My wife of nearly 4 years and I are preparing to separate our stuff and go our different ways. The strange thing here is that, right now at least, there's not really any anger. We're still friends and enjoy just hanging out together, but our lives are going in different directions and for a while now neither of us has been very happy. We've even been going to marriage counseling to see if we could get back to how in love we were when we first got together, but because our life goals aren't the same anymore it's extremely difficult for either of us to see staying in the relationship. There's really no blame assigned to just one of us, if any blame at all exists, and so over the next few months we've got to figure out how to move away from being a married couple to just friends. Our lease is up in December and she'll be leaving the area for a few months immediately after, so the full reality of this may not hit until then, but overall I feel like it'll be OK, and I'm a little anxious about trying to meet women again.
tldr; Gettin' divorced, it's mostly ok, your sister's hot
tldr; Gettin' divorced, it's mostly ok, your sister's hot
man i'm sorry
don't be saying stuff about my sister tho, i'll beat you up.
See, it's kind of sad, because we've been married half our adult lives, but at the same time I haven't really been living how I wanted to. Our focus was getting her career situated and not mine, so it really only reinforced my laziness about work and school. Now that I know I'll have to support myself, I've got plans for kicking my degree out quick and look for jobs that are over $11 an hour.
I haven't had sex in months, I'll get near your sisters if I can.
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Pretty much everything you have said sounds like my last relationship break-up, only instead of being married we were just living together. Different life goals/directions is a big, big, big, big thing to have to consider in any long-term relationship. Good luck!
tldr; Gettin' divorced, it's mostly ok, your sister's hot
man i'm sorry
don't be saying stuff about my sister tho, i'll beat you up.
See, it's kind of sad, because we've been married half our adult lives, but at the same time I haven't really been living how I wanted to. Our focus was getting her career situated and not mine, so it really only reinforced my laziness about work and school. Now that I know I'll have to support myself, I've got plans for kicking my degree out quick and look for jobs that are over $11 an hour.
that's the kind of thing i'm afraid of in any relationship.
one long-term relationship i had i basically subsumed my own long-term goals and such to the gf. things ended when i "resurfaced" to do new things.
so you finally admitted you love the cock and dropped your beard, huh?
but really, that sucks. At least it wasn't all angry and fighty. hows the settlements and all that jazz gonna work out?
We're just going to no-fault and split up our shit. Luckily, not a lot of things we've gotten has been 'ours', but more 'yours and mine'. For instance, I don't intend on taking the Buffy DVD's and she doesn't want Stargate. Who gets what car is pretty much the biggest decision we have to make, because one still has a payment.
I haven't had sex in months, I'll get near your sisters if I can.
Ouch yes this is a good reason
Pretty much everything you have said sounds like my last relationship break-up, only instead of being married we were just living together. Different life goals/directions is a big, big, big, big thing to have to consider in any long-term relationship. Good luck!
What's funny is that she's got an employee that's always talking about wanting to get with me, and I am seriously considering "hittin' that shit" because goddamn, not getting sex after you're used to getting sex is bad for the brain.
I haven't had sex in months, I'll get near your sisters if I can.
Ouch yes this is a good reason
Pretty much everything you have said sounds like my last relationship break-up, only instead of being married we were just living together. Different life goals/directions is a big, big, big, big thing to have to consider in any long-term relationship. Good luck!
What's funny is that she's got an employee that's always talking about wanting to get with me, and I am seriously considering "hittin' that shit" because goddamn, not getting sex after you're used to getting sex is bad for the brain.
I haven't had sex in months, I'll get near your sisters if I can.
Ouch yes this is a good reason
Pretty much everything you have said sounds like my last relationship break-up, only instead of being married we were just living together. Different life goals/directions is a big, big, big, big thing to have to consider in any long-term relationship. Good luck!
What's funny is that she's got an employee that's always talking about wanting to get with me, and I am seriously considering "hittin' that shit" because goddamn, not getting sex after you're used to getting sex is bad for the brain.
Probably, yeah. I mean, we were happy until we weren't. And what's weird is that now that we know it's over, we're happy again, which makes us feel closer than we have for a while, which is confusing as hell.
Probably, yeah. I mean, we were happy until we weren't. And what's weird is that now that we know it's over, we're happy again, which makes us feel closer than we have for a while, which is confusing as hell.
Know that feeling too.
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Divorce is a sin and you will burn in hell.
Seriously though, I always was impressed with people that get divorced in such an adult manner. It's a rare thing these days. Especially when there is a kid involved. I know this because the women in my family change husbands like they change oil filters. Seems like every week I'v lost an uncle or a cousin or a brother in law.
Um... is congratulations appropriate?
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My wife of nearly 4 years and I are preparing to separate our stuff and go our different ways. The strange thing here is that, right now at least, there's not really any anger. We're still friends and enjoy just hanging out together, but our lives are going in different directions and for a while now neither of us has been very happy. We've even been going to marriage counseling to see if we could get back to how in love we were when we first got together, but because our life goals aren't the same anymore it's extremely difficult for either of us to see staying in the relationship. There's really no blame assigned to just one of us, if any blame at all exists, and so over the next few months we've got to figure out how to move away from being a married couple to just friends. Our lease is up in December and she'll be leaving the area for a few months immediately after, so the full reality of this may not hit until then, but overall I feel like it'll be OK, and I'm a little anxious about trying to meet women again.
tldr; Gettin' divorced, it's mostly ok, your sister's hot
So I guess she can get those pets she was talking about now
It's lame because there was literally no sign of it until the last couple days, from my perspective, but like Mysst, we will probably get along and be happy and fine apart.
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man i'm sorry
don't be saying stuff about my sister tho, i'll beat you up.
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but really, that sucks. At least it wasn't all angry and fighty. hows the settlements and all that jazz gonna work out?
I know some one who has been divorced 3 times and another annulled. He just got married again last month.
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Pretty much everything you have said sounds like my last relationship break-up, only instead of being married we were just living together. Different life goals/directions is a big, big, big, big thing to have to consider in any long-term relationship. Good luck!
that's the kind of thing i'm afraid of in any relationship.
one long-term relationship i had i basically subsumed my own long-term goals and such to the gf. things ended when i "resurfaced" to do new things.
another was the exact reverse situation.
getting that balance just right is freakin tough.
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and you can have my sister, good luck with that
also, my wife and i are pretty happy
So what's stopping you?
Just so long as you never EVER put an xbox in the bedroom. Or make her sit next to the strange dude from the internet again.
i thought she did surprisingly well for meeting a bunch of internet weirdos
and we used to have the 360 in the bedroom in the old house
she fell asleep many times to the sounds of ncaa 2004 and Knights of the Old Republic
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I've been dating and now living with my girlfriend for a total of 8 years.
Seriously though, I always was impressed with people that get divorced in such an adult manner. It's a rare thing these days. Especially when there is a kid involved. I know this because the women in my family change husbands like they change oil filters. Seems like every week I'v lost an uncle or a cousin or a brother in law.
Um... is congratulations appropriate?
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So I guess she can get those pets she was talking about now
Kind of a raw deal you got there.
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I chalk it off to being too young, now.
It's lame because there was literally no sign of it until the last couple days, from my perspective, but like Mysst, we will probably get along and be happy and fine apart.
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