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Marriage advice

ZuelZuel Registered User regular
edited March 2009 in Social Entropy++
Sooo, I'm getting married on Saturday. I know there's a good amount of married folk here in SE. Any marriage advice to impart? Pearls of wisdom and such?

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  • zimfanzimfan Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    make sure to have a friend who can bail you out by coming in with a boombox

    just in case

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  • QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    have dinner together whenever possible

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  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    I'm petitioning for divorce this afternoon, so, no.

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  • lostwordslostwords Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    start watching jon and kate plus 8

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  • Darkness MundusDarkness Mundus Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Run away?

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  • QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    don't have babies for at least three years

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  • PhonehandPhonehand Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    not really but it is a great time to invest in the stock market

    i've made $30 since breakfast

    on one stock!

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  • Ness445Ness445 Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    zimfan wrote: »
    make sure to have a friend who can bail you out by coming in with a boombox

    just in case
    do not invite any old people if you do this.
    unless you're into that kind of thing.

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  • AbracadanielAbracadaniel Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    congrats

    uh, make sure to be mostly honest with one another, and talk about stuff

    also put it in the butt

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  • Spicy_RevSpicy_Rev Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    May sure that she never feels she is competing with your videogaming and other hobbies.

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  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Quoth wrote: »
    don't have babies for at least three years
    unless you like the taste of baby

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  • ZuelZuel Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Smart Hero wrote: »
    congrats

    uh, make sure to be mostly honest with one another, and talk about stuff

    also put it in the butt

    Done and done

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  • JordynJordyn Really, Commander? Probing Uranus. Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Love yourself.

    Marry someone exactly like you.

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  • Bloods EndBloods End Blade of Tyshalle Punch dimensionRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Ask before putting it in the pooper.

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  • QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    Quoth wrote: »
    don't have babies for at least three years
    unless you like the taste of baby

    in which case, serve them at the reception

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  • ButtersButters A glass of some milks Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Don't do it.

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  • ZuelZuel Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Spicy_Rev wrote: »
    May sure that she never feels she is competing with your videogaming and other hobbies.

    Hmmm, she's getting used to this. I'm slowly getting her into games.

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  • babyeatingjesusbabyeatingjesus Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Get a girlfriend.

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  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Bloods End wrote: »
    Ask before putting it in the pooper.
    Butters wrote: »
    Don't do it.

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  • HunterHunter Chemist with a heart of Au Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    You still have a few more days of having correct opinions about things. Cherish that.

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  • ButtersButters A glass of some milks Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Prenup

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  • zimfanzimfan Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Quoth wrote: »
    don't have babies for at least three years

    wait, can I know the logic behind this one?

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  • PhonehandPhonehand Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    thank you citigroup

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  • UsagiUsagi Nah Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    congrats and good luck

    if you haven't already, for the love of god please talk about money

    like who is responsible for paying what, what happens if either one of you lose your job, how money gets spent for fun, don't assume that you both agree


    this right here is killing me right now

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  • babyeatingjesusbabyeatingjesus Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    zimfan wrote: »
    Quoth wrote: »
    don't have babies for at least three years

    wait, can I know the logic behind this one?
    Take some time getting used to being married before you have kids and the divorce becomes an even uglier affair.

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  • Bloods EndBloods End Blade of Tyshalle Punch dimensionRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    If there is any tension what so ever at any point in the marriage, sleep with her best friends and/or sisters.

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  • Darkness MundusDarkness Mundus Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Zuel wrote: »
    Spicy_Rev wrote: »
    May sure that she never feels she is competing with your videogaming and other hobbies.

    Hmmm, she's getting used to this. I'm slowly getting her into games.

    What no

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  • FandyienFandyien But Otto, what about us? Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    It's considered good luck to punch the brides father halfway through the wedding

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  • Ness445Ness445 Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Jordyn wrote: »
    Love yourself.

    Marry someone exactly like you.
    I find this excellent advice as I am a complete narcissist.

    though in a way I'd be disturbed by meeting someone similar to me.

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  • babyeatingjesusbabyeatingjesus Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Bloods End wrote: »
    If there is any tension what so ever at any point in the marriage, sleep with her best friends and/or sisters.
    This is terrible advice.

    Not everyone has a sister or even a best friend.

    ...but we all came from mothers.

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  • QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    edited March 2009
    zimfan wrote: »
    Quoth wrote: »
    don't have babies for at least three years

    wait, can I know the logic behind this one?

    it takes at least that long to settle into a groove where you're comfortable with each other and your new life together, finances are stable, housekeeping roles are settled, and so on

    basically, you should be married to each other for a while before you throw another wrench into the gears

    some people even recommend seven years to be sure you don't get the itch and break up

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  • snapsnap Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    cheating is the cruelest thing a person can do, so never even let it enter you head no matter how much you and her are fighting.

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  • FandyienFandyien But Otto, what about us? Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Red wedding

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  • zimfanzimfan Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    zimfan wrote: »
    Quoth wrote: »
    don't have babies for at least three years

    wait, can I know the logic behind this one?
    Take some time getting used to being married before you have kids and the divorce becomes an even uglier affair.

    oh ok

    my parents had me 2 years after I was born and their still super happy together

    but yeah I see what you mean

    edit: Red Wedding oh god...

    edit the second: 2 years after they were married, my bad

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  • HunterHunter Chemist with a heart of Au Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Butters wrote: »
    Prenup

    I ain't sayin' she's a gold diggah'

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  • ZuelZuel Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    Usagi wrote: »
    congrats and good luck

    if you haven't already, for the love of god please talk about money

    like who is responsible for paying what, what happens if either one of you lose your job, how money gets spent for fun, don't assume that you both agree


    this right here is killing me right now

    She's an architect and just lost her job. So we've had this talk. :-/

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  • PhonehandPhonehand Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    there is no marriage there is only zuel

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  • HunterHunter Chemist with a heart of Au Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    zimfan wrote: »
    zimfan wrote: »
    Quoth wrote: »
    don't have babies for at least three years

    wait, can I know the logic behind this one?
    Take some time getting used to being married before you have kids and the divorce becomes an even uglier affair.

    oh ok

    my parents had me 2 years after I was born and their still super happy together

    but yeah I see what you mean

    edit: Red Wedding oh god...

    Did they keep you in a jar and break you out once they were ready or something?

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  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    good luck

    communication is all the important
    as is frequent sex

    so, intercourse on all levels, really

    the first couple years are generally the most challenging
    i think

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  • lostwordslostwords Registered User regular
    edited March 2009
    start ogling women in public in the most obvious way possible, and apologize to her afterwards, so she's used to you being really obvious when checking out ladies. later, scale it back and she'll never notice when you discretely check out pretty ladies in public. this tip brought to you by cosmo

    also, be sure to apply perfume on the back of your neck. and never start texting/e-mailing the guy till after a few dates and some physical stuff happens, or you'll come off as too needy

    wait, what're we talking about again?

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