Yesterday a therapist suggested that I could try going to a men's divorce support group
"I, uh... look I'm sorry but why would that even be gendered? That seems kinda dumb."
"Ah! Well. Lots of people who are getting divorced, they often become unreasonably angry when they interact with someone the same gender as their ex-spouse. So gender segregation is usually the least risky way to organize a support group."
So like that group's gotta be like an MRA soft pitch right?
Why is there an immediate assumption that a men's support group is negative simply because it's a men's support group?
because of the high correlation?
You're right, men should just hold it in and never be in groups larger than 2.
Honestly, that's not a bad plan.
Precisely. It's better to be a suicide statistic than it is to risk the danger that a man might let their anger out productively in a group setting.
Holy false dichotomy, Batman.
Although, honestly, I can't imagine anything worse than a group of like 10 cisgender hetero white men
Replace race and gender and we've got quite a fucking comment here, don't we?
Wow.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 gay jew men.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 lesbian black women.
How the fuck
Man being in control of everything in a country for hundreds of years will fuck a group of people up!
Being an reasonable fuckhead to people you don't know is a shitty fucking attitude. So fuck you.
I mean, of course there are arrangements of 10 of us that wouldn't be terrible but l, like, on average? I dunno man!
Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
Maybe soon you'll be using terms like "hes one of the good ones" and "but he speaks so well!"
i think straight white men should habitually get into a circle and touch penises
I think it would be good therapy
am I pregnant now?
Yes.
but
which of these twelve men I touched penes with is the father??
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
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zepherinRussian warship, go fuck yourselfRegistered Userregular
I don't know what's going on or who is on what side of the issue, but I'm apparently annoyed for no particular reason.
Ah yes, "fuck men in particular", we were overdo for that comment in chat.
I remain not a fan of that sentiment
but it is interesting to figure out why we have such negative reactions to a men's group, whereas for a women's group we'd probably think 'hm, yeah, makes sense, maybe she needs a safe space because she was abused, or like maybe she didn't work or do the finances and now needs help being independent'
...and I don't really like that train of thought either? Yeah, in principle, given the reality that both men and women often feel more comfortable bro'ing out/opening up within gender lines, there's nothing wrong with the concept of gendered support groups.
all very hetero-assuming here of course
Safe spaces should be safe. If someone doesn't feel comfortable venting about things their wife did or didn't do in front of other women, that's 100% understandable to me. Last thing you want is an ex husband or ex wife to denigrate someone's experiences and pain because "you should've just been better" or "maybe you should've done more" which is what happens frequently when there's a mixing of ideologies (or genders in this case).
It's uncomfortable and it's part of the reason men find it difficult to talk to other people about their problems.
not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
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life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
Ah yes, "fuck men in particular", we were overdo for that comment in chat.
I remain not a fan of that sentiment
but it is interesting to figure out why we have such negative reactions to a men's group, whereas for a women's group we'd probably think 'hm, yeah, makes sense, maybe she needs a safe space because she was abused, or like maybe she didn't work or do the finances and now needs help being independent'
...and I don't really like that train of thought either? Yeah, in principle, given the reality that both men and women often feel more comfortable bro'ing out/opening up within gender lines, there's nothing wrong with the concept of gendered support groups.
all very hetero-assuming here of course
Safe spaces should be safe. If someone doesn't feel comfortable venting about things their wife did or didn't do in front of other women, that's 100% understandable to me. Last thing you want is an ex husband or ex wife to denigrate someone's experiences and pain because "you should've just been better" or "maybe you should've done more" which is what happens frequently when there's a mixing of ideologies (or genders in this case).
It's uncomfortable and it's part of the reason men find it difficult to talk to other people about their problems.
Yeah I agree with you.
I don't think it's good to default assume with no evidence that a group of men is sexist or toxic, even jokingly/lightheartedly. It's...not helpful and I feel it's actively unhelpful.
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HakkekageSpace Whore Academysumma cum laudeRegistered Userregular
Ah yes, "fuck men in particular", we were overdo for that comment in chat.
