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    Metzger MeisterMetzger Meister It Gets Worse before it gets any better.Registered User regular
    Dubh wrote: »
    did you just quote Kennedy

    because I'm hearing that last line in a Boston accent

    Chowdaaaaaahhhhh

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    KwoaruKwoaru Confident Smirk Flawless Golden PecsRegistered User regular
    edited July 2016
    My great grandfather said that we'd NEVER put a man in space, much less on the moon.

    His father thought that the horseless carriage was an impossible dream!

    My dad thought we'd never see a black president in our lifetime.

    Shit can change. We just have to have the courage to change it. We do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.

    Yeah but those first two things are the march of science and that third one is a political milestone that, while big, didn't actually involve changing anything about the office of president

    None of that is like ripping out an institution and replacing it with something that would , as far as I can tell, have the same purpose but not terrible to minority groups

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    Metzger MeisterMetzger Meister It Gets Worse before it gets any better.Registered User regular
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    My great grandfather said that we'd NEVER put a man in space, much less on the moon.

    His father thought that the horseless carriage was an impossible dream!

    My dad thought we'd never see a black president in our lifetime.

    Shit can change. We just have to have the courage to change it. We do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.

    Yeah but those first two things are the march of science and that third one is a political milestone that, while big, didn't actually involve changing anything about office of president

    None of that is like ripping out an institution and replacing it with something that would , as far as I can tell, have the same purpose but not terrible to minority groups

    And I believe in the ingenuity and drive of my generation to get it done.

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    AnzekayAnzekay Registered User regular
    It is very strange to me that an organisation that is inherently not a LGBT organisation would have floats or booths at a pride parade.

    Like, there's a pretty specific reason why these parades happen, so anything involved with them had better be related.

    If there was like an LGBT-only police officers group that marched, sure okay that's cool I guess. But the rest of it doesn't make any sense and feels like a group pushing its way into something it isn't involved in. Especially a group which such a muddy connection to LGBT topics...

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    Der Waffle MousDer Waffle Mous Blame this on the misfortune of your birth. New Yark, New Yark.Registered User regular
    Dubh wrote: »
    did you just quote Kennedy

    because I'm hearing that last line in a Boston accent

    Chowdaaaaaahhhhh

    chau-deir

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    saying that something will never happen is a p. huge claim

    especially with so many social movements gaining traction in the past 100 years

    demographics change, political movements change, government leadership change - history has shown time and time again that nothing is forever, despite what folk may want to believe

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    KwoaruKwoaru Confident Smirk Flawless Golden PecsRegistered User regular
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    My great grandfather said that we'd NEVER put a man in space, much less on the moon.

    His father thought that the horseless carriage was an impossible dream!

    My dad thought we'd never see a black president in our lifetime.

    Shit can change. We just have to have the courage to change it. We do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.

    Yeah but those first two things are the march of science and that third one is a political milestone that, while big, didn't actually involve changing anything about office of president

    None of that is like ripping out an institution and replacing it with something that would , as far as I can tell, have the same purpose but not terrible to minority groups

    And I believe in the ingenuity and drive of my generation to get it done.
    Right well that's awesome I guess, and as long as people chasing that dream aren't doing so at the expense of positive change that is actually possible then good on them

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    RainfallRainfall Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    My great grandfather said that we'd NEVER put a man in space, much less on the moon.

    His father thought that the horseless carriage was an impossible dream!

    My dad thought we'd never see a black president in our lifetime.

    Shit can change. We just have to have the courage to change it. We do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.

    Yeah but those first two things are the march of science and that third one is a political milestone that, while big, didn't actually involve changing anything about office of president

    None of that is like ripping out an institution and replacing it with something that would , as far as I can tell, have the same purpose but not terrible to minority groups

    And I believe in the ingenuity and drive of my generation to get it done.
    Right well that's awesome I guess, and as long as people chasing that dream aren't doing so at the expense of positive change that is actually possible then good on them

    Wooooooow.

    Edit: yeah, wow. That's certainly a thing you said.

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    hoodie13hoodie13 punch bro Registered User regular
    Dubh wrote: »
    another option would be to disband modern police forces and put in something that doesn't actively quash disadvantaged folk

    which takes a lot of work, work that groups like BLM are actively working toward

    I'm actually really interested in what a proposed replacement would be. Are we just talking "police but not shitty" or is it something else?

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    TurkeyTurkey So, Usoop. TampaRegistered User regular
    edited July 2016
    I'm most concerned with how a transitionary period would even work.

