize it. Something like that hasn't happened again, but he's got a long way to go if he wants me to start looking at him as a father again. He's making progress though, just a little bit
My father and I never got along, to describe it. It's the razor's edge of love and hate.
Over the years I have learned my father was messing around with a woman he worked with among other things
So one weekend in August I was told to pack my stuff I was to live with my grandfather in Cheyenne. A few months later my Mother and two brother move up and tell me what had gone on for the last 7 or so weeks and she is getting a divorce.
It was kind of odd and akward to see him and talk to him at my mother's funeral last summer
And, to Brainleech, you've got my sympathy. I honestly don't know if I could handle losing my mom.