I remain not a fan of that sentiment
but it is interesting to figure out why we have such negative reactions to a men's group, whereas for a women's group we'd probably think 'hm, yeah, makes sense, maybe she needs a safe space because she was abused, or like maybe she didn't work or do the finances and now needs help being independent'
...and I don't really like that train of thought either? Yeah, in principle, given the reality that both men and women often feel more comfortable bro'ing out/opening up within gender lines, there's nothing wrong with the concept of gendered support groups.
all very hetero-assuming here of course
Safe spaces should be safe. If someone doesn't feel comfortable venting about things their wife did or didn't do in front of other women, that's 100% understandable to me. Last thing you want is an ex husband or ex wife to denigrate someone's experiences and pain because "you should've just been better" or "maybe you should've done more" which is what happens frequently when there's a mixing of ideologies (or genders in this case).
It's uncomfortable and it's part of the reason men find it difficult to talk to other people about their problems.
Yeah I agree with you.
I don't think it's good to default assume with no evidence that a group of men is sexist or toxic, even jokingly/lightheartedly. It's...not helpful and I feel it's actively unhelpful.
listening to a group of men commiserate around their common scorn for the other gender probably has never led to any malicious actions ever you're right
Well i've been in dozens of women's bathrooms bitching about men being scumbags and now women control the world's governments and Hillary Clinton is president
I think I don't have very gendered emotional needs or problems
And I do not relate very well with bros who need to get their bro on
So a gendered support group sounded to me like a bad time
Some people have irrational resentment towards others. Sometimes the only way to work through that irrational resentment is to talk to others they don't irrationally resent until they can heal from a horrible situation they went through.
You may not feel the same way, but if we're going to afford women these things then men should have the same and not be immediately thought of as MRA broskis just looking to shit on women.
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HakkekageSpace Whore Academysumma cum laudeRegistered Userregular
Yesterday a therapist suggested that I could try going to a men's divorce support group
"I, uh... look I'm sorry but why would that even be gendered? That seems kinda dumb."
"Ah! Well. Lots of people who are getting divorced, they often become unreasonably angry when they interact with someone the same gender as their ex-spouse. So gender segregation is usually the least risky way to organize a support group."
So like that group's gotta be like an MRA soft pitch right?
Why is there an immediate assumption that a men's support group is negative simply because it's a men's support group?
because of the high correlation?
You're right, men should just hold it in and never be in groups larger than 2.
Honestly, that's not a bad plan.
Precisely. It's better to be a suicide statistic than it is to risk the danger that a man might let their anger out productively in a group setting.
Holy false dichotomy, Batman.
Although, honestly, I can't imagine anything worse than a group of like 10 cisgender hetero white men
Replace race and gender and we've got quite a fucking comment here, don't we?
Wow.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 gay jew men.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 lesbian black women.
How the fuck
Man being in control of everything in a country for hundreds of years will fuck a group of people up!
Being an reasonable fuckhead to people you don't know is a shitty fucking attitude. So fuck you.
I mean, of course there are arrangements of 10 of us that wouldn't be terrible but l, like, on average? I dunno man!
Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
I don't know that it's stylish or whatever but lots of white men voted to like build a wall and shit! It's weird. I don't want these things but people that are like me do. Most people like me, even.
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jungleroomxIt's never too many graves, it's always not enough shovelsRegistered Userregular
Yesterday a therapist suggested that I could try going to a men's divorce support group
"I, uh... look I'm sorry but why would that even be gendered? That seems kinda dumb."
"Ah! Well. Lots of people who are getting divorced, they often become unreasonably angry when they interact with someone the same gender as their ex-spouse. So gender segregation is usually the least risky way to organize a support group."
So like that group's gotta be like an MRA soft pitch right?
Why is there an immediate assumption that a men's support group is negative simply because it's a men's support group?
because of the high correlation?
You're right, men should just hold it in and never be in groups larger than 2.
