Whenever I go on one of my ranty tangents about the topic of her and i not presently dating but maybe in the future dating and my attempts to discern if that will ever happen she usually ends up almost falling off the couch laughing and smiling at me.
I think I entertain her. I just do not know if that is a good thing of the "I adore this boy" variety or "god, this loon is amusing to watch while i wait to find someone decent".
Except we keep having fun together and finding more manners in which we are compatible.
It is just a fucking mindfuck at this point. How difficult is it to tell a guy "We can / will date" or "We can / will not date". That seems like a very simple thing to discern for a human being.
Huh. Apparently, they're testing surgically implanted push-up bras so that women's breasts are perky even when the clothes come off. Technology, is there anything you can't do?
So, what do Guardian Angels do? Tell you to stop loudly? How does this work? Aren't they just as likely to get fucked up? Blargh, stupid people.
Basically, and if need be they "defend themselves physically" with their "specialized training" from the higher ups that came over from the states to train them.
So, what do Guardian Angels do? Tell you to stop loudly? How does this work? Aren't they just as likely to get fucked up? Blargh, stupid people.
Basically, and if need be they "defend themselves physically" with their "specialized training" from the higher ups that came over from the states to train them.
So, they basically commit crime while stopping crime? Error
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PasserbyeI am much older than you.in Beach CityRegistered Userregular
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J she said you can date in the future, just not right now.
It means she's interested in you, but emotionally or otherwise not ready to date anyone right now.
Really, the problem is that you are entertaining the notion that any answer other than "yes" is not "no." If it's not "yes," it's "no." Maybe she'll change her mind later, but I wouldn't hold my breath.
Whenever I go on one of my ranty tangents about the topic of her and i not presently dating but maybe in the future dating and my attempts to discern if that will ever happen she usually ends up almost falling off the couch laughing and smiling at me.
I think I entertain her. I just do not know if that is a good thing of the "I adore this boy" variety or "god, this loon is amusing to watch while i wait to find someone decent".
Except we keep having fun together and finding more manners in which we are compatible.
It is just a fucking mindfuck at this point. How difficult is it to tell a guy "We can / will date" or "We can / will not date". That seems like a very simple thing to discern for a human being.
For once, do yourself a favor J, stop over thinking things and just enjoy the moment.
How difficult is it to tell a guy "We can / will date" or "We can / will not date". That seems like a very simple thing to discern for a human being.
I know it's such a cliche to say things like "have you interacted with people, at all, before?", _J_, but damn.
On the one hand, _J_, they're right, just because the girl can't make up her mind doesn't mean she's out to get you.
On the other hand, you guys should lighten up on him. It can be really painful in any relationship when you know exactly what you want but the other side has no idea what they want yet.
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So, what do Guardian Angels do? Tell you to stop loudly? How does this work? Aren't they just as likely to get fucked up? Blargh, stupid people.
Basically, and if need be they "defend themselves physically" with their "specialized training" from the higher ups that came over from the states to train them.
So, they basically commit crime while stopping crime? Error
Pretty much. Hence why all the [strike]nutjobs[/strike] winners join up.
So, what do Guardian Angels do? Tell you to stop loudly? How does this work? Aren't they just as likely to get fucked up? Blargh, stupid people.
Basically, and if need be they "defend themselves physically" with their "specialized training" from the higher ups that came over from the states to train them.
So, they basically commit crime while stopping crime? Error
Pretty much. Hence why all the [strike]nutjobs[/strike] winners join up.
At least they are better than the RCMP, as they can actually get charged for crimes...
How difficult is it to tell a guy "We can / will date" or "We can / will not date". That seems like a very simple thing to discern for a human being.
I know it's such a cliche to say things like "have you interacted with people, at all, before?", _J_, but damn.
On the one hand, _J_, they're right, just because the girl can't make up her mind doesn't mean she's out to get you.
On the other hand, you guys should lighten up on him. It can be really painful in any relationship when you know exactly what you want but the other side has no idea what they want yet.
J she said you can date in the future, just not right now.
It means she's interested in you, but emotionally or otherwise not ready to date anyone right now.
Fuck, learn some patience. :?
Or maybe she doesn't want to date him at all and is just stringing him along because some people are cruel.
I really think having no patience is the answer. But that doesn't mean struggling to figure it out. It means moving the fuck on, because really, who has time for this shit?
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So, what do Guardian Angels do? Tell you to stop loudly? How does this work? Aren't they just as likely to get fucked up? Blargh, stupid people.
They basically figure out what is barely legal under "citizen's arrest" rules and then do that. In localities where basically nothing is legal under "citizen's arrest" rules, the Guardian Angels consist of old ladies in red hats and airhorns.
In places that stupidly allow minor assault under "citizens arrest" rules apparently the Guardian Angels are the equivalent of packs of (more) stupidly-dressed Straightedge skinheads.
They were kind of a thing in, I think New York and Philly in the 70s. They tried to come to Boston a year or two ago because of I think a shooting at an afterparty? Anyways Menino sent them packing back to Philly or whatever rock they crawled out from under.
How difficult is it to tell a guy "We can / will date" or "We can / will not date". That seems like a very simple thing to discern for a human being.
I know it's such a cliche to say things like "have you interacted with people, at all, before?", _J_, but damn.
