Love is not cuddling, or snuggling, or feeling the bottom drop out from under you
Love is making your SO go get basic groceries while you agree to do dishes
Love are two guards on opposite sides of a border of rival countries.
They talk with each other daily
Some days guns are drawn
other days the talking minimal
But they'd prolly die for each other if it came down to it
dang
Ya, that resonated pretty hard. I might have to use that at my wedding for something.
All in favor of not letting BC share her emotions click agree
let her enjoy it before everyone starts having divorces
this comment too real
/me wonders if it's even possible for me to fall in love again
aw, i'm sorry. you're divorced?
i mean i fell for someone who is mid-divorce and it's just too much. she is so not over it. i'm having to put it on hold for a few months while she works it out or else it's castle doodling in blood and feces on the wall after it ends
no but one of my friends is in the process
with a realtionship that seemed all super great and shit
and like, I dunno the relationships I'm having now in my late 20's are so different than my early ones
life has beaten the joy out of me
I think it is super dependent on the people
I have definitely been experiencing things recently that I haven't in years, if not a decade.
you think you might never find it again, then someone appears in front of you and it's real neat
Yeah. I feel super teenagery again in a lot of ways. It is weirder because a lot of other stuff about me and how I handle things is different. But emotional reactions are not.
You know what I fear. Divorce after a long marriage.
My folks were married for 20 years then split. So much time with one person then to have to not be with that person anymore. Seems like it would just be so hard.
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
bc the most important part of being happy is to never share too much of it in places like chat where it abrades the miserly joyless souls of those who lurk, unloveable and damp with the sweat of their compulsions
I mean, you joke, I think, but there really was at least one poster who quit because people here were "talking too much about their girlfriends" and he couldn't deal
bc the most important part of being happy is to never share too much of it in places like chat where it abrades the miserly joyless souls of those who lurk, unloveable and damp with the sweat of their compulsions
I mean, you joke, I think, but there really was at least one poster who quit because people here were "talking too much about their girlfriends" and he couldn't deal
You know what I fear. Divorce after a long marriage.
My folks were married for 20 years then split. So much time with one person then to have to not be with that person anymore. Seems like it would just be so hard.
I seriously can't imagine
My relationship with my wife is such an core part of who I am if it went away I would be someone else.
bc the most important part of being happy is to never share too much of it in places like chat where it abrades the miserly joyless souls of those who lurk, unloveable and damp with the sweat of their compulsions
I mean, you joke, I think, but there really was at least one poster who quit because people here were "talking too much about their girlfriends" and he couldn't deal
that makes me sad.
although eddy has managed to persevere so it can't be too bad
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You know what I fear. Divorce after a long marriage.
My folks were married for 20 years then split. So much time with one person then to have to not be with that person anymore. Seems like it would just be so hard.
This happened to my parents but they are doing ok. Mom still comes to Christmas and stuff.
My folks are both happily re-married now. So they are fine in their own rights now. Don't really ever talk though.
It's just that after being married for as long as I have. It feels like if I was to be suddenly single now I'd have no idea what to do. I've only ever been with my wife ya'know. It's scary.
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i don't think i could ever respect someone who loved me
how can you abide by such poor decision making
Chelle loves me.
The heart wants what the heart wants.
Sometimes you want filet mignon, and sometimes you want taco bell.
If you're lucky you only have to make that decision once, but if it's taco bell, you're stuck with it
bc the most important part of being happy is to never share too much of it in places like chat where it abrades the miserly joyless souls of those who lurk, unloveable and damp with the sweat of their compulsions
I mean, you joke, I think, but there really was at least one poster who quit because people here were "talking too much about their girlfriends" and he couldn't deal
dang
did this have anything to do with the recent policy of trying to discourage dependency on the forums as a means of social contact
bc the most important part of being happy is to never share too much of it in places like chat where it abrades the miserly joyless souls of those who lurk, unloveable and damp with the sweat of their compulsions
I mean, you joke, I think, but there really was at least one poster who quit because people here were "talking too much about their girlfriends" and he couldn't deal
That's sad, but it sounds like he's got a lot on his plate
Facebook makes a lot of people sad, and having established that, we're just talking about degrees
Some days Blue wonders why anyone ever bothered making numbers so small; other days she supposes even infinity needs to start somewhere.
When you wake up every morning and acknowledge that you'll never make anyone as happy as boy makes BC.