Honestly, that's not a bad plan.
Precisely. It's better to be a suicide statistic than it is to risk the danger that a man might let their anger out productively in a group setting.
Holy false dichotomy, Batman.
Although, honestly, I can't imagine anything worse than a group of like 10 cisgender hetero white men
Replace race and gender and we've got quite a fucking comment here, don't we?
Wow.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 gay jew men.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 lesbian black women.
How the fuck
Man being in control of everything in a country for hundreds of years will fuck a group of people up!
Being an reasonable fuckhead to people you don't know is a shitty fucking attitude. So fuck you.
I mean, of course there are arrangements of 10 of us that wouldn't be terrible but l, like, on average? I dunno man!
Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
I don't know that it's stylish or whatever but lots of white men voted to like build a wall and shit! It's weird. I don't want these things but people that are like me do. Most people like me, even.
A lot of white women, too. And a lot of minorities and young people didn't even bother showing up to vote.
Still not an excuse.
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zepherinRussian warship, go fuck yourselfRegistered Userregular
You know I love the atmosphere of Breath of the Wild but I really just want some iconic musical pieces that get stuck in your head ;_;
Even Spirit Tracks has a great song
imo this is one of the biggest problems with dynamic music
it ends up sounding blase because they want it to fade in and out smoothly with the other songs
or for even more dynamic music there is no canonical song, various instruments and melody lines interweave depending on the circumstance
life's a game that you're bound to lose / like using a hammer to pound in screws
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
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HakkekageSpace Whore Academysumma cum laudeRegistered Userregular
Yesterday a therapist suggested that I could try going to a men's divorce support group
"I, uh... look I'm sorry but why would that even be gendered? That seems kinda dumb."
"Ah! Well. Lots of people who are getting divorced, they often become unreasonably angry when they interact with someone the same gender as their ex-spouse. So gender segregation is usually the least risky way to organize a support group."
So like that group's gotta be like an MRA soft pitch right?
Why is there an immediate assumption that a men's support group is negative simply because it's a men's support group?
because of the high correlation?
You're right, men should just hold it in and never be in groups larger than 2.
Honestly, that's not a bad plan.
Precisely. It's better to be a suicide statistic than it is to risk the danger that a man might let their anger out productively in a group setting.
Holy false dichotomy, Batman.
Although, honestly, I can't imagine anything worse than a group of like 10 cisgender hetero white men
Replace race and gender and we've got quite a fucking comment here, don't we?
Wow.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 gay jew men.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 lesbian black women.
How the fuck
Man being in control of everything in a country for hundreds of years will fuck a group of people up!
Being an reasonable fuckhead to people you don't know is a shitty fucking attitude. So fuck you.
I mean, of course there are arrangements of 10 of us that wouldn't be terrible but l, like, on average? I dunno man!
Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
I don't know that it's stylish or whatever but lots of white men voted to like build a wall and shit! It's weird. I don't want these things but people that are like me do. Most people like me, even.
A lot of white women, too. And a lot of minorities and young people didn't even bother showing up to vote.
Still not an excuse.
But, like, less
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zepherinRussian warship, go fuck yourselfRegistered Userregular
mra and the_donald on reddit are not representative of men at large who struggle with problems in their day to day
I opened up last night about something I was struggling with, which was pretty tame, but it's super hard for guys to do that and not everyone has PA's chat to open up to. It was barely anything but it was a lot for me at the time and when I open up like that to people in my personal life, girls and guys alike, I get shut down and told to just man up and deal with it.
Being a guy sucks sometimes and a lot of people just assume we make snide jokes about racism or sexism all the time. Toxic masculinity goes both ways here, it hurts in some ways and helps in others.
not a doctor, not a lawyer, examples I use may not be fully researched so don't take out of context plz, don't @ me
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The hell is going on in here.
Last thing I know we're talking about burning man, I leave for 20min and come back to this shit?
