So how long does it usually take to get over a crush? Cause I feel like I'm going through withdrawals and thinking about her even more than I had been.
This is probably unrelated, but I've also had two nights in the past week where I've only been able to sleep for about two hours, and I've never had problems with insomnia before.
You ever go to the gym?
Cause I'm gonna tell you to go to the gym. The gym has thus far been the single greatest method of working through feels that I personally have found. It does good brain shit and you get buff so like, go pick up a thing.
As a non-gym-goer, I feel obliged to point out that outside-the-gym stuff works too. Ride a bike or something.
Mostly, though, you're dealing with the disappointment related to the decision not to go down that road plus the crush, now, and that'll probably wear off. But seriously, find something else to be focused on for a while.
Ok now somebody prepare a detailed presentation for Alice Cooper please.
From Alice in Chains?
When I was young and just discovering "mature" music, I thought the lead singer of the band's name was Allison Chains and I was 110% positive that he and Alice Cooper were the same person just using multiple stage names.
I remember trying to impress everyone at a family gathering with this Pro Music Knowledge. My dad just smiled knowingly and after dinner my cousin got out her record collection and schooled me hard.
I maaaaaaay not entirely understand how Venn Diagrams work.
so your diagrams are more of a Fallacy Cooper
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On the Bumble app, if I swipe left on someone who has swiped right, does that remove them from my 'queue' thing? Or does that just stay there forever.
EDIT: Nevermind, I think I figured it out. But it also reselected someone I just swiped right on and that's...weird? I already swiped right on this person, why are you wanting me to be all judgmental again.
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Sadly I was kind of hoping I was bad at messaging. I could have got better at that, whereas the signal/noise problem is just, like, well there it is.
Nah, man, don't take it to heart
When I was trying at it, I just got so many messages that it was difficult to really let any stand out amidst the fatigue that built up from seeing so many variations on the same message
Well, outside of the ones that were really bad
Especially if you live in a bigger city, it's just going to be harder to stand out
Honestly I'm starting to wonder if I shouldn't have at least tried being friends with benefits. At least then I'd have something rather than nothing.
No. Nope. Negative. Non.
You made the right call, based on what you told us. Being lonely sucks, yeah but it's a nice, steady, uneventful suck as opposed to the potential HORRIFYING, FIREY CAR CRASH that that situation could've become. Just ride out the downer wave as best you can, don't waste time going over useless "What if's" in your head, and you'll come out better for it on the other side.
This. One million times this.
I survived my own fiery horrible car crash plus the fallout from another's firey horrible car crash from a related thing. It did a number on my mental health and it's a fucking miracle I'm still friends with the person I had the FWB thing with. Trust me and all these others. You did the right thing. Some things just aren't worth it friendo.
Doug - the way you post makes it seem like you spend way too much energy obsessing over women. You've mentioned that you feel pretty balanced in other aspects of life - is there anything that you are passionate about?
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Doug - the way you post makes it seem like you spend way too much energy obsessing over women. You've mentioned that you feel pretty balanced in other aspects of life - is there anything that you are passionate about?
Yeah, I do have hobbies and passions
This is the love thread though, not the hobbies and passions thread
Yeah, I do spend too much time thinking about women, I guess
Or I post too much
I have this post every couple of weeks, huh
I know I am in control, but people in my life are eager to fix me up with people, and it keeps it in my head
Working two jobs today, that should help
I guess I need to get better at dealing with things that make me acutely lonely?
I went out to dinner with my parents last night, and my dad was talking about this friend of theirs wanting to fix me up with a date, which is a thing I need to get used to, I guess
And I saw a friend of my ex's there too, and she definitely kept looking across the restaurant to scowl at me
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I tried a FWB situation back when I was going through my divorce. A kinda rebound thing, y'know? No strings, just fun...
We got married in 2013.
I think I did it wrong.
Before following any advice, opinions, or thoughts I may have expressed in the above post, be warned: I found Keven Costners "Waterworld" to be a very entertaining film.
There is literally no difference between poison except the avenue it enters your body. Venom has to be injected. Poison does not.
EDIT: I should clarify that the exact same compound that is venom in one animal can be poison in another, and some animals are both venomous and poisonous. If the animal injects the junk into you, it's venom. If it's transfered dermally or has to be ingested from the animal, it's poison.
Ironically German does not have a word for that. Just the false friend Gift.