When you wake up every morning and acknowledge that you could be making someone that happy and instead you've chosen to prioritize your career and live separately from him.
Man, fuck this.
Not to get right up in your business, but
He's also chosen to prioritize his career and live separately from you. It sucks for both of you that society would have that decision be the default for him, but not for you.
Yes and no, I mean, I kinda fucked up.
Timeline was:
1. he applied to residencies all over the place; I still hadn't graduated
2. I graduated and needed to apply to jobs so I applied all over the place with no luck
3. He got a residency in Philadelphia
4. I continued to apply places INCLUDING DC+NYC because I was doing this program that promised to hook me up with a data science job in one of those places
5. I got rejected from everywhere and was super-unhappy, started applying to jobs in Philadelphia but didn't hear back from them either
6. I got a positive response from my current job and took it.
So I could have continued to look for jobs in Philadelphia, or not taken advantage of the data science placement thing once we discovered the residency would be in Philly. It's kinda on me. Especially since I've articulated that I also didn't want the emotional/housework labor of dealing with someone who is completely miserable because of his 80 hour weeks from first-year residency. That's...extraordinarily shitty.
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and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
Ya, that resonated pretty hard. I might have to use that at my wedding for something.
Yeah. I feel super teenagery again in a lot of ways. It is weirder because a lot of other stuff about me and how I handle things is different. But emotional reactions are not.
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I seriously can't imagine
can love be everything
can anything be love
yeah, that sucks
i don't know why this playacting like love but only under special circumstances is so common
like you can't walk down the street without hearing about unconditional love and yet people don't get it i guess?
Like 40 hours worth of work over a 4 day weekend. Yay!
is...
is this what "dumps like a truck" means?
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
You have mangled this quote. Zero stars.
Love is level of violence
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I mean, you joke, I think, but there really was at least one poster who quit because people here were "talking too much about their girlfriends" and he couldn't deal
how can you abide by such poor decision making
yeah
finding all this out in a very condensed time has been a real struggle for me
and I haven't gotten to the hard parts yet with some people
maybe I'll get stuck in a tar pit or something and not have to do all that
I'd love it if you took a look at my art and my PATREON!
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and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
will be the most romantic gesture of my life
it will be like the asteroid heading for us in Armageddon
My relationship with my wife is such an core part of who I am if it went away I would be someone else.
This guy would be dead.
Argh
nsfwish
I remastered it to better fit the conversation and the needs of a 2016 audience.
I just realized.
The part in Batman v Superman where
(Spoilers about a really unexpected part of the movie.)
It's completely useless because he meets Lois Lane anyway.
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it sustains me
dave_chappelle_kkk_skit
that makes me sad.
although eddy has managed to persevere so it can't be too bad
My folks are both happily re-married now. So they are fine in their own rights now. Don't really ever talk though.
It's just that after being married for as long as I have. It feels like if I was to be suddenly single now I'd have no idea what to do. I've only ever been with my wife ya'know. It's scary.
Chelle loves me.
The heart wants what the heart wants.
Sometimes you want filet mignon, and sometimes you want taco bell.
If you're lucky you only have to make that decision once, but if it's taco bell, you're stuck with it
dang
did this have anything to do with the recent policy of trying to discourage dependency on the forums as a means of social contact
desc i hate 2 tell u but you are dead and this is ur sisyphean task for all eterniti-
*checks notes*
Good news! You aren't dead, and this is ur sisyphean task for all eternity!
That's sad, but it sounds like he's got a lot on his plate
Facebook makes a lot of people sad, and having established that, we're just talking about degrees
Yes and no, I mean, I kinda fucked up.
1. he applied to residencies all over the place; I still hadn't graduated
2. I graduated and needed to apply to jobs so I applied all over the place with no luck
3. He got a residency in Philadelphia
4. I continued to apply places INCLUDING DC+NYC because I was doing this program that promised to hook me up with a data science job in one of those places
5. I got rejected from everywhere and was super-unhappy, started applying to jobs in Philadelphia but didn't hear back from them either
6. I got a positive response from my current job and took it.
So I could have continued to look for jobs in Philadelphia, or not taken advantage of the data science placement thing once we discovered the residency would be in Philly. It's kinda on me. Especially since I've articulated that I also didn't want the emotional/housework labor of dealing with someone who is completely miserable because of his 80 hour weeks from first-year residency. That's...extraordinarily shitty.