i lost thirty pounds and was delighted that people thought I was more competent
That's not the way it should be. It's not right. I am glad I'm getting more respect but it's REALLY fucked up.
I'm right with you. I recently lost 50 pounds and I'm trying not to get super pissed off about it.
If your tone is mocking, you're being disingenuous and mischaracterizing my resentment. If you're not I hope you mean you're pissed to find out how shallow people are.
Skippy what if you were fat and a girl didn't like you or treated you crappy. Then you got handsome and she wanted to be your girlfriend. Would you be happy about that?
i lost thirty pounds and was delighted that people thought I was more competent
That's not the way it should be. It's not right. I am glad I'm getting more respect but it's REALLY fucked up.
I'm right with you. I recently lost 50 pounds and I'm trying not to get super pissed off about it.
If your tone is mocking, you're being disingenuous and mischaracterizing my resentment. If you're not I hope you mean you're pissed to find out how shallow people are.
Hahaha, yeah, that ambiguous sentence does sound like a joke. But no, seriously. I recently lost about 50 pounds and the countless ways I'm treated differently are taking a psychological toll on me.
Thousands of hot, local singles are waiting to play at bubbulon.com.
i lost thirty pounds and was delighted that people thought I was more competent
That's not the way it should be. It's not right. I am glad I'm getting more respect but it's REALLY fucked up.
it's not as bad as the height thing
i mean at least it's conceivable that weight can be changed
height has a huge impact on the way people evaluate you
Fuck tall gleaming white teeth personality men. 9 times out of 10 they're fucking idiots. It's always the short ugly guy who actually gets shit done and that's who I want to talk to.
Don't feel bad, I'm sure plenty of people out there think you're ugly.
Skippy what if you were fat and a girl didn't like you or treated you crappy. Then you got handsome and she wanted to be your girlfriend. Would you be happy about that?
The point is that relationships that stem from the internet are the most real relationships because they're not based on looks. Unless you're on a dating website, I guess.
"and the morning stars I have seen
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
Skippy what if you were fat and a girl didn't like you or treated you crappy. Then you got handsome and she wanted to be your girlfriend. Would you be happy about that?
i'm extremely vapid and self conscious of my appearance so anyone liking how I look ever is always amazing even if it's borne out of pretty awful circumstances
I have no idea how my weight affects how people treat me because I have seen myself as fat my entire life and people have been dicks to me my entire life so ?????????????
Skippy, what if you were a competent black woman who couldn't get beyond the glass ceiling but then one day you dressed up as a white man and got all the respect and wealth you deserved? Would you like that? Would you like to watch a movie like that?
If I am being brutally honest here when I first see an overweight person my knee jerk reaction is to think less of them. This is basically the response that has been ingrained into me. Once I get past the kneejerk response I assess them based on them as an individual. But I'd be a liar if I said the kneejerk response wasn't there. And it's totally fucked up. But, I'm not sure what I can really do about it other than have the response and then think to myself "Hey, no, that's unfair, chill out brain."
it's okay
i feel the same way about minorities
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If I am being brutally honest here when I first see an overweight person my knee jerk reaction is to think less of them. This is basically the response that has been ingrained into me. Once I get past the kneejerk response I assess them based on them as an individual. But I'd be a liar if I said the kneejerk response wasn't there. And it's totally fucked up. But, I'm not sure what I can really do about it other than have the response and then think to myself "Hey, no, that's unfair, chill out brain."
Skippy, what if you were a competent black woman who couldn't get beyond the glass ceiling but then one day you dressed up as a white man and got all the respect and wealth you deserved? Would you like that? Would you like to watch a movie like that?
Skippy, what if you were a competent black woman who couldn't get beyond the glass ceiling but then one day you dressed up as a white man and got all the respect and wealth you deserved? Would you like that? Would you like to watch a movie like that?
Skippy what if you were fat and a girl didn't like you or treated you crappy. Then you got handsome and she wanted to be your girlfriend. Would you be happy about that?
have degrading sex with her and then never call her back
win-win
i want you to know that i laughed heartily at this
i mean, i love when someone thinks i look great (not that it happens all that often recently what with all the deviled eggs and yoo-hoo). it doesn't matter, intrinsically, how shallow it is: in that split second where a woman looks at me from across the bar, and i'm 'that hot guy at the bar', it's the best thing in the world. it's an intoxicating feeling.