Yesterday a therapist suggested that I could try going to a men's divorce support group
"I, uh... look I'm sorry but why would that even be gendered? That seems kinda dumb."
"Ah! Well. Lots of people who are getting divorced, they often become unreasonably angry when they interact with someone the same gender as their ex-spouse. So gender segregation is usually the least risky way to organize a support group."
So like that group's gotta be like an MRA soft pitch right?
Why is there an immediate assumption that a men's support group is negative simply because it's a men's support group?
because of the high correlation?
You're right, men should just hold it in and never be in groups larger than 2.
Honestly, that's not a bad plan.
Precisely. It's better to be a suicide statistic than it is to risk the danger that a man might let their anger out productively in a group setting.
Holy false dichotomy, Batman.
Although, honestly, I can't imagine anything worse than a group of like 10 cisgender hetero white men
Replace race and gender and we've got quite a fucking comment here, don't we?
Wow.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 gay jew men.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 lesbian black women.
How the fuck
Man being in control of everything in a country for hundreds of years will fuck a group of people up!
Being an reasonable fuckhead to people you don't know is a shitty fucking attitude. So fuck you.
I mean, of course there are arrangements of 10 of us that wouldn't be terrible but l, like, on average? I dunno man!
Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
I don't know that it's stylish or whatever but lots of white men voted to like build a wall and shit! It's weird. I don't want these things but people that are like me do. Most people like me, even.
I don't think "most white men" want a shitty wall. I mean he did lose the popular vote.
I mean, I could be wrong but I hope I'm not.
Exit poll data found that 52 per cent of white women voted for Mr Trump, compared with 63 per cent of white men. By comparison, 80 per cent of black men voted for Hillary Clinton, who also attracted the support of 93 per cent of black women.
I think I don't have very gendered emotional needs or problems
And I do not relate very well with bros who need to get their bro on
So a gendered support group sounded to me like a bad time
Some people have irrational resentment towards others. Sometimes the only way to work through that irrational resentment is to talk to others they don't irrationally resent until they can heal from a horrible situation they went through.
You may not feel the same way, but if we're going to afford women these things then men should have the same and not be immediately thought of as MRA broskis just looking to shit on women.
I think you might be confounding me a bit with people whose comments were more aggressive?
I think for me it would be an unhelpful and uncomfortable environment, so I have no desire to subject myself to it
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jungleroomxIt's never too many graves, it's always not enough shovelsRegistered Userregular
Yesterday a therapist suggested that I could try going to a men's divorce support group
"I, uh... look I'm sorry but why would that even be gendered? That seems kinda dumb."
"Ah! Well. Lots of people who are getting divorced, they often become unreasonably angry when they interact with someone the same gender as their ex-spouse. So gender segregation is usually the least risky way to organize a support group."
So like that group's gotta be like an MRA soft pitch right?
Why is there an immediate assumption that a men's support group is negative simply because it's a men's support group?
because of the high correlation?
You're right, men should just hold it in and never be in groups larger than 2.
Honestly, that's not a bad plan.
Precisely. It's better to be a suicide statistic than it is to risk the danger that a man might let their anger out productively in a group setting.
Holy false dichotomy, Batman.
Although, honestly, I can't imagine anything worse than a group of like 10 cisgender hetero white men
Replace race and gender and we've got quite a fucking comment here, don't we?
Wow.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 gay jew men.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 lesbian black women.
How the fuck
Man being in control of everything in a country for hundreds of years will fuck a group of people up!
Being an reasonable fuckhead to people you don't know is a shitty fucking attitude. So fuck you.
I mean, of course there are arrangements of 10 of us that wouldn't be terrible but l, like, on average? I dunno man!
Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
I don't know that it's stylish or whatever but lots of white men voted to like build a wall and shit! It's weird. I don't want these things but people that are like me do. Most people like me, even.
A lot of white women, too. And a lot of minorities and young people didn't even bother showing up to vote.
Still not an excuse.
But, like, less
I mean, if you want to continue making unreasonably goosey remarks about people according to their race and sexual orientation, have at it.
