I have a question for chat that I don't really know the answer to.
Is "butthurt" an offensive term? Obviously if it's aimed at someone it's done mockingly/cruelly
but like, if you just said to a friend "yeah they got real butthurt over it"
Is that offensive?
Butthurt derives some shock from the implication that homosexuality is unacceptable, but it's primarily about metaphorical domination. So and so got fucked in the butt really hard (i.e.: dominated, defeated shown their place) and is now butthurt. Often the speaker is proudly declaring that they are the one who did the fucking, so unless the speaker holds the cultural position that tops are not gay, then it's pretty free of homophobia. That is a thing though, the idea that only dudes who bottom are actually gay. So if that is mixed in, you can maybe say it's kind of homophobic? Depends on context.
I generally give it a pass on being homophobic and file it alongside using the word "rape" to mean "utterly defeated". It's juvenile and makes some people uncomfortable, but it doesn't reveal some deep, ugly character flaw.
I always thought it just meant you have a sore butt and you are whining about it
So last night at like 11:30 boy was like "I am thinking about snuggles.." and I was like "Well, there's a bus at 12:30, I could come over" and he was like "NO no no it's ok it's fine."
Then like 20min later was like "Actually yes come over I'm just feeling frumpy " (and I went over)
And
SPOILERED FOR GROSS CUTENESS
I went over and got there around one and we initially were just snuggling and we were cuddled up together just kind of enjoying being very close and I was looking at him and just???
f
frumpy
wat
he is
so beautiful I have no words, I was momentarily overwhelmed by how incredibly gorgeous and wonderful and sweet he is and?? aaaaaaaaa
AAAAAAAA
I love this person very much I am so gross all the time q-q
sometimes we lie in bed or are playing video games together or waking up in the morning or sitting in the rain or whatever and I look over and I just feel like
okay I'm done this is the best, this is Peak Happiness and I could keel over right now and feel pretty darn fulfilled
and then it'll happen again the next time we are just being quiet together and I am like
AAAAAAAAAA
This is disgusting!
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Who was I bitching to the other day about the English land access system
Tim Allen, 55, is leading a British Caving Association (BCA) campaign to get the Countryside and Rights of Way (Crow) Act 2000 extended to include caves. He said the current voluntary agreement system was becoming untenable.
“The issue is whether caves should be covered by ‘right to roam’, or, as Defra and Natural England claim, we only have a right to explore entrances as far as they are open to the daylight,” Allen said.
“On their view, you can tramp across Ingleborough to the entrance of Gaping Gill, abseil down the 365ft entrance shaft, but not go into the 10-mile network beyond once you lose the daylight – unless you have the landowner’s permission. It doesn’t make sense.”
I've been thinking about that video game / addiction article ever since desc posted it and I haven't had time to catch up with chat but I did see some refutation of it as a generalization
which, ok fine
but after having spent all day yesterday playing a f2p ARPG while on opiates and then after they wore off I had a few beers
it's making me reconsider things
(granted the opiates were because I was in a ton of pain most of the day)
Chat has moved on
Grab your musket and choose a side in the sweet potato fry civil war
I am sitting out this war as I prefer regular fries but I also prefer sweet potato tots over everything else that isn't an onion ring or a cheese curd
my hierarchy goes
onion ring
cheese curds sweet potato tots
regular tots
steak fries
regular fries
sweet potato fries
wet stringy fries
...
Pol Pot
fast food coleslaw
whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa
you
you squared the circle and i must eat it immediately
I can't take the credit, some anonymous hero somewhere has stolen the fire of the Gods and made it real
I can never forgive Twilight Princess for following up Wind Waker, one of the most jaw droppingly beautiful games of all time, with graphics from bland central station
So last night at like 11:30 boy was like "I am thinking about snuggles.." and I was like "Well, there's a bus at 12:30, I could come over" and he was like "NO no no it's ok it's fine."
Then like 20min later was like "Actually yes come over I'm just feeling frumpy " (and I went over)
And
SPOILERED FOR GROSS CUTENESS
I went over and got there around one and we initially were just snuggling and we were cuddled up together just kind of enjoying being very close and I was looking at him and just???
f
frumpy
wat
he is
so beautiful I have no words, I was momentarily overwhelmed by how incredibly gorgeous and wonderful and sweet he is and?? aaaaaaaaa
AAAAAAAA
I love this person very much I am so gross all the time q-q
sometimes we lie in bed or are playing video games together or waking up in the morning or sitting in the rain or whatever and I look over and I just feel like
okay I'm done this is the best, this is Peak Happiness and I could keel over right now and feel pretty darn fulfilled
and then it'll happen again the next time we are just being quiet together and I am like
AAAAAAAAAA
I don't know if I've ever felt that. O_O
That sounds wonderful.
I am very happy for you. :biggrin:
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SummaryJudgmentGrab the hottest iron you can find, stride in the Tower’s front doorRegistered Userregular
Wooo
Taking a 4 day weekend, couples' massage is booked on Friday morning for Wife and I
It just happens to be next to an outstanding brunch joint
Some days Blue wonders why anyone ever bothered making numbers so small; other days she supposes even infinity needs to start somewhere.