In that split second where a woman looks at me from across the bar, I'm that guy who is standing between her and whatever it is she wants to look at.
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Skippy what if you were fat and a girl didn't like you or treated you crappy. Then you got handsome and she wanted to be your girlfriend. Would you be happy about that?
yes!
You're awful.
there is nothing wrong at all with a girl not being interested in a guy because he's fat. treating him crappy, yes, there's no justification, but like it or not, weight has a large role in attractiveness.
i mean it's not like she should date people to whom she is not attracted, right? that's absurd.
it would be nice if people didn't have to be physically attracted to have a relationship but in many cases it is absolutely necessary, and it's probably unfair to expect it when we ourselves do the same thing
i mean, i love when someone thinks i look great (not that it happens all that often recently what with all the deviled eggs and yoo-hoo). it doesn't matter, intrinsically, how shallow it is: in that split second where a woman looks at me from across the bar, and i'm 'that hot guy at the bar', it's the best thing in the world. it's an intoxicating feeling.
but at the same time it is also infuriating. i spend the entire time i'm fat self-conscious, sucking in my gut, being careful not to sit up or stand down (where the inevitable 'jiggle' and 're-settling' occurs) until no one's looking, etc. and then i get thin and it's like oh hey, hello there my equal who deserves human respect.
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If your tone is mocking, you're being disingenuous and mischaracterizing my resentment. If you're not I hope you mean you're pissed to find out how shallow people are.
i'll be pumping out 20 erotic short stories per annum
i expect an unending supply of deviled eggs in my trailer
also, you
time traveling posts
I don't like these
the shallowest
Hahaha, yeah, that ambiguous sentence does sound like a joke. But no, seriously. I recently lost about 50 pounds and the countless ways I'm treated differently are taking a psychological toll on me.
instead of going dress shopping and taking dance lessons
i'll hurl myself out the window, hail a cab, and move to mexico
You're awful.
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
i wouldn't either
Not awful, just shallow
yessssss
it's this dude that takes adorable photos that are really smart and well done. i'll post him if we sign him (or if we dont)
they are doing all this really cool dot-work tattoos in germany
almost kinda pointillism
and nowhere else
rawr
Passport?
Were they fat people? Because murdering fat people isn't quite as bad as murdering normal people.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Of course you do because you've been there
of course it would be whoopi
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
I'm old and know that is a whoopi Goldberg movie without even clicking the link.
i feel the same way about minorities
But it does take longer.
total bullshit
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0115580/
I would be like
HAHA YOU FUCKERS I AM RICH NOW
*speeds away in ferrari*
the mcdonalds method.
effective, but requires some heavy initial capital...
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
i want you to know that i laughed heartily at this
Moving the body takes more accessories
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Would the police even investigate the crime?
By making these jokes we're deconstructing our bullying problem, right?
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
I don't have a passport I'll just smuggle myself in a drug dealer's trunk
In that split second where a woman looks at me from across the bar, I'm that guy who is standing between her and whatever it is she wants to look at.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
there is nothing wrong at all with a girl not being interested in a guy because he's fat. treating him crappy, yes, there's no justification, but like it or not, weight has a large role in attractiveness.
i mean it's not like she should date people to whom she is not attracted, right? that's absurd.
it would be nice if people didn't have to be physically attracted to have a relationship but in many cases it is absolutely necessary, and it's probably unfair to expect it when we ourselves do the same thing
but at the same time it is also infuriating. i spend the entire time i'm fat self-conscious, sucking in my gut, being careful not to sit up or stand down (where the inevitable 'jiggle' and 're-settling' occurs) until no one's looking, etc. and then i get thin and it's like oh hey, hello there my equal who deserves human respect.
meh.
shit's emotionally complicated. *shrug*
not seriously, no
to me, it's like if you are really boring and no one wants to invite you to parties
and then you read some books and learn some jokes and get interesting and suddenly you are the life of the party
cool! you improved yourself and people responded!
I would think this would be pleasing