God I hate retail I feel like my life is draining out of my body and I have 4 more hours left
you work at the place with like handcrafted soap and stuff right?
go find some artisinal potpourri and take a big whiff of it and let the overwhelming smells reinvigorate your weary soul.
Owner has poor soap taste so it all smells too much and creates a headache-causing perfused air thing over the course of the day
I did go smell some earlier before my day was ruined and it was nice then tho so it's possible that I just hate soap rn because I am mad in general
Yesterday a therapist suggested that I could try going to a men's divorce support group
"I, uh... look I'm sorry but why would that even be gendered? That seems kinda dumb."
"Ah! Well. Lots of people who are getting divorced, they often become unreasonably angry when they interact with someone the same gender as their ex-spouse. So gender segregation is usually the least risky way to organize a support group."
So like that group's gotta be like an MRA soft pitch right?
Why is there an immediate assumption that a men's support group is negative simply because it's a men's support group?
because of the high correlation?
You're right, men should just hold it in and never be in groups larger than 2.
Honestly, that's not a bad plan.
Precisely. It's better to be a suicide statistic than it is to risk the danger that a man might let their anger out productively in a group setting.
Holy false dichotomy, Batman.
Although, honestly, I can't imagine anything worse than a group of like 10 cisgender hetero white men
Replace race and gender and we've got quite a fucking comment here, don't we?
Wow.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 gay jew men.
Can't imagine anything worse than a group of like, 10 lesbian black women.
How the fuck
Man being in control of everything in a country for hundreds of years will fuck a group of people up!
Being an reasonable fuckhead to people you don't know is a shitty fucking attitude. So fuck you.
I mean, of course there are arrangements of 10 of us that wouldn't be terrible but l, like, on average? I dunno man!
Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
I don't know that it's stylish or whatever but lots of white men voted to like build a wall and shit! It's weird. I don't want these things but people that are like me do. Most people like me, even.
I don't think "most white men" want a shitty wall. I mean he did lose the popular vote.
I mean, I could be wrong but I hope I'm not.
Exit poll data found that 52 per cent of white women voted for Mr Trump, compared with 63 per cent of white men. By comparison, 80 per cent of black men voted for Hillary Clinton, who also attracted the support of 93 per cent of black women.
I think I don't have very gendered emotional needs or problems
And I do not relate very well with bros who need to get their bro on
So a gendered support group sounded to me like a bad time
Some people have irrational resentment towards others. Sometimes the only way to work through that irrational resentment is to talk to others they don't irrationally resent until they can heal from a horrible situation they went through.
You may not feel the same way, but if we're going to afford women these things then men should have the same and not be immediately thought of as MRA broskis just looking to shit on women.
I think you might be confounding me a bit with people whose comments were more aggressive?
I think for me it would be an unhelpful and uncomfortable environment, so I have no desire to subject myself to it
Everyones different, I apologize if I came off a little heated.
If that isn't your thing, then it's not. The purpose is just to work through the problem, and for a lot of people (myself in included), you sort of get this irrational set of emotions after being kicked to the curb.
But again, we all need to heal. We just all heal a bit differently.
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Sounds incredibly shitty.
If someone said that about black men you'd call them a racist, and you'd be right.
Your attitude sucks, and picking a certain target that is en vogue for other groups of people is not an excusable methodology.
Maybe soon you'll be using terms like "hes one of the good ones" and "but he speaks so well!"
but
which of these twelve men I touched penes with is the father??
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
*raises hands in exasperation*
Safe spaces should be safe. If someone doesn't feel comfortable venting about things their wife did or didn't do in front of other women, that's 100% understandable to me. Last thing you want is an ex husband or ex wife to denigrate someone's experiences and pain because "you should've just been better" or "maybe you should've done more" which is what happens frequently when there's a mixing of ideologies (or genders in this case).
It's uncomfortable and it's part of the reason men find it difficult to talk to other people about their problems.
Great, now I've got this stuck in my head.