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    KilroyKilroy timaeusTestified Registered User regular
    Dubh wrote: »
    saying that something will never happen is a p. huge claim

    especially with so many social movements gaining traction in the past 100 years

    demographics change, political movements change, government leadership change - history has shown time and time again that nothing is forever, despite what folk may want to believe

    in my experience, the people who are most likely to claim that the status quo is unchangeable are the people who suffer least under it

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    SilverWindSilverWind Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
    I'm curious about what attempts BLM/other organizations made to bring those demands up to organizers before the day of the parade. I didn't find any mention of this in the articles I've read. It'd really help if we knew there were previous efforts that were brushed off. (Not saying that it's necessarily wrong of them if there were no previous attempts either; this information would really one help better understand the situation, is all.)

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    Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    SilverWind wrote: »
    I'm curious about what attempts BLM/other organizations made to bring those demands up to organizers before the day of the parade. I didn't find any mention of this in the articles I've read. It'd really help if we knew there were previous efforts that were brushed off. (Not saying that it's necessarily wrong of them if there were no previous attempts either; this information would really one help better understand the situation, is all.)
    I thought they specifically did not bring them up? Or was that just the notification of the sit-in?

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    SilverWindSilverWind Registered User regular
    Most comments I could find were that Pride organizers weren't given prior notification of the demonstration, instead of whether or not any attempts/demands were made beforehand. I did a brief scan of the BLM TO twitter and there's some previous tweets expressing concern regarding funding being pulled for stages involving marginalized groups, for instance.

    Here's a pretty good article summing up everything: http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/black-lives-matter-pride-protest-1.3663250

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    NarbusNarbus Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    My great grandfather said that we'd NEVER put a man in space, much less on the moon.

    His father thought that the horseless carriage was an impossible dream!

    My dad thought we'd never see a black president in our lifetime.

    Shit can change. We just have to have the courage to change it. We do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.

    Yeah but those first two things are the march of science and that third one is a political milestone that, while big, didn't actually involve changing anything about the office of president

    None of that is like ripping out an institution and replacing it with something that would , as far as I can tell, have the same purpose but not terrible to minority groups

    Dismissing the backbreaking work that took innumerable people years and years of sacrifice and pain as "oh it was inevitable", or "oh but it doesn't REALLY matter", particularly in the LGBT thread, is a pretty shitty thing to do.

    I mean, Obergefell was barely a year ago. You have been alive to see the culmination of those sorts of labors. You should be aware of how hard people have fought for some of these issues and how it is entirely possible to achieve things that seem impossible at the time.

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    Brovid HasselsmofBrovid Hasselsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    Kwoaru wrote: »
    My great grandfather said that we'd NEVER put a man in space, much less on the moon.

    His father thought that the horseless carriage was an impossible dream!

    My dad thought we'd never see a black president in our lifetime.

    Shit can change. We just have to have the courage to change it. We do these things not because they are easy, but because they are hard.

    Yeah but those first two things are the march of science and that third one is a political milestone that, while big, didn't actually involve changing anything about office of president

    None of that is like ripping out an institution and replacing it with something that would , as far as I can tell, have the same purpose but not terrible to minority groups

    And I believe in the ingenuity and drive of my generation to get it done.

    Right well that's awesome I guess, and as long as people chasing that dream aren't doing so at the expense of positive change that is actually possible then good on them

    This seems like a pretty strange statement to make in this thread given the extremely recurrent topic of certain groups having to sit and wait their turn while other groups enjoy the benefits of social progress.

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    KwoaruKwoaru Confident Smirk Flawless Golden PecsRegistered User regular
    Yeah you're right those were poorly thought out+crappy things to say, sorry about that

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    free Chelsea

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    It's hard to imagine being in that situation and not doing the same

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    TurkeyTurkey So, Usoop. TampaRegistered User regular
    My heart goes out to her. The punishment didn't really fit the crime here.

    Reading her wiki, it says that she's not allowed to grow her hair long. What the fuck?

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    Regardless of anyone's feelings about the crime and punishment, solitary confinement is barbaric

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    so the situation is a bit more fucked

    Chelsea's legal team has made a press release
    We’re shocked and outraged that an official at Leavenworth contacted the press with private confidential medical information about Chelsea Manning yet no one at the Army has given a shred of information to her legal team.

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    KochikensKochikens Registered User regular
    Boop

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    FencingsaxFencingsax It is difficult to get a man to understand, when his salary depends upon his not understanding GNU Terry PratchettRegistered User regular
    Turkey wrote: »
    My heart goes out to her. The punishment didn't really fit the crime here.

    Reading her wiki, it says that she's not allowed to grow her hair long. What the fuck?

    Presumably, a suicide watch kind of thing? Which is absolutely fucked, and maybe the answer is to treat her like a human being, but what the fuck do I know.

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    KilroyKilroy timaeusTestified Registered User regular
    I'm sure they have some kind of bullshit explanation to try to justify the fact that they're torturing her

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    Speed RacerSpeed Racer Scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratch scritch scratchRegistered User regular
    Kilroy wrote: »
    I'm sure they have some kind of bullshit explanation to try to justify the fact that they're torturing her

    do they need one?

    enough people think of her as a traitor who deserves what she gets, and who only came out as a woman as a way to try and lessen the punishment coming to her

    they could've straight up executed her and i doubt the overall public reaction would've risen beyond the level of "controversial"

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    Maybe this will finally convince Obama to pardon her? Or at the very least let her carry out her sentence in a less totally hostile environment?

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    DoobhDoobh She/Her, Ace Pan/Bisexual 8-) What's up, bootlickers?Registered User regular
    wouldn't that be nice

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    GatsbyGatsby Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
    Well today has been the most concentrated dose of customers misgendering me at work today and right now I would like to crawl back into my bed, thanks.

    Weirdly enough it's just been cis men from what I can tell that have been happily misgendering me without even a second thought, no other woman has come even close.

    Ugh, I've been lucky so far so I suppose it was about time this happened to me.

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    ameybesameybes vvvv MERBERNRegistered User regular
    That sucks :/

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    Care Free BombCare Free Bomb Registered User regular
    So I've decided to go to the Steinbach parade tomorrow. It's the first in Manitoba's bible belt so that's neat, I do want to see how Mennonites deal with it

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    CorehealerCorehealer The Apothecary The softer edge of the universe.Registered User regular
    So I've decided to go to the Steinbach parade tomorrow. It's the first in Manitoba's bible belt so that's neat, I do want to see how Mennonites deal with it

    Probably by avoiding it.

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
    I don't mind religious extremists so long as they don't express themselves in my backyard. (Yes this is supposed to be an ironic riff.)

    edit: also just want to say I feel great right now because after trying and having lots of poor results with make up someone really close to me helped me with it and I like how I look! I hope positive news helps other folks feel good.

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    WhippyWhippy Moderator, Admin Emeritus Admin Emeritus
    babies

    It's my birthday and I wanna post this selfie I took at midnight last night so you're just gonna have to deal with my face for this page

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    I needed anime to post.I needed anime to post. boom Registered User regular
    happy burpday

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    GatsbyGatsby Registered User regular
    edited July 2016
    Looking great, @Whippy!

    (Also happy birthday!)

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    ChincymcchillaChincymcchilla Registered User regular
    Whipped happy birthday also I love your shirt and you look great

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    Care Free BombCare Free Bomb Registered User regular
    Pride march report:

    They were originally expecting around 200 people and were hoping for 1000, there were over 5000 people there which is, incidentally, over 1/3 the population of Steinbach

    There were only two (2) porta potties so people had to go to the library and subway that were nearby

    After the march the library was hosting an event that could hold a whopping 35 people

    Everyone was cute

    I took a chance and wore my wig and best outfit and several people complemented me on it which was great (my first time being out in the open)

    I was accidentally at the front when they had a pre-march speech and there were definitely CBC cameras rolling but it doesn't look like it made it onto the non-live show cut

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    The march was fun though kinda short, it was cloudy so it didn't get too hot. There were people lining the sidewalks cheering as the parade went on

    The parade stopped at the city hall and when we got there, keeping in mind that we were not even close to the first people there, they announced that a large portion of people had yet to leave the starting area. When those people arrived the RCMP had to close off an additional street to fit everyone so they had a chance to hear what was going on

    There were a bunch of speakers: a gay hutterite man, the head of a two spirit advocacy organization, a trans man who recently authored a book, a woman with Egyptian parents who talked at length about the deep seated issues the LGBT community has with people of colour, and a bunch more. It kinda went on a bit long but it was all good stuff though the kids in the audience were dying to leave.

    No one can agree on an acronym or where to fit two spirit people in there

    I was very pleasantly surprised at how much time they gave to transgender and especially two spirit folks

    There was a lot of shade thrown at the mayor and the member of legislature for not showing up

    The message from Justin Trudeau was nice

    Overall it was great but my feet got tired and it got hot by the end there

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    Whipped happy birthday also I love your shirt and you look great
    As an addendum, you have great hair like wow.

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