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English can be pretty precise in a lot of ways simply because it's a bastardized language scrounged up from the bowels of Europe.
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I said "typically" for a reason. I figured there were some exceptions out there but I didn't know any specifically so I wasn't going to try to make any direct claims.
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Poison
Venom
This is not that hard people, come on.
I'm wondering if I'm just really shit at messaging people... I thought I was good at that but it occurs to me that I could be heinously wrong...
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Nah dude, the signal to noise ratio is fucked. It ain't you.
Problem being lots of people are trash and their favorite form of entertainment is barfing garbage into others people's inboxes.
From Alice in Chains?
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Sadly I was kind of hoping I was bad at messaging. I could have got better at that, whereas the signal/noise problem is just, like, well there it is.
I wanna do this, but, honestly, I want it too much
Cooper
When I was young and just discovering "mature" music, I thought the lead singer of the band's name was Allison Chains and I was 110% positive that he and Alice Cooper were the same person just using multiple stage names.
I remember trying to impress everyone at a family gathering with this Pro Music Knowledge. My dad just smiled knowingly and after dinner my cousin got out her record collection and schooled me hard.
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Things Alice Cooper is not:
I think I prefer your method
so your diagrams are more of a Fallacy Cooper
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EDIT: Nevermind, I think I figured it out. But it also reselected someone I just swiped right on and that's...weird? I already swiped right on this person, why are you wanting me to be all judgmental again.
Nah, man, don't take it to heart
When I was trying at it, I just got so many messages that it was difficult to really let any stand out amidst the fatigue that built up from seeing so many variations on the same message
Well, outside of the ones that were really bad
Especially if you live in a bigger city, it's just going to be harder to stand out
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venom:
the difference is that only venom is playable in mvc, poison just makes a cameo
Xaquin why did you post the same picture twice?
No wait, I see it now, the shoes are slightly different in the second one. Very subtle.
There's enough space now that it feels like we're more acquaintances than friends and I miss talking to her like I used to
Maybe I should have said yes to the nice lady I said no to last week, I said no because she's a co-worker and I just don't see her that way, I guess
Maybe I shouldn't have shut down the other lady earlier in the spring
Maybe I shouldn't be too anxious to go out with a lady who has five kids and has been asking around about me for a while
Maybe I should see what my winter crush that just didn't seem to have enough time to date me is up to
Maybe I should ask the surg tech crush out again
The OKC thing is done, I think
There's no one new on it, I've messaged everyone above a 70% who isn't either a Christian And It's Important or a racist
And it's the same people on all the different apps and it's weird and making me uncomfortable
Many of them won't be Importantly Christian. More than a few will likely still be racists.
This. One million times this.
I survived my own fiery horrible car crash plus the fallout from another's firey horrible car crash from a related thing. It did a number on my mental health and it's a fucking miracle I'm still friends with the person I had the FWB thing with. Trust me and all these others. You did the right thing. Some things just aren't worth it friendo.
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Huh I never heard of Venom before and I see why
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Yeah, I do have hobbies and passions
This is the love thread though, not the hobbies and passions thread
Yeah, I do spend too much time thinking about women, I guess
Or I post too much
I have this post every couple of weeks, huh
I know I am in control, but people in my life are eager to fix me up with people, and it keeps it in my head
Working two jobs today, that should help
I guess I need to get better at dealing with things that make me acutely lonely?
I went out to dinner with my parents last night, and my dad was talking about this friend of theirs wanting to fix me up with a date, which is a thing I need to get used to, I guess
And I saw a friend of my ex's there too, and she definitely kept looking across the restaurant to scowl at me
Well I don't see why a snake can't be both
goddamn am i finding this particular sentiment hells of relatable rn
We got married in 2013.
I think I did it wrong.
Ironically German does not have a word for that. Just the false friend Gift.
In theory it could, but typically evolution swings for one or the other because that's usually good enough.
Same. But switch the genders.
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Because you can ingest the venom of a snake and be fine.
Satans..... hints.....
In theory nothing, dude. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhabdophis_tigrinus It accumulates toxins in its tissue from the things it eats, making it poisonous. It's also venomous.
[insert dick sucking joke here]
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Come on now.
We all know it's
That girl is pooooooisooooooon
I said "typically" for a reason. I figured there were some exceptions out there but I didn't know any specifically so I wasn't going to try to make any direct claims.