@Elki because of course this cunt is a slumlord.
Choose Your Own Chat 1 Choose Your Own Chat 2 Choose Your Own Chat 3
look at this low energy beta cuck exhausted with the tremendous effort of a negative online discussion space! Mockery! Disdain!
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sure
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
I think I don't have very gendered emotional needs or problems
And I do not relate very well with bros who need to get their bro on
So a gendered support group sounded to me like a bad time
Yeah I agree with you.
I don't think it's good to default assume with no evidence that a group of men is sexist or toxic, even jokingly/lightheartedly. It's...not helpful and I feel it's actively unhelpful.
You know I love the atmosphere of Breath of the Wild but I really just want some iconic musical pieces that get stuck in your head ;_;
Even Spirit Tracks has a great song
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Aren't those garbage bins?
people love being shitty on the internet tho
*passes law to only have men's bathrooms*
We all did, Surfpossum.
We all did.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Some people have irrational resentment towards others. Sometimes the only way to work through that irrational resentment is to talk to others they don't irrationally resent until they can heal from a horrible situation they went through.
You may not feel the same way, but if we're going to afford women these things then men should have the same and not be immediately thought of as MRA broskis just looking to shit on women.
I love the Smash Bros mix of the Spirit Tracks song
It's like a jaunty Western ditty
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I don't know that it's stylish or whatever but lots of white men voted to like build a wall and shit! It's weird. I don't want these things but people that are like me do. Most people like me, even.
A lot of white women, too. And a lot of minorities and young people didn't even bother showing up to vote.
Still not an excuse.
imo this is one of the biggest problems with dynamic music
it ends up sounding blase because they want it to fade in and out smoothly with the other songs
or for even more dynamic music there is no canonical song, various instruments and melody lines interweave depending on the circumstance
fuck up once and you break your thumb / if you're happy at all then you're god damn dumb
that's right we're on a fucked up cruise / God is dead but at least we have booze
bad things happen, no one knows why / the sun burns out and everyone dies
I'm sure your socks are exhausted too
HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
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Counterpoint: Doom 2016
But, like, less
I opened up last night about something I was struggling with, which was pretty tame, but it's super hard for guys to do that and not everyone has PA's chat to open up to. It was barely anything but it was a lot for me at the time and when I open up like that to people in my personal life, girls and guys alike, I get shut down and told to just man up and deal with it.
Being a guy sucks sometimes and a lot of people just assume we make snide jokes about racism or sexism all the time. Toxic masculinity goes both ways here, it hurts in some ways and helps in others.
Last thing I know we're talking about burning man, I leave for 20min and come back to this shit?
BAD CHAT!
I'm getting the hose!
I don't think "most white men" want a shitty wall. I mean he did lose the popular vote.
I mean, I could be wrong but I hope I'm not. Fuck I'm wrong we're doomed shut it down
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-elections/who-voted-for-donald-trump-white-men-and-women-most-responsible-for-new-president-elect-voting-data-a7407996.html
I think you might be confounding me a bit with people whose comments were more aggressive?
I think for me it would be an unhelpful and uncomfortable environment, so I have no desire to subject myself to it
I mean, if you want to continue making unreasonably goosey remarks about people according to their race and sexual orientation, have at it.
I had that ad come on spotify once during sex
Yeah sometimes I just want to feel like the bloody HERO OF FUCKING HYRULE YOU KNOW
And that means some sweet fuckin instrumental going apeshit while I'm climbing up this FUCKING MOUNTAIN
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We aren't doomed, andI don't find it problematic to voice my opinion that white men in general need to get their shit together
Nah we did that during penis inspection day at school and it just makes a mess of things
Burning men shouldn't have rights.
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Everyones different, I apologize if I came off a little heated.
If that isn't your thing, then it's not. The purpose is just to work through the problem, and for a lot of people (myself in included), you sort of get this irrational set of emotions after being kicked to the curb.
But again, we all need to heal. We just all heal a bit differently.
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