And now I'm curious why I feel the necessity to have a space in between "cole" and "slaw"
I have never, ever used either of those words alone outisde the context of having "cole slaw" as an antecedent, nor do I actually think they are proper English words instead of just grapevined slang
"and the morning stars I have seen
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
All in favor of not letting BC share her emotions click agree
let her enjoy it before everyone starts having divorces
this comment too real
/me wonders if it's even possible for me to fall in love again
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
All in favor of not letting BC share her emotions click agree
let her enjoy it before everyone starts having divorces
this comment too real
/me wonders if it's even possible for me to fall in love again
aw, i'm sorry. you're divorced?
i mean i fell for someone who is mid-divorce and it's just too much. she is so not over it. i'm having to put it on hold for a few months while she works it out or else it's castle doodling in blood and feces on the wall after it ends
All in favor of not letting BC share her emotions click agree
let her enjoy it before everyone starts having divorces
this comment too real
/me wonders if it's even possible for me to fall in love again
Nah
/eats Arby's
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
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LudiousI just wanted a sandwich A temporally dislocated QuiznosRegistered Userregular
All in favor of not letting BC share her emotions click agree
let her enjoy it before everyone starts having divorces
this comment too real
/me wonders if it's even possible for me to fall in love again
aw, i'm sorry. you're divorced?
i mean i fell for someone who is mid-divorce and it's just too much. she is so not over it. i'm having to put it on hold for a few months while she works it out or else it's castle doodling in blood and feces on the wall after it ends
no but one of my friends is in the process
with a realtionship that seemed all super great and shit
and like, I dunno the relationships I'm having now in my late 20's are so different than my early ones
life has beaten the joy out of me
Aioua on
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
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Coleslaw is food for peasants.
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1OLcAGbXhWIVcl5IziVpG0eKFJS3xi_Sac9kYMkRFvD8/edit?usp=sharing
I always thought it came from getting spanked
I'd love it if you took a look at my art and my PATREON!
agree but would like it extended to everyone
just bottle that shit up until everything goes wrong like i do
The Chan Man
like lots of places claim to make cole slaw
but most are very not good at it
This is disgusting!
http://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2016/mar/28/cavers-fight-to-take-the-right-to-roam-to-new-lows
I'M SORRY
q-q
I HAVE A LOT OF THEM AND SOMETIMES THEY LEAK OUT??
I'd love it if you took a look at my art and my PATREON!
let her enjoy it before everyone starts having divorces
If the s is silent it loses the 80s yuppie restaurant vibe though
Never happy and never sad. It's always gray!
There is only the grind.
also I am personally on a starvation diet for that kind of stuff right now so I need a injection of vicarious gross cuteness
I can't take the credit, some anonymous hero somewhere has stolen the fire of the Gods and made it real
I am curious if their mac and cheese is any good, I suspect that it is now.
The gravy on their mashed potatoes is watery nonsense.
Their whole kernel corn comes soaking in 6 inches of corn water; this shouldn't bother me but it always does.
They have green beans which could be okay.
And I don't much care for cole slaw in general (unless it's artisinal cole slaw made by a blind person in the back corner of a local bodega).
that's normal right
minda was p cool tho
I don't know if I've ever felt that. O_O
That sounds wonderful.
I am very happy for you. :biggrin:
Taking a 4 day weekend, couples' massage is booked on Friday morning for Wife and I
It just happens to be next to an outstanding brunch joint
I have never, ever used either of those words alone outisde the context of having "cole slaw" as an antecedent, nor do I actually think they are proper English words instead of just grapevined slang
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
this comment too real
/me wonders if it's even possible for me to fall in love again
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
Nah
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1OLcAGbXhWIVcl5IziVpG0eKFJS3xi_Sac9kYMkRFvD8/edit?usp=sharing
This accursed liberal echo chamber
I keep reading them but by the time I'm done I've burned it all off.
I'm like a hole in the Force or something
aw, i'm sorry. you're divorced?
i mean i fell for someone who is mid-divorce and it's just too much. she is so not over it. i'm having to put it on hold for a few months while she works it out or else it's castle doodling in blood and feces on the wall after it ends
Someone born in the 11th or 12th century would give their left arm to live in the grind.
/eats Arby's
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
I am not even approaching this from a bitter adult angle. Love is great!
I like good, broken in love. Love where you can say shit like "I love you but you are annoying the shit out of me right now" and
"I appreciate the attempt at sexy times but my balls smell like pickled fried chicken right now and I am too tired to take a shower"
That's bedrock solid love
get rekt them
*waves*
no but one of my friends is in the process
with a realtionship that seemed all super great and shit
and like, I dunno the relationships I'm having now in my late 20's are so different than my early ones
life has beaten the joy out of me
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
that's like
the dream
I'd love it if you took a look at my art and my PATREON!
This is a correct opinion for right-thinking people.
Huh, things on my body now hurt.
Ow.
Ow.