My sister found out you receive more messages and visits if you spend more time being online/logged into your account since the system will rank you higher
My sister found out you receive more messages and visits if you spend more time being online/logged into your account since the system will rank you higher
Also regularly update your profile
Like, even if it's just to slightly change verbiage or whatever
That is in fact how OKCupid's visibility works. The more you're on, the more likely it is that you'll pop up on people's home screen, quick match, and matching profiles.
My OKCupid date on Monday seemed to go pretty well. Went to a brewery and had a couple beers, then when they closed down at 10pm we headed to her place and ended up chatting in the garage until sometime after 1am. We had fun and would both like to see each other again but some fundamental lifestyle differences give me pause. I'm just taking a "have fun, see where things go" approach for now.
I had a terrible nightmare last night that my husband decided to leave me and I started internet dating again and it was the worst. I think this thread has insidiously crept into my subconscious. Or that my brain was punishing me for allowing myself to forget what my life used to be like.
I had a terrible nightmare last night that my husband decided to leave me and I started internet dating again and it was the worst. I think this thread has insidiously crept into my subconscious. Or that my brain was punishing me for allowing myself to forget what my life used to be like.
My wife does that. She will wake up and be glad that it didn't happen, but still kind of glare at me. Then smile and be glad it didn't really happen. And then glare a bit. Then be happy.
Ultimately it settles back to happy, but it takes a few minutes of waking up.
I told her I can't be held accountable for what imaginary dream me does.
and I wonder about my neighbors even though I don't have them
but they're listening to every word I say
I had a terrible nightmare last night that my husband decided to leave me and I started internet dating again and it was the worst. I think this thread has insidiously crept into my subconscious. Or that my brain was punishing me for allowing myself to forget what my life used to be like.
My wife does that. She will wake up and be glad that it didn't happen, but still kind of glare at me. Then smile and be glad it didn't really happen. And then glare a bit. Then be happy.
Ultimately it settles back to happy, but it takes a few minutes of waking up.
I told her I can't be held accountable for what imaginary dream me does.
Which of course is just stage one of your ultimate incepetion scheme.
And while I was investigating a lady kept on popping up and undressing in front of me!
And I was like, "DANG IT, LADY! I'M TRYING TO SOLVE A MYSTERY HERE!"
I had something similar where I was the sheriff of an old-west version of my hometown and a lady kept coming onto me, only I deputized her. I figured if she was gonna be hanging around anyway, might as well put 'er to work.
'Course, then I went and broke the number one rule of dream law enforcement: Don't fall in love.
And while I was investigating a lady kept on popping up and undressing in front of me!
And I was like, "DANG IT, LADY! I'M TRYING TO SOLVE A MYSTERY HERE!"
I had something similar where I was the sheriff of an old-west version of my hometown and a lady kept coming onto me, only I deputized her. I figured if she was gonna be hanging around anyway, might as well put 'er to work.
'Course, then I went and broke the number one rule of dream law enforcement: Don't fall in love.
"I hadn't seen a body put together like that since I'd solved the case of the murdered girl with the big tits"
So, uh... I think I just got legitimately hit on for the first time in like maybe 7 years or more?
I was in a cafe waiting for a coffee and one of the baristas was on a break and she sidled over to chat and was super flirty out of nowhere for a good 15 minutes. She even kind of opened with the whole mistaken identity line thing.
Which, to be fair, was nice! But just all felt really quite surreal and caught me completely off guard.
Blake TDo you have enemies then?Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered Userregular
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The last time someone flirted with me I was not interested, she had met my wife earlier, and kept touching me and making me feel super uncomfortable.
I was a hair's breath away from yelling, "Don't fucking touch me." but we were playing game of thrones and I was also relying on her to continue harass the starks and I could win the game.
Plus yelling at someone for being inappropriate at someone else's house rather than say, my house or a bar, it's a pretty uncomfortable thing to do!
The last time someone flirted with me I was not interested, she had met my wife earlier, and kept touching me and making me feel super uncomfortable.
I was a hair's breath away from yelling, "Don't fucking touch me." but we were playing game of thrones and I was also relying on her to continue harass the starks and I could nick win the game.
Then that didn't even happen.
In the game of the thrones, you flirt or you die.
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Yikes, Blake.
That is so not okay.
I would really hope that if I ever flirted with someone and they were putting out "leave me alone" signs I would, you know, be a fucking respectful human about it.
"Sandra has a good solid anti-murderer vibe. My skin felt very secure and sufficiently attached to my body when I met her. Also my organs." HAIL SATAN
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A friend's girlfriend did that to me. On my birthday, no less. It was... uncomfortable.
I was going to say I didn't remember anyone ever hitting on me other than on okcupid.
And then I remembered this 60 year old pizza delivery guy who, in my first months of my transition, hit on me the first time he delivered to me, then he appeared the next time I ordered from there almost two months later and said that he was actively watching out for any orders for me.
And then I never ordered from any dominos ever again.
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What, you're saying robots don't need love too?
Also regularly update your profile
Like, even if it's just to slightly change verbiage or whatever
A recorded edit will boost you
My OKCupid date on Monday seemed to go pretty well. Went to a brewery and had a couple beers, then when they closed down at 10pm we headed to her place and ended up chatting in the garage until sometime after 1am. We had fun and would both like to see each other again but some fundamental lifestyle differences give me pause. I'm just taking a "have fun, see where things go" approach for now.
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My wife does that. She will wake up and be glad that it didn't happen, but still kind of glare at me. Then smile and be glad it didn't really happen. And then glare a bit. Then be happy.
Ultimately it settles back to happy, but it takes a few minutes of waking up.
I told her I can't be held accountable for what imaginary dream me does.
but they're listening to every word I say
I even feel like those are the only true nightmares I have
Which of course is just stage one of your ultimate incepetion scheme.
Wait, do you mean "the version that appears when I'm dreaming" or...
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Yeah, I mean, as long as he's being safe about it, I ain't gonna judge.
Only I was a detective trying to solve a mystery!
And while I was investigating a lady kept on popping up and undressing in front of me!
And I was like, "DANG IT, LADY! I'M TRYING TO SOLVE A MYSTERY HERE!"
I had something similar where I was the sheriff of an old-west version of my hometown and a lady kept coming onto me, only I deputized her. I figured if she was gonna be hanging around anyway, might as well put 'er to work.
'Course, then I went and broke the number one rule of dream law enforcement: Don't fall in love.
I think I would say it as "my dream girlfriend" if it were the girl I would hope to meet someday.
"I hadn't seen a body put together like that since I'd solved the case of the murdered girl with the big tits"
I have a joke for this but I don't know if my doggie will get pissed or not.
I mean, it's definitely funny, but it's also Classic DeeDub's level of being an asshat.
...
Okay, it's funny only to me, shut up.
Gonna go to a Belgian beer cafe and eat lots of seafood and maybe an entire kg of mussels and then a walk along the beach.
it's our last night as just the two of us. mom gets here in the morning and baby will be along by the 16th.
so very excited.
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I was in a cafe waiting for a coffee and one of the baristas was on a break and she sidled over to chat and was super flirty out of nowhere for a good 15 minutes. She even kind of opened with the whole mistaken identity line thing.
Which, to be fair, was nice! But just all felt really quite surreal and caught me completely off guard.
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Satans..... hints.....
happens to me all the dang time
..the bomb, I mean
"Sandra has a good solid anti-murderer vibe. My skin felt very secure and sufficiently attached to my body when I met her. Also my organs." HAIL SATAN
Satans..... hints.....
That's ridiculous Blake.
Nobody has eyes in this economy.
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I was a hair's breath away from yelling, "Don't fucking touch me." but we were playing game of thrones and I was also relying on her to continue harass the starks and I could win the game.
Plus yelling at someone for being inappropriate at someone else's house rather than say, my house or a bar, it's a pretty uncomfortable thing to do!
Then that didn't even happen.
Satans..... hints.....
oh golly goodness no
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In the game of the thrones, you flirt or you die.
That is so not okay.
I would really hope that if I ever flirted with someone and they were putting out "leave me alone" signs I would, you know, be a fucking respectful human about it.
"Sandra has a good solid anti-murderer vibe. My skin felt very secure and sufficiently attached to my body when I met her. Also my organs." HAIL SATAN
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Yeah, sure, PM me. Again, probably not funny to anyone but me, but you asked.
And then I remembered this 60 year old pizza delivery guy who, in my first months of my transition, hit on me the first time he delivered to me, then he appeared the next time I ordered from there almost two months later and said that he was actively watching out for any orders for me.
And then I never ordered from any dominos ever again.