On the one hand, _J_, they're right, just because the girl can't make up her mind doesn't mean she's out to get you.
On the other hand, you guys should lighten up on him. It can be really painful in any relationship when you know exactly what you want but the other side has no idea what they want yet.
Yes, it can be hard when one party is confused.
But calling them evil isn't the healthiest reaction.
J is doing that thing that kids with Asperger's do
where they don't understand social interactions and verbal cues and therefore just assume a person is being malicious towards them.
yeah seriously J
this is r-duckalus
Maybe, but this seems like a sensible way for a thinking thing to act in this situation. How am I supposed to know what will happen if this lady's intentions are not known to me? How am I supposed to plan my day?
As far as I can tell to manifest a situation in which dating occurs the interested party has to make itself available to the party whose adoration is sought. So, I have to be available to her. I have to be within her geographic area, i have to have a free schedule, I have to maintain a situation such that when she wants to hang out I am available to her. If a situation arises in which I am not available then she will spend time with someone else and then, presumably, increase her adoration towards the party who WAS available as opposed to crummy stupid old J who had to write his paper.
So, since I WANT to hang out with her and need to be available I structure my life to be such that I AM available.
Yeah, _J_, if I were you, I'd just stop investing so much effort into her. Ultimately if she does go "I found some hot guy, I'm going to go date him now", there's nothing you can do about it and it really doesn't make her that bad of a person for going for what she wants. I'd say keep on looking.
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Whenever I go on one of my ranty tangents about the topic of her and i not presently dating but maybe in the future dating and my attempts to discern if that will ever happen she usually ends up almost falling off the couch laughing and smiling at me.
I think I entertain her. I just do not know if that is a good thing of the "I adore this boy" variety or "god, this loon is amusing to watch while i wait to find someone decent".
Except we keep having fun together and finding more manners in which we are compatible.
It is just a fucking mindfuck at this point. How difficult is it to tell a guy "We can / will date" or "We can / will not date". That seems like a very simple thing to discern for a human being.
You leave Sammy alone! It's just [STRIKE]a skin condition[/STRIKE] his laser treatment.
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Some bright spark decided it was a good idea for them to be classed as "special constables".
We need to upgrade _J_'s CPU to a ternary processor and implement some fuzzy logic in that thing.
Basically, and if need be they "defend themselves physically" with their "specialized training" from the higher ups that came over from the states to train them.
I know it's such a cliche to say things like "have you interacted with people, at all, before?", _J_, but damn.
He claimed he was black way back during the elections last year. He made arguments against Obama as a "black republican".
If you ask her out, and she says no, she is not willing or able to date you.
If she is not willing or able to date you now, the chances of her being willing or able to date you in the future are incredibly slim.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
So, they basically commit crime while stopping crime? Error
It means she's interested in you, but emotionally or otherwise not ready to date anyone right now.
Fuck, learn some patience. :?
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yeah seriously J
this is r-duckalus
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For once, do yourself a favor J, stop over thinking things and just enjoy the moment.
He's been claiming it longer than that, I think. Unless my sense of time is even more screwed up than I think it is.
I don't know, I didn't care enough to go back and dig. I know just enough for humor purposes. I had no idea black was so in. It's like the new black.
On the one hand, _J_, they're right, just because the girl can't make up her mind doesn't mean she's out to get you.
On the other hand, you guys should lighten up on him. It can be really painful in any relationship when you know exactly what you want but the other side has no idea what they want yet.
Pretty much. Hence why all the [strike]nutjobs[/strike] winners join up.
Down with the lighter gray-blues!
:edit: Dammit!
What was the old black?
It's not.
White.
At least they are better than the RCMP, as they can actually get charged for crimes...
I really think having no patience is the answer. But that doesn't mean struggling to figure it out. It means moving the fuck on, because really, who has time for this shit?
They basically figure out what is barely legal under "citizen's arrest" rules and then do that. In localities where basically nothing is legal under "citizen's arrest" rules, the Guardian Angels consist of old ladies in red hats and airhorns.
In places that stupidly allow minor assault under "citizens arrest" rules apparently the Guardian Angels are the equivalent of packs of (more) stupidly-dressed Straightedge skinheads.
They were kind of a thing in, I think New York and Philly in the 70s. They tried to come to Boston a year or two ago because of I think a shooting at an afterparty? Anyways Menino sent them packing back to Philly or whatever rock they crawled out from under.
Mixed asian-black girls were the old new black.
Yes, it can be hard when one party is confused.
But calling them evil isn't the healthiest reaction.
Face Twit Rav Gram
You two need to fight to the death in order to determine who is correct.
Maybe, but this seems like a sensible way for a thinking thing to act in this situation. How am I supposed to know what will happen if this lady's intentions are not known to me? How am I supposed to plan my day?
As far as I can tell to manifest a situation in which dating occurs the interested party has to make itself available to the party whose adoration is sought. So, I have to be available to her. I have to be within her geographic area, i have to have a free schedule, I have to maintain a situation such that when she wants to hang out I am available to her. If a situation arises in which I am not available then she will spend time with someone else and then, presumably, increase her adoration towards the party who WAS available as opposed to crummy stupid old J who had to write his paper.
So, since I WANT to hang out with her and need to be available I structure my life to be such that I AM available.