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Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
edited June 2008 in Social Entropy++
So I just got home from my GF's house about an hour ago to find dad home alone, mum out of the house somewhere. They'd obviously had an argument.

She comes home not long ago and says to me "Buy yourself a car, I'm taking mine tomorrow, finding a job and moving out. Dad and I are divorcing."

She then throws all dad's shit out of their bedroom and closes the door, packing her bags.

Fuck

So SE++, tell me about your parents and their amazing shenanigans.

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  • ButlerButler 89 episodes or bust Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    did your dad fuck a guy again

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Sorry. Fixed.

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Butler wrote: »
    did your dad fuck a guy again

    No. Mum and Dad have been great together for the last 21 years. The odd argument, but hey, don't we all have 'em.

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  • M.D.M.D. and then what happens? Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    I have an awesome mom and a horrible dad.

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  • ButlerButler 89 episodes or bust Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Butler wrote: »
    did your dad fuck a guy again

    No. Mum and Dad have been great together for the last 21 years. The odd argument, but hey, don't we all have 'em.

    maybe now's his chance

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  • DadouwDadouw Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    my parents are awesome

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  • Dublo7Dublo7 Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    This sucks dude.

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  • BYToadyBYToady Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    I've spent a great majority of my life not knowing if my dad is dead or alive.

    Not because he's a special agent for the FBI working deep undercover, but because he's really just not worth talking to or keeping track of.

    Maybe I'll get a call if he turns up dead, maybe not.

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  • Dublo7Dublo7 Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    BYToady wrote: »
    I've spent a great majority of my life not knowing if my dad is dead or alive.

    Not because he's a special agent for the FBI working deep undercover, but because he's really just not worth talking to or keeping track of.

    Maybe I'll get a call if he turns up dead, maybe not.
    This is kind of awesome and you know it
    Not really...

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Dublo7 wrote: »
    This sucks dude.

    Yeah it does.

    Then again my parents have been great to me since forever, and at least I know my parents, unlike some people, so I guess I can't complain. Am just a little shell-shocked.

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  • DefenderDefender Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Wow, that's...sudden. I was surprised when my parents got divorced, but it was handled in a much more...I dunno, I much more "family" way, like mom and dad had the conversation with us together, they were both there, it wasn't an argument or anything.

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  • BYToadyBYToady Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    BYToady wrote: »
    I've spent a great majority of my life not knowing if my dad is dead or alive.

    Not because he's a special agent for the FBI working deep undercover, but because he's really just not worth talking to or keeping track of.

    Maybe I'll get a call if he turns up dead, maybe not.
    This is kind of awesome and you know it
    It is totally awesome, I would hate to end up like my dad. A worthless shifter, mooching off his girlfriend, so fucking lazy that he had an arrest warrant put out on him because he didn't bother showing up to child support hearings.

    Teefs' SATs burnt out the reading portion of her brain.

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  • WeaverWeaver Breakfast Witch Hashus BrowniusRegistered User regular
    edited June 2008
    My parents have been married for almost 31 years and they're awesome.

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  • BYToadyBYToady Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Defender wrote: »
    Wow, that's...sudden. I was surprised when my parents got divorced, but it was handled in a much more...I dunno, I much more "family" way, like mom and dad had the conversation with us together, they were both there, it wasn't an argument or anything.

    It's sudden, but they've been having a few more intense arguments lately, and the "d" word was flung around a bit, but to no effect usually.

    But it's different this time, it really feels fucked up.

    I'm sure they'll talk this over when emotions cool over a bit tomorrow, but it doesn't look like it will go back to "happy family" again this time.

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  • KittenKitten Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    I have an awesome mom and a horrible dad.

    Ditto.

    I thought my parent's were going to get divorced for a long time, but then my dad found jeebus so that was no longer an option. The funny thing is the whole god thing didn't make my dad less of a dick, just a different kind of dick.

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  • ShortyShorty touching the meat Intergalactic Cool CourtRegistered User regular
    edited June 2008
    my parents divorced when I was very young

    young enough that it was unclear to me exactly what was wrong

    only that bad things were happening

    in fact I remember what I thought of my dad at the time

    he was home so rarely that I thought of him as a stranger

    I didn't fully understand his role for a few years

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  • J3pJ3p Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    I don't think I could ever hope to be as well-balanced as my parents. They're pretty great.

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  • FrankoFranko Sometimes I really wish I had four feet so I could dance with myself to the drumbeat Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    ok so what car do you wanna get?

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    BYToady wrote: »
    Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.

    Yeah, fo' sho'. I couldn't really get much out of my dad this evening when mum was out, apart from some "I'm a bad husband" and "sorry for everything".

    Fuck you know how awkward it is having your old man in your arms apologising and crying because he thinks he's fucked up my life big time or something?

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  • CasperCasper __BANNED USERS regular
    edited June 2008
    Well you can look to the bright side. You now get two of every holiday and both parents will initially try and buy your love away from the other.

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Franko wrote: »
    ok so what car do you wanna get?

    Ah this has been breakin' my balls for ages.

    I've been meaning to buy a car soon, but now it's kinda been thrust upon me.

    Dad's offered to pay for half of whatever we buy, within reason obviously.

    I dunno, on one hand I want something rad, but I don't wanna waste too much of my savings on a car, so I gotta be realistic. Goddammit being a responsible adult sucks.

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  • ShortyShorty touching the meat Intergalactic Cool CourtRegistered User regular
    edited June 2008
    man that would be some awkward shit

    my dad and I have hugged exactly one time

    and that was immediately before I shipped off to bootcamp

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  • humblehumble Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    my parents are divorced, they had us kids when they were still young

    they also always had different opinions on how to raise us, that whats ultimately led them to divorce

    they are still awesome parents, they hate each other but they are still awesome to us

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  • JimothyJimothy Not in front of the fox he's with the owlRegistered User regular
    edited June 2008
    BYToady wrote: »
    Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.

    Yeah, fo' sho'. I couldn't really get much out of my dad this evening when mum was out, apart from some "I'm a bad husband" and "sorry for everything".

    Fuck you know how awkward it is having your old man in your arms apologising and crying because he thinks he's fucked up my life big time or something?

    Your dad sounds way easier to talk to than my dad.

    My dad would never cry after an argument, or admit fault, or stop yelling.

    Basically the fact that your dad sounds remorseful and sad make him awesome to me.

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    On the plus side, I'll get to drive dad's car tomorrow morning before we got out to look for a new one. Subaru Liberty B4 fuck yeah. 2.0 litre boxer four twin-turbo. Picks up like a beast. Sure beats the Toyota Corolla.

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  • ShortyShorty touching the meat Intergalactic Cool CourtRegistered User regular
    edited June 2008
    my dad is a cool dude

    I'd hang out with him even if he wasn't my dad

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  • Tweaked_Bat_Tweaked_Bat_ Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Jimothy wrote: »
    BYToady wrote: »
    Tweaked, once you calm down a little, be sure to talk to both your mom and dad later to find out where everything went wrong. So you can learn from their mistakes.

    Yeah, fo' sho'. I couldn't really get much out of my dad this evening when mum was out, apart from some "I'm a bad husband" and "sorry for everything".

    Fuck you know how awkward it is having your old man in your arms apologising and crying because he thinks he's fucked up my life big time or something?

    Your dad sounds way easier to talk to than my dad.

    My dad would never cry after an argument, or admit fault, or stop yelling.

    Basically the fact that your dad sounds remorseful and sad make him awesome to me.

    My dad is probably the most open and kind-hearted man I know. I'd be in a fucking daze if he were to suddenly vanish from my life. Not that he will.

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  • OmegaTofuNinjaOmegaTofuNinja Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    My dad and step mom at one point were having pretty intense arguments everyday about stuff. I guess there was stuff involving me being argued about because my dad came up to me and said "If Ann and I get a divorce then you and I are done being family."

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  • DefenderDefender Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    My dad and step mom at one point were having pretty intense arguments everyday about stuff. I guess there was stuff involving me being argued about because my dad came up to me and said "If Ann and I get a divorce then you and I are done being family."

    Man I probably would seriously have been like "fuck it, we're done now." I don't need that bullshit. This might stem from my apparent lack of need (not interest, but need) to be connected to my family.

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  • GoatmonGoatmon Companion of Kess Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    I have an awesome mom and a horrible dad.

    And that's all I have to say about that.

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  • OmegaTofuNinjaOmegaTofuNinja Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Defender wrote: »
    My dad and step mom at one point were having pretty intense arguments everyday about stuff. I guess there was stuff involving me being argued about because my dad came up to me and said "If Ann and I get a divorce then you and I are done being family."

    Man I probably would seriously have been like "fuck it, we're done now." I don't need that bullshit. This might stem from my apparent lack of need (not interest, but need) to be connected to my family.

    Yeah that's pretty much what happened, but I didn't really vocalize it. Something like that hasn't happened again, but he's got a long way to go if he wants me to start looking at him as a father again. He's making progress though, just a little bit

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  • BrainleechBrainleech 機知に富んだコメントはここにあります Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    One summer my father was being basically a jackass and my mother was just begining to deal with diabetes.
    My father and I never got along, to describe it. It's the razor's edge of love and hate.

    Over the years I have learned my father was messing around with a woman he worked with among other things

    So one weekend in August I was told to pack my stuff I was to live with my grandfather in Cheyenne. A few months later my Mother and two brother move up and tell me what had gone on for the last 7 or so weeks and she is getting a divorce.

    It was kind of odd and akward to see him and talk to him at my mother's funeral last summer

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  • OmegaTofuNinjaOmegaTofuNinja Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Fuck, Mr. Brainleech that is not good at all

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  • Dublo7Dublo7 Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    Brainleech wrote: »
    One summer my father was being basically a jackass and my mother was just begining to deal with diabetes.
    My father and I never got along, to describe it. It's the razor's edge of love and hate.

    Over the years I have learned my father was messing around with a woman he worked with among other things

    So one weekend in August I was told to pack my stuff I was to live with my grandfather in Cheyenne. A few months later my Mother and two brother move up and tell me what had gone on for the last 7 or so weeks and she is getting a divorce.

    It was kind of odd and akward to see him and talk to him at my mother's funeral last summer
    :(

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  • WrenWren ninja_bird Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    so what kind of car are you getting

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  • GoatmonGoatmon Companion of Kess Registered User regular
    edited June 2008
    My Dad's done some pretty shitty things in the time I lived with him, but that's pretty severe, OTN.

    And, to Brainleech, you've got my sympathy. I honestly don't know if I could handle losing